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Is Being Faithful Hard? by layla129(f): 4:47pm On Apr 29, 2016
A lot of people say it is easy. If being faithful is easy, then why do so many people cheat?
To be clear, i'm not talking about physical encounters. The act of cheating don't leap to the physical. You often work you way up to the physical point. What about all those missteps you took on your way there? Steps you overlook or ignore like sexting with another person, constant messages to an ex when you're in a new relationship, late night chats and so on.

Then, there's real life where you eventually meet this person and execute your plans.

Being faithful is more about avoiding situations that can lead to infidelity.
Re: Is Being Faithful Hard? by ENIGMA24(m): 4:52pm On Apr 29, 2016
Being faithful is easy.....
Cheating is hard....
You need to clear chats
You need to lie
You need to remember lies
You need friends to help u out of sloppy lies
You need plenty luck not to get caught with tym
Being a cheat is tiring...
But then....the question is...
If I am faithful to her....
Is she faithful to me?
Cos sometyms we all can be faithful to the wrong person....
This doesn't answer your question tho...
Just helped me let out my view on cheating and faithfulness... smiley

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Re: Is Being Faithful Hard? by nikkypearl(f): 4:54pm On Apr 29, 2016
nothing is easy in this life..we just keep trying.. to some, being faithful is innate, and to some..it is inevitable! ! i dont think i'm making any sense sef
Re: Is Being Faithful Hard? by layla129(f): 4:55pm On Apr 29, 2016
nikkypearl:
nothing is easy in this life..we just keep trying.. i dont think i'm making any sense sef

Lmao! I love your sincerity
Re: Is Being Faithful Hard? by pennytration(m): 4:57pm On Apr 29, 2016
Many pple go into relationships cos of lust nd not love, dats y dey will always end up cheating.
Re: Is Being Faithful Hard? by ImDharay: 4:58pm On Apr 29, 2016

hmmm, not sayinq.
Re: Is Being Faithful Hard? by layla129(f): 4:59pm On Apr 29, 2016
ENIGMA24:
Being faithful is easy.....
Cheating is hard....
You need to clear chats
You need to lie
You need to remember lies
You need friends to help u out of sloppy lies
You need plenty luck not to get caught with tym
Being a cheat is tiring...
But then....the question is...
If I am faithful to her....
Is she faithful to me?
Cos sometyms we all can be faithful to the wrong person....
This doesn't answer your question tho...
Just helped me let out my view on cheating and faithfulness... smiley

Lol, thanks for contributing all the same. If she cheats, she just doesn't love you...there's no justification for it
Re: Is Being Faithful Hard? by layla129(f): 5:00pm On Apr 29, 2016
ImDharay:

hmmm, not sayinq.

Lool, face of a cheater
Re: Is Being Faithful Hard? by AlienStar: 5:03pm On Apr 29, 2016
Being faithful ain't hard tho it can be tiring, like watching one tv channel always, non-stop.
Some people may find cheating as fun, like, "variety is the spice of life".
Re: Is Being Faithful Hard? by nikkypearl(f): 5:03pm On Apr 29, 2016
layla129:

Lmao! I love your sincerity
grin
Re: Is Being Faithful Hard? by layla129(f): 5:04pm On Apr 29, 2016
pennytration:
Many pple go into relationships cos of lust nd not love, dats y dey will always end up cheating.

Some people claim they love the person and still cheat. Especially you guys. A guy will say he has a girl he wants to marry and still have two other chics he sleeps with. How do you guys do it?
Re: Is Being Faithful Hard? by ImDharay: 5:04pm On Apr 29, 2016
layla129:


Lool, face of a cheater
hmhm, yhu wish,
cuz i av a diff reason f0r dat text.
Re: Is Being Faithful Hard? by layla129(f): 5:08pm On Apr 29, 2016
ImDharay:

hmhm, yhu wish,
cuz i av a diff reason f0r dat text.

