idu1:
naija hard small. Stay and develop your creache into a nursery school from there u go dey go small. Before u know it u ll be employing this jobless graduates on nairaland. Dont close it. Do your best and leave the rest.

Thanks...I appreciate

telemapreye1:
Good evening nairalanders.
Pls I want to implore all of us especially parents to watch yourself or what you do in presence of your kids.I run a creche and i accept kids from 2m to 6yrs old.
The creche is a mixed creche(boys and girls)...Recently i noticed something,one of the boys who is just 1year and 3month usually stare at the female children private part anytime they are both naked so I separated them until yesterday I caught him manipulating the other girl of 11 month,shock was an understatement,i flogged him and warned him never to again try it again.
Today i saw the other girl of 1yr mimicking her parent sex moves moaning saying things like(oooooo)i was shocked and ashamed,i flogged her and promise to tell her mum.
The big question is
Is it their fault?
To me it's isn't their fault,i blame parent who still allow their 1yr old kids sleep in the same room with them,they aren't dumb neither are they deaf,they see everything that happens in that bedroom.

madam thanks for the write up but the truth is that a child of 1 year 3 months does not know anything. I am a mother, i have 2 kids and i raised them up with my hubby. We didn't employ house help. Toddlers touch anything they see even parts of their bodies. My last daughter, she is 1 year 3months, she likes touching my stomach and my head. Once they see anything, the next thing they do is to touch. So the best thing is to separate them ie: the boys from the girls when changing their diapers if not they will want to touch. The boy is innocent.

telemapreye1:
Good evening nairalanders.
Pls I want to implore all of us especially parents to watch yourself or what you do in presence of your kids.I run a creche and i accept kids from 2m to 6yrs old.
The creche is a mixed creche(boys and girls)...Recently i noticed something,one of the boys who is just 1year and 3month usually stare at the female children private part anytime they are both naked so I separated them until yesterday I caught him manipulating the other girl of 11 month,shock was an understatement,i flogged him and warned him never to again try it again.
Today i saw the other girl of 1yr mimicking her parent sex moves moaning saying things like(oooooo)i was shocked and ashamed,i flogged her and promise to tell her mum.
The big question is
Is it their fault?
To me it's isn't their fault,i blame parent who still allow their 1yr old kids sleep in the same room with them,they aren't dumb neither are they deaf,they see everything that happens in that bedroom.

If it's not their fault, why are you flogging them Besides, how sane is it to flog a child of one year or one year plus?
The parents are abusing the kids at home and you are doing worse in school, how different are you from them?
Did you call the concerned parents to let them know what you observed or you think flogging the innocent kids is the solution?
Ya'll should be in jail right now #pissed

Kimoni:


If it's not their fault, why are you flogging them Besides, how sane is it to flog a child of one year or one year plus?
The parents are abusing the kids at home and you are doing worse in school, how different are you from them?
Did you call the concerned parents to let them know what you observed or you think flogging the innocent kids is the solution?
Ya'll should be in jail right now #pissed

come and jailed me...Mr pissed

ITbomb:
Who taught them this?
First time I saw this, I was alarmed but now I'm scared

modern parents have become part-time parents, delegating parenting to house helps and nannies who see these kids as mere duties to be done for monthly pay.

No nanny would censor movies or phone convo from these kids or teach them morals. It's the 21st century where we will pay away our morality as a price for the pursuit of economic aquirement.

telemapreye1:
I will but i fear they might feel offended.

Offended?? Is your crèche licensed? Whoever issued you that license should be behind bars

chibedo:






madam thanks for the write up but the truth is that a child of 1 year 3 months does not know anything. I am a mother, i have 2 kids and i raised them up with my hubby. We didn't employ house help. Toddlers touch anything they see even parts of their bodies. My last daughter, she is 1 year 3months, she likes touching my stomach and my head. Once they see anything, the next thing they do is to touch. So the best thing is to separate them ie: the boys from the girls when changing their diapers if not they will want to touch. The boy is innocent.

Already done that..they are now in separate rooms

jam04:
Did I hear you say you 'flog' a 1yr old baby? Your creche need to be closed down!!

And a 1 year old should be getting jail time!

Kimoni:


Offended?? Is your crèche licensed? Whoever issued you that license should be behind bars

Just hold ur lips there
What your problem?if you read from page 1,you will see i already solved it.
Besides I created this topic since may

jossy26:


madam please stop exaggerating and your creche must be closed down asap cos you doing more damage to those kids thats if you not lieing

pls tell her o
I am beginning to think this story is just a figment of her imagination sef

telemapreye1:
Already done that..they are now in separate rooms

that's ok. All the best.

claremont:


Be careful, that is considered child abuse in other climes.

