i need ur advice
friends. Am engaged and abt to wed. I ve never
visited my man and sleep over in his house for
once except d day he took me there to see the
house b4 he pay for the apartment. I stayed with
my elder sister and her husband. As we re
planning our weeding together my sister told me
dt i need to see him in his house to cost d budget
and analysis every tin we needed. even those dt
re coming.



So i went on Saturday cos he is hosting his
committee of friends in his house n my presence
is needed there.
I couldn't come back dt day in whc i notified my
sister. At night I discovered dt my man snores
and saliva drips out of his mouth in deep sleep.
But d shocking is dt he masturbate:no wonder he
didnt make any move dt night even wen he
entered d bathroom wen am bathing. This things
has killed my spirit and lots of thoughts re going
thru my mind since i returned. To the extend dt
my elder sister n husband noticed my
moodiness.



i was unhappy over every thing and am thinking
of calling it off because ife na asom oyi rinne. pls
Advice me.

PLS ADVICE THIS SISTER

Manage d man lyk dat....BTW husband scarce

I will be right back

What is wrong in masturbation ehn? Abeg make una park well jare. ..

love is about endurance... m sure he would change I mean d masturbation part... den about his sleeping habits most men snore even females so manage... d saliva part jus close his mouth wen he is sleeping

I can deal with snoring and drooling...but masturbating to my face?? Hell no. She should take that sexual part very seriously

Wait o, naughtynaughty engaged?, about to wed??...adonbilivit.

The same man the op told cutehector dat he stole her heart at a filling station


Lwkmd



So he snores, masturbates and drools, any big deal in that? U ain't so ready for marriage smallie.

.....

What happened to communication,??
Talk to him, make him understand ur views/worries.,

Jeez, people are in relationships/commitments/marriages, and they dont knw how to communicate with their partners. That's bad. Oi vey!!

Today she's a divorcee, tomorrow she's engaged, next tomorrow she's single, day after that she's looking for a freak, biko make up ya mind

Only 'sisters' give advice abi

Ama keep my fucking bucal cavity shut.

Divorce him

Is he the same guy u met at the filling station?

naughtynaughty:
i need ur advice friends. Am engaged and abt to wed. I ve never visited my man and sleep over in his house for once except d day he took me there to see the house b4 he pay for the apartment. I stayed with my elder sister and her husband. As we re planning our weeding together my sister told me dt i need to see him in his house to cost d budget and analysis every tin we needed. even those dt re coming.


So i went on Saturday cos he is hosting his committee of friends in his house n my presence is needed there. I couldn't come back dt day in whc i notified my sister. At night I discovered dt my man snores and saliva drips out of his mouth in deep sleep. But d shocking is dt he masturbate:no wonder he didnt make any move dt night even wen he entered d bathroom wen am bathing. This things has killed my spirit and lots of thoughts re going thru my mind since i returned. To the extend dt my elder sister n husband noticed my moodiness.


i was unhappy over every thing and am thinking of calling it off because ife na asom oyi rinne. pls Advice me.
Pls advice my sista

Thank God I chose to be a priest!!!

Talk to him now and assure him he can talk to you too, maturely.

You caught him red handed abi how did you notice he wants?

firstking01:
Wait o, naughtynaught.y engaged?, about to wed??...adonbilivit.

ode wat if am engaged iss it ur engage? Abi is it ur wed?




Honey pls read again I said advice my sista

hifaif1:

Thank God I chose to be a priest!!!

who priest epp?

How can a matured man be drooling, while sleeping? Who does that, in this century Him pillow go dey smell die.. ewwwww mehn.

Let me drop one or two advice

1. Talk to him about the masturbation part. Express ur disgust towards that. Hopefully, he stops it.

2. Unto the snoring part, there's this popular balm they sell at pharmacies. Can't remember the name.. let him apply it before going to bed. He will sleep like a dea person..

EnigmaticEnigma:
Today she's a divorcee, tomorrow she's engaged, next tomorrow she's single, day after that she's looking for a freak, biko make up ya mind

buhahahahahahaha c d way u finish me biko

Dis one is onbehalf of my sista nah

naughtynaughty:
who priest epp?

It helps me to avoid the stress people go through in the name of being in a relationship!!!

As a priest, the only thing I worry about is my soul and the souls of my sheep!!!

babe get a life u created a thread lst year dat u a divorced woman who is now married now u saying you want to marry again. sighs don't know what to tell u

@Naughty..
Well I can understand ur plight..
Talking about the snoring and salivating issh dat is an unconscious thing he does that while sleeping..so u should be able to cope wif that! (Majority of men do snore while sleeping so dats no biggie). You have to swallow that cross. That is the love in marriage believeme!
But the Masturbating part...kai!!
That wie ur focus should be on like sm1 above me said go back to that house n stay. I wld go wif dat... for awhile like 3 or 4 days observe and don't complain just observe and discuss the wanking(masturbating) ish wif him in the cool of the night wen all tension is low n he's vulnerable maybe probably after sex arnd 12 midnite ( believe me most of us (men) can divulge Top government secret during dis hour...lol.. if u Bleep him well) talk to him about ur concerns and let know wat u want! Babe if he doesn't concur! Make I know wetin cause am!

Your sis isn't ready for marriage or lemme say she isn't matured enof for marriage, she needs to grow up, u guys shouldn't rush her into it please

no person can be judged by how they act during their sleeps, because it is unintentional.... so, snoring, drooling, farting, grinding of teeth etc should be understood and/or excused. as for masturbation, that doesnt make any sense.

naughtynaughty:
buhahahahahahaha c d way u finish me biko

Dis one is onbehalf of my sista nah

Hehe, ur sista abi Continue

so you don't snore when you sleep? or saliva doesn't flow from your mouth? how come you didn't help him out while he was jacking it?