Radiant:

but won't marry him 'cause she thinks marriage isn't really worth it afterall?

frankiriri:

I think that intentionally bringing children into this world without the attention of both parents is cruel.
There's no way single parent children can be well balanced.

kimba:

@Radiant

lets call a spade a spade. your friend is seriously screwed up. Forget the out-of-wedlock, many kids are born out of wedlock stuff,

She wants to have kids with a man who would take care of her and the kids "on a monthly allowance basis" but she wont marry him, yet she wants to be called mommy? shes wicked. Out of wedlock equals fornication and such a child is a bastard.

ask her: was that the same arrangement that her father and mother made before she was born. Why deprive a child of his right to a family. So at the end of the day, she'll finally see another man who can take care of her better than the first one, and the other guy will find another woman who wants another arrangement. Then both begin fucking around. Her second child might be from another man altogether. She might just become Mrs Jackson. and she'll expect such children to become responsible members of the soceity?

Before, women who had kids out of wedlock were ashamed of themselves. They couldnt say it in public that they even had kids. Now it has become a matter of pride.

methinks: the fact that she allows such a thought to cross her mind, shes sick already. Pray for her. She needs help.