What would you do if you got to your 2year old daughter school and you find her being sexually manipulated by a boy?

You will just smile and walk away

Don't bleeping lie to yourself.

What's dis one saying? Mtcheew!

banmee:


Which is why you all keep grooming animals on a daily basis. What has your flogging achieved in over half a century? The purpose of corrective training is to rehabilitate a child to become a positive impact on their family and the society. The Nigerian society is getting worse by the day. Only mentally lazy parents with zero problem solving skills result to brute force.

Kimoni:


pls tell her o
I am beginning to think this story is just a figment of her imagination sef

Don't allow my matter kill you...How will a Normal human being make up this kind of story?

Parents need to understand that the sensory neurons in the brain of kids are more sensitive than adults, they retain more information and as quickly as possible. However what they do with this information matters a lot. Just last week in my area a boy of about four years and a girl of the age of three where caught doin "husband " and "wife".

Whytdot:
What's dis one saying? Mtcheew!

I will ask a series of questions and i guarantee you that based on your inability to think logically, you will not be able to answer them. Wanna bet?

ITbomb:
Who taught them this?
First time I saw this, I was alarmed but now I'm scared

werr did dey learn from

telemapreye1:
Don't allow my matter kill you...How will a Normal human being make up this kind of story?

On the contrary, I am just trying to ensure you don't kill urself over other people's matter. Learn how to handle children first before opening a crèche so as not to land in jail one day.

Truth is on the states, that's 5 years in jail or what you just did.its wrong to beat kids that age nor even spank.you should learn alternative way of correction cos am sure that kid did understand why you beat him in the first place

Kimoni:


On the contrary, I am just trying to ensure you don't kill urself on top other people matter. Learn how to handle children first before opening a crèche so as not to land in jail one day.

At least I'm better than your.......who decided to do olosho.
Sorry for the insult,you pushed me.

@Poster you do not have the right to flog children and especially other people's children. It is expressly wrong. I do not think I can remember things I did when I was 9 - 12 months. Please, kids explore and want to know their environment.

If I am a parent who child is in your creche, I would sue you crazily and that is after I have flogged you too.

telemapreye1:
I will but i fear they might feel offended.

offended about what?their carelessness or ignorance?
The truth is telluing them will make them conscious of their acts b4 their kids,wich will help and save the kids'future.Above all,inform all parents with kids In your creche,you never can tell

At op, are u sure they didn't learn it from u?

telemapreye1:
At least I'm better than your.......who decided to do olosho.
Sorry for the insult,you pushed me.

Feel free, just stop beating kids like goats

How did u know d 1year old girl was mimicking her parent sex sound
#jusaskingthou#

Bt u can flog urs abi?

ashewos are getting younger and younger by the day.

Parents...watch what kind person be watching over your kid at crecbe OP.... why would you flog a child if the child is not at fault? (and don't pretend you didn't read this part). Your creche should be shut down period. You have no idea of what type of behaviour to expect from kids at certain ages.... that is bad..but what is wayyyy worse is your insisting on being ignorant and at the same time being arrogant. Kids all over the world at certain ages do certain things...regardless of if their parents live in one room or mansion. You be flogging kids for sexual misconduct....something they have no clue about. The more you write is the more your ignorance and clueless Ness is showing. I dare you to respond. If you ever want to be in this kind profession....Google is free...educate yourself on the psychological development of a child.

U have got to tell the parents or else u have not helped anybody.

telemapreye1:
I will but i fear they might feel offended.

Kimoni:


Feel free, just stop beating kids like goats

You have comprehension issue
Pls read and comprehend.

Originalsly:
Parents...watch what kind person be watching over your kid at crecbe OP.... why would you flog a child if the child is not at fault? (and don't pretend you didn't read this part). Your creche should be shut down period. You have no idea of what type of behaviour to expect from kids at certain ages.... that is bad..but what is wayyyy worse is your insisting on being ignorant and at the same time being arrogant. Kids all over the world at certain ages do certain things...regardless of if their parents live in one room or mansion. You be flogging kids for sexual misconduct....something they have no clue about. The more you write is the more your ignorance and clueless Ness is showing. I dare you to respond. If you ever want to be in this kind profession....Google is free...educate yourself on the psychological development of a child.

Read my write up and comprehend.
I'm so sure you aren't married