Ok, Let's hear it
Re: Is Being Faithful Hard? by layla129(f): 5:10pm On Apr 29, 2016
AlienStar:
Being faithful ain't hard tho it can be tiring, like watching one tv channel always, non-stop.
Some people may find cheating as fun, like, "variety is the spice of life".

It starts with this reason and then it becomes very difficult to stop
Re: Is Being Faithful Hard? by naijamakossa(m): 5:13pm On Apr 29, 2016
very hard for men,,,don't ask me why because I can't even tell
Re: Is Being Faithful Hard? by Odunharry(m): 5:14pm On Apr 29, 2016
Fidelity is easy and can be hard at the same time..
If you as a person is always fond of cheating, trust me been faithful will be hard.
On the other hand, it really take a strong determination not to cheat especially when guys/girls who look better(finance, humor, caring aspect, looks etc) are always around..

Op, if you thinking of cheating, don't harbor the thought.








In other news, Vote Mysticgal for Miss Nairaland

Re: Is Being Faithful Hard? by Marlvin(m): 5:15pm On Apr 29, 2016
Delete texts, upset a nerve when your partner touches your phone.
*lock phone with password

*ignore some calls which would sure raise eyebrows when with your partner.

*sneak to a hidden corner, speak in low tone.
*Tell lies , think up another lie to back it up !


All these to keep your game tight when cheating !


BEING FAITHFUL IS A WHOLE LOT EASIER, NO STRESS !

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Re: Is Being Faithful Hard? by layla129(f): 5:23pm On Apr 29, 2016
Marlvin:
Delete texts, upset a nerve when your partner touches your phone.

*lock phone with password


*ignore some calls which would sure raise eyebrows when with your partner.


*sneak to a hidden corner, speak in low tone.

*Tell lies , think up another lie to back it up !



All these to keep your game tight when cheating !



BEING FAITHFUL IS A WHOLE LOT EASIER, NO STRESS !

With all the listed disadvantages, i don't know why some people still find cheating rewarding and even brag about it
Re: Is Being Faithful Hard? by pennytration(m): 5:23pm On Apr 29, 2016
layla129:


Some people claim they love the person and still cheat. Especially you guys. A guy will say he has a girl he wants to marry and still have two other chics he sleeps with. How do you guys do it?
Those type of guys r attracted to gals cos of dere physcal looks nd beauty. Dat kind of love wont last. So dey will always cheat.

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Re: Is Being Faithful Hard? by AlienStar: 5:29pm On Apr 29, 2016
Yeah, Exactly! it eats deep like cankerworm, until the relationship is wrecked.
layla129:


It starts with this reason and then it becomes very difficult to stop
Re: Is Being Faithful Hard? by ImDharay: 5:30pm On Apr 29, 2016
layla129:


Ok, Let's hear it
i met sum1 recently, complaining
abt hw bad Romance section has bcum &
statinq she will soon b out of dat section soon.
i challenged her daht she doesn't
av wah it takes to leave...which i won.
surprisingly, she has been creating threads
on daht same section she wantd to exit fr0m
in which one of d threads reached FP.

tongue answered..?
Re: Is Being Faithful Hard? by mysticgal(f): 5:38pm On Apr 29, 2016
Odunharry:
Fidelity is easy and can be hard at the same time..
If you as a person is always fond of cheating, trust me been faithful will be hard.
On the other hand, it really take a strong determination not to cheat especially when guys/girls who look better(finance, humor, caring aspect, looks etc) are always around..

Op, if you thinking of cheating, don't harbor the thought.







In other news, Vote Mysticgal for Miss Nairaland


Faithfulness is what one should be determined to achieve, at least to save yourself from emotional stress.






Vote Mysticgal for Miss Nairaland 2016. Vote simplicity, sincerity and singularity.
Re: Is Being Faithful Hard? by Odunharry(m): 5:48pm On Apr 29, 2016
mysticgal:



Faithfulness is what one should be determined to achieve, at least to save yourself from emotional stress.






