My girlfriend and I are planning marriage soon. Something happened last week as in a minor misunderstanding. She insulted the hell outta me and even went as far as shaking my hands and head as if she was challenging me to a physical scuffle. Dumbfounded, I was like "what a wife-like behaviour?". I don't intend continuing with the relationship anymore. Have I overreacted?
Your views please.
Note: She's the nagging type and always unrepentant even if at fault.

You did not overreact

Let her go while you still can

blacq2009:
My girlfriend and I are planning marriage soon. Something happened last week as in a minor misunderstanding. She insulted the hell outta me and even went as far as shaking my hands and head as if she was challenging me to a physical scuffle. Dumbfounded, I was like "what a wife-like behaviour?". I don't intend continuing with the relationship anymore. Have I overreacted?
Note: She's the nagging type and always unrepentant even if at fault.

She could make a TeeBillz out