Funtional: Cooks well,manages the home,great with kids,has a job & would score B+ in bed BUT not really beautiful.

Attractive: Not really homely,very attractive,knows how to spend money(latest Louis Vuitton bag,matching make-up with dress,shoe & bag etc) & does miracles in the bedroom.

Faced with this 2 choices for WIFE which would you opt for & why?

No one?,Anyone?

are you sure you're a guy? seems like the kind of thread a woman would start. men don't bother ourselves with such thoughts.

the heart wants what the heart wants.

I will go for the functional one cos B+ in bed is a good grade.

why can't you have both ? why does one need to choose ?

Functional AND Attractive, if you desire this, then you too much be Functional and Wealthy.

Both.
If she is functional then she is attractive (and vice versa).
Beauty they say. . . is in the eyes of the beholder.

A functional wife is also an attractive wife. Maybe you should have said facially attractive wife.

pls how do i post on the home page?i mean how do i start a new thread pls?thank you.

there are a lot of things i look for  in a woman and beauty is the list, A woman is not worth it if she can not keep the home no matter how beautiful she may be. attraction is totally different from functionality a wife most be functional in all aspect, she may not be perfact but functional is ok for me, attraction can wait for later.

I'l go for a very HOT wife anyday anytime . she can always learn to be functional but if she ugly she will be ugly forever

Jairzinho:

Funtional: Cooks well,manages the home,great with kids,has a job & would score B+ in bed BUT not really beautiful.

Attractive: Not really homely,very attractive,knows how to spend money(latest Louis Vuitton bag,matching make-up with dress,shoe & bag etc) & does miracles in the bedroom.

Faced with this 2 choices for WIFE which would you opt for & why?

since when did being attractive become a handicap?

what sops an attractive woman from having all the things listed for the functional?

Ur wife will eventually become whatever u want her to become.

Therefore, i want both, but just about 70% of the B lady will be enough. She will learn d rest.

Seems u dont know what exactly u want. ALL women are beautiful, depends on the angle @which u view them. Being 'functional' sounds perfunctory dont u think. Your post kind of suggests that u want a 'trophy' wife cos datz wat me thinks.

emmydee:

Ur wife will eventually become whatever u want her to become.

Therefore, i want both, but just about 70% of the B lady will be enough. She will learn d rest.

dont believe a lie o boy. this is the undoing of many men. you are struggling with becoming what you want to be why do you think it is easy making women becoming what you want them tio become?

you believe that you can at your own peril.

ashaby:


Seems u dont know what exactly u want. ALL women are beautiful, depends on the angle @which u view them. Being 'functional' sounds perfunctory dont u think. Your post kind of suggests that u want a 'trophy' wife cos datz wat me thinks.

Thatz it!

Isn't that what most dudes are after nowadayz!. . . 'A Trophy Wife'!

For me, I would prefer a FUNCTIONAL WIFE.

Functional of course! Beauty/attractive is abstract, so far the functional wife is SuperB in bed, nothing more.

Jairzinho:

Funtional: Cooks well,manages the home,great with kids,has a job & would score B+ in bed BUT not really beautiful.

Attractive: Not really homely,very attractive,knows how to spend money(latest Louis Vuitton bag,matching make-up with dress,shoe & bag etc) & does miracles in the bedroom.

Faced with this 2 choices for WIFE which would you opt for & why?

Wha you mean not really beautiful?? i'm no way gan settle with a horrible looking lady just because she would be good with kids and cooks well .

Da functional wife would be great but she must look presentable.

For da attractive one thats life signing a death sentence.

Funtionality is priority. If you have functionality and attractiveness in one person, good and fine, but as this is not always the case. I'll choose functionality. No use marry an extremely pretty wife who is 'bitchy'.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. What the eye of the beholder values is what it will see. What you also consider as 'functionality' may also differ. I value intelligence, kindness, resourcefulness, honesty, witty sense of humor, peace and a diplomatic approach to issues. Any lady who does not strike me as having those will get my cold shoulder from day one no matter how 'awesome' her physical attributes may seem to be.

I think you want to marry someone you wish to
live the rest of your life with and not vetting an
applicant's credentials for a position in the ministry.
Bedwise, that wife will only be as satisfying to you
in proportion to her happiness with you.

Jairzinho:

Funtional: Cooks well,manages the home,great with kids,has a job & would score B+ in bed BUT not really beautiful.

Attractive: Not really homely,very attractive,knows how to spend money(latest Louis Vuitton bag,matching make-up with dress,shoe & bag etc) & does miracles in the bedroom.

Faced with this 2 choices for WIFE which would you opt for & why?

are you trying to say attractive woman are specialist in lavishing money
anyway,if your attractiveness cant earn a man anything other than commendation and maybe jealousy,then its bullshit

aguiyi:

are you trying to say attractive woman are specialist in lavishing money
anyway,if your attractiveness cant earn a man anything other than commendation and maybe jealousy,then its bullshit

many people believe a lie. most beautifull people mind their bizness and keep a very peacefull. it is the wowo as that comedian call them people with insecuriues problems that gives you more headache in life.

i dont know why the idea of seeing an ugly person first and last thing daily will appeal to anybody

call me shallow but from experience. I will go for the Attractive one, anyday anytime.

Why?
Because If you have a "Fat Ugly Mama" at home that scores a mere B+ in bed then you're gonna be cheating on her(eventually).Who wants to be seen with a woman who looks like his mom in public(maybe even tying wrapper everywhere).

Whereas an attractive wife that makes your heart skip a beat everytime you see her and score all A's in bed will keep your love life sparkling.
Nannies and House-helps can do all the chores o jare (do you want my pretty wife to break the nails I just paid for?)

I would go for an attractive one. As long as the money she spends is hers and not mine.

Why would I need a functional one thats not attractive? and with a B+ in bed which would make a man rather watch TV than be in the room rocking and destroying the bed.

 

@ OP, u still aint said a thing about shesi's question though ur username doesnt look like a female's craft.

@ topic,
nna, i would go with the functional one.
reasons:
1. "all that glitters is not gold .  .  ."
2. physical beauty fades (that's why there are now wonder-bras, facial lifts, tit-jobs, ass-lifts,  and all other forms of  surgery: plastic or leather  )
3. what do you want from your WIFE when you're fifty?
4. B+ may not be 'the desired excellent' grade in bed, but who says she cant be thot new tricks  (singing: we take it higher till we sitting on top .  .  .)   
5. 'Bedmatics' is a science that can be learned particularly since she's got great managerial skills. 

A functional wifey is 101% desirable to an attractive one.

Functional anyday, anytime.

@ Poster,

I will go for the two: functional and attractive.

If she's not functional, then she's not attractive

dappssee:

If she's not functional, then she's not attractive

You got it right case dismiss!

no he didnt get it right

I will be greedy and want both