Vote Mysticgal for Miss Nairaland 2016. Vote simplicity, sincerity and singularity.



True that.. honestly it's very stressful getting to delete pics, chats, text etc and the thought of lying everytime is a big work in my opinion..
If one wants to cheat, it best they remain single instead of making their partner go thru torture and pains..

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Re: Is Being Faithful Hard? by PonmileJ: 5:48pm On Apr 29, 2016
ENIGMA24:
Being faithful is easy.....
Cheating is hard....
You need to clear chats
You need to lie
You need to remember lies
You need friends to help u out of sloppy lies
You need plenty luck not to get caught with tym
Being a cheat is tiring...
But then....the question is...
If I am faithful to her....
Is she faithful to me?
Cos sometyms we all can be faithful to the wrong person....
This doesn't answer your question tho...
Just helped me let out my view on cheating and faithfulness... smiley

Well said
Re: Is Being Faithful Hard? by Odunharry(m): 5:48pm On Apr 29, 2016
mysticgal:



Faithfulness is what one should be determined to achieve, at least to save yourself from emotional stress.






Vote Mysticgal for Miss Nairaland 2016. Vote simplicity, sincerity and singularity.



True that.. honestly it's very stressful getting to delete pics, chats, text etc and the thought of lying everytime is a big work in my opinion..
If one wants to cheat, it best they remain single instead of making their partner go thru torture and pains..





vote Mysticgal as Miss Nairaland 2016....
Mysticgal lo sure juu

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Re: Is Being Faithful Hard? by djgrafiti(m): 5:54pm On Apr 29, 2016
layla129:
A lot of people say it is easy. If being faithful is easy, then why do so many people cheat?
To be clear, i'm not talking about physical encounters. The act of cheating don't leap to the physical. You often work you way up to the physical point. What about all those missteps you took on your way there? Steps you overlook or ignore like sexting with another person, constant messages to an ex when you're in a new relationship, late night chats and so on.

Then, there's real life where you eventually meet this person and execute your plans.

Being faithful is more about avoiding situations that can lead to infidelity.
Being faithful is easy,cheating is harder.,

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Re: Is Being Faithful Hard? by mysticgal(f): 5:57pm On Apr 29, 2016
Odunharry:

True that.. honestly it's very stressful getting to delete pics, chats, text etc and the thought of lying everytime is a big work in my opinion..
If one wants to cheat, it best they remain single instead of making their partner go thru torture and pains..





vote Mysticgal as Miss Nairaland 2016....
Mysticgal lo sure juu
My dear oh, abeg make person rest. Who double dating don epp undecided



Vote Mystically, vote mysticsense, vote mysticgal.
Re: Is Being Faithful Hard? by layla129(f): 6:24pm On Apr 29, 2016
ImDharay:

i met sum1 recently, complaining
abt hw bad Romance section has bcum &
statinq she will soon b out of dat section soon.
i challenged her daht she doesn't
av wah it takes to leave...which i won.
surprisingly, she has been creating threads
on daht same section she wantd to exit fr0m
in which one of d threads reached FP.

tongue answered..?

Lool, what has that got with this now ehn?
Re: Is Being Faithful Hard? by ImDharay: 6:27pm On Apr 29, 2016
layla129:


Lool, what has that got with this now ehn?
nuffin, qood ²see u flowinq alonq.
Re: Is Being Faithful Hard? by Michellla(f): 6:36pm On Apr 29, 2016
its kinda hard
Re: Is Being Faithful Hard? by KingRex1(m): 6:49pm On Apr 29, 2016
Is there somthin like cheating while single...? Hmm just thinkin.
Well, i never cheat once am in a relationship.
Re: Is Being Faithful Hard? by Nobody: 6:54pm On Apr 29, 2016
It's a personal decision.

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