A lot of ladies complain that guys walk away
from them simply because they refused to give them sex, some are even tempted to give away their virginity just to keep the guys.

Let me be very blunt here. Virginity may not be the real reason the guys go away. Yes, no doubt,there are several guys who want sex, and if they don’t get it they walk away. The problem may not be with the virginity or the sex.

The story of the Ten virgins in the Bible reveals that both the wise and foolish were both virgins, the other five were not refused from seeing the bridegroom because they were virgins or because they lost their virginity, but because they were foolish; they were called foolish because they had no EXTRA OIL.

Most ladies don’t have any EXTRA OIL to sustain any relationship. While many brag about their virginity, that is all they have to offer, they forget that virginity ends the night after the wedding,but EXTRA OIL is what will keep marriage going.

If a man ask a lady for sex she says NO, the
man can walk away if what he really wanted was sex and also if that is all he thinks the lady can offer him. A man may not come to a lady for sex, along the line he may be tempted to ask for sex, if the lady turns him down, the man may still stay in the relationship if he sees other things that are valuable to him, but if he doesn’t, he may
walk away.

Before you think guys are walking away because you are a virgin, look inwardly. Some ladies who brag about virginity are somewhat timid, some impolite, un cultured and aggressive. Why would a guy stay with such a lady? Some ladies do not have manners,some do not have much upstairs, some are not social, some are dull, and maybe
the best thing they have is their hips, nice
backside, nice breast and nice lips, and so when a guy comes because of all the physical shapes and wants sex, if he is turned down, he walks away because there is nothing else
interesting about the lady.

Most men now are even scared of marrying such virgins. Their fears prompt them to want to test before they discuss marriage because many ladies who got married as virgins have caused their husbands to be looking elsewhere because they are too naïve on bed.
However, you don’t need to test to be sure she will be good, you can know a lady who will be good at home and bed by her decent
conversation, by the level of knowledge acquired,by her quest/zest passion for knowledge and by God’s leading. I know of many ladies who are still virgins, they have great relationships, they have many friends around them, you may not even know they are still virgins unless they tell you.

Do not break your virginity because a guy wants to walk away, unless you don’t have anything else to offer in the relationship. It is not all about virginity, work to build up virtue. Virginity is good, but to your virginity, add knowledge, add EXTRA OIL….“And beside this, giving all diligence, add to your faith,virtue; and to virtue, knowledge; And to
knowledge, temperance; and to temperance,
patience; and to patience, godliness, And to
godliness, brotherly kindness; and to brotherly kindness, charity.” 2Pet. 1:5-7.

Virginity or no virginity...,do you have any extra oil to sustain a relationship?
Ponder on this my distinguished ladies!!!

OP, you're so right. Just the truth

so true... EXTRA OIL is really needed to sustain the (love) light.

Oh! i thought the extra oil was lubrication

Op you are right

Make i help una call Lalasticala... he fit put am for fp

I love this... Nice article!





Some girls will be like, sex is not love, love is not sex

Some girls we still need like, no money no love

Some girls will come with, no money no sex

Can someone summarize this for me? Is too long jooor

falconey:
Oh! i thought the extra oil was lubrication


Op you are right

I thought so too...


Great minds thinks alike

you have said it all

Oma307:
Can someone summarize this for me? Is too long jooor

He advised ladies to have extra oil...nothing more.

Olive oil is still the best.

U should be in the vineyard if u think the Op is talking about olive oil

Enypie:
Olive oil is still the best.

That mean the op is on a long thing

KashyBaby:



He advised ladies to have extra oil...nothing more.

Where is this Lala guy abi lacasera to move this to the promised land

Oma307:
That mean the op is on a long thing

KashyBaby:




I thought so too...

Great minds thinks alike

Mrcork it is not what you think, i am not eyeing her.

falconey:



Mrcork it is not what you think, i am not eyeing her.

Hahahahhhhaa! So ur best friend with him huh?

Enypie:
Olive oil is still the best.

what of palm oil hmmm


get it right

he is not talking about oil but some thing extra

eg character, etc

Good writeup @op

robosky02:


what of palm oil hmmm


get it right

he is not talking about oil but some thing extra

eg character, etc

Lool.. I was only looking for cool trouble.

Oma307:
U should be in the vineyard if u think the Op is talking about olive oil

And you ain't even the Op. I read the post right. Thanks.

Enypie:


Lool.. I was only looking for cool trouble.

issorite

how are you

its been a while

U are welcome

Enypie:

And you ain't even the Op. I read the post right. Thanks.

korect!

robosky02:


issorite

how are you

its been a while

I'm fine and trying to cope with our sliced up Country. You?