HolyHero:
Maybe your pussy_ is not tight enough... Am just saying

HolyHero:
Maybe your pussy_ is not tight enough... Am just saying

sinaj:
So he wants to loose the front and back for ur future hubby

sinaj:
So he wants to loose the front and back for ur future hubby

HurricaneMIMZY:



It's okay to want to spice up their sex life but both have to be comfortable with it.




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khristals:
if he asks u for anal sex... this is what he means


" hey sugar, I don't mean to be rude but ur vagina has gotten way past its elastic limit and none of that is my fault.. would u mind giving me a much smaller hole to penetrate?"

ournaijablog:
John and I have been dating for a few months, everything was going well and I was having the time of my life. I was happy and in love and John always took care of me, making sure I wanted for nothing. The sex was awesome and adventurous and we were always trying new things then few nights ago he dropped a bombshell “Nneka I want to have anal sex with you”.

Anal sex? I said, he said yes; well I told him I wasn’t interested in having it with anyone not now not ever! I have heard how painful and unsafe it was and I wasn’t ready to have a leaking anus. Yesterday night he asked again, saying if I really loved him I would do it with him or he would go do it with someone else, my heat broke; why was I so unlucky with love I asked myself? I love John a lot and I might just do it with him.

This story up there is what a lot of women go through. They are emotionally blackmailed in the name of love, “if you love me you would do this, you would do that”, Love has no price tag.

There has always been a debate on how safe anal sex is, while some have argued it is very safe others believe it helps in the spread of infections. The anus is full of bacteria, even if both partners do not have a sexually transmitted disease; bacteria normally in the anus can potentially affect the giving partner. Practicing vaginal sex after anal sex can also lead to vaginal and urinary tract infections.

These are the common misconceptions about anal sex

It will hurt; it doesn’t have to if done correctly.

Once it hurt it will always hurt; this is not true.

Having anal sex will save your sex life; do not let anyone deceive you, having anal sex should be a choice you willing and solemnly take by yourself, you shouldn’t be coerced or forced or blackmailed into giving it.

Only sluts have anal sex; this is a big lie millions of women around the world enjoy anal sex.

Your man won’t respect you later; sometimes it helps partners get emotionally closer like they have share a part of themselves with each other.

It will cause you physical damage; well any type of sex done wrongly will cause physical damage.

You don’t need to use condoms while having anal sex; yes you can’t get pregnant having anal sex but the risk of infection is very high.

Your anus will get all stretched out; this is purely a misconception, this depends on your ability to relax and have it in a healthy way. The same way the vaginal can accommodate al types of joysticks and never stretch so can the anus.

It is literally dirty; this is probably one of the biggest misconceptions about anal sex. The anus and the lower part of the rectum actually have very little fecal material in them, which means it tends not to be as dirty as you think it is. This doesn’t mean you have to transfer the elements into the vaginal by having anal sex and then vaginal sex because they are two different environments, if you’re going to have anal sex and vagina sex make sure after anal se you wash with an antimicrobial soap.

Anal sex can be enjoyed, safe and painless but it has to be a choice you should make by yourself and not your partner blackmailing you into it, it will not help boost your relationship when you aren’t doing it for the love of it. If your partner insists on it I think it’s time you walk away.

Ibeji Isabella.

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