Ifakiland:

very false my bro, wen a gal starts calling a guy bestie, it means she sees him as a non-sexual organism. Unless d guy rapes her, notin sexual can happen btw dem.

Ifakiland:

very false my bro, wen a gal starts calling a guy bestie, it means she sees him as a non-sexual organism. Unless d guy rapes her, notin sexual can happen btw dem.

Oliviaarims:


He simply wants to impart a larger "audience."

Hexzyz:
I refuse to be any girls bestie or whatever they call it. Once I know it is what you are planning towards, making me your emotional back drop, I severe communication.

0ubenji:

Who says its NL fp is the only definition of 'larger' audience sir?

Wahalaboy:


Ehn have you sha followed the link I posted

Daliano:


After your articles, tag a moderator. They reserve the right to move your posts to the front page.Just like this.

Cc:Lalasticlala,seun

SuperSkata:
If your girl tells you she has a male bestie.......DUMP HER ASAP!!! That is the first sign of Ashawo

ireneony:
op what do you want me to do now, since I relate more with males than females

Fidelismaria:



U ve got a kylie jenner lips
Muah
I love it

Laveda:


I agree with some points the Op stated up there.

But this your mentality is totally out of this world..
Jeeez

MrsPhyno:
Point of correction, we don't prefer them to our female friends. We can have both ya know
In general, you're right tho. Male friends can have an effect on a ladies relationship, but that won't stop us from having them. We want it all.

adaksbullet:
While we mine gf as besty wen am hear do lovin u for her.... his she craz? Me I canot let mine gf as male frnd o curse male ppl his bad and am a emosional sombody so her too have male besty his no no no no for me

Wahalaboy:


https://www.facebook.com/permalink.php?id=1415377562092632&story_fbid=1500237250273329

faithugo64:
very true


op how about female besties?

Dojupyo:
I love keeping guys as friends cos they are reliable, and your secrets can be kept with them (dem mature and responsible ones o), but having a male as my bestie, when I'm dating someone isn't right... Your boyfriend or husband/ girlfriend or wife should be your bestie to avoid stories that touches the heart

Wahalaboy:
I'm sorry I'm a bit new here and I don't know how things are done here. But why is everyone talking about OP, I wrote this post and posted it na.

VanUrch:


Hehehe..oga you are the OP naa..no fear yet..A comment on a topic is called a "post"...so "OP" stands for "Original Poster"...so your topic is the "OP"..the original post...do you understand?

Wahalaboy:
And Oubenji, just in case ure doubting if I'm Victor Daniel, you can check my nairaland profile for my details. Thank you.

Wahalaboy:
And Oubenji, just in case ure doubting if I'm Victor Daniel, you can check my nairaland profile for my details. Thank you.

GreyLaw:


You should not be replying all kinds of people. That guy doesn't believe that people can be intelligent and original. That somebody copied your post doesn't make yours fake. Keep up the good work jare!

naijaboiy:
Nice thread. Well as a guy I wouldn't give room for my girlfriend to have any bestie of any sort.

First of all I would try my best to be everything the so called bestie would want to be. I would be her shoulder to cry on and at the same time the dick to ride on.

Nevertheless I would still watch out for those stubborn guys who are always relentless in being a girl's bestie by all means. I'll warn her about them and make sure she knows my stand. The problem is that these girls never hear. They will keep telling you that they can control it and that nothing will happen. Don't believe that shït because these girls are as weak as anything weak when it comes to emotions.

Be the bestie she never had and if she still misbehaves to be keeping male besties outside then you may have to walk away since she's not ready.

As for the female bestie for girls, that one can be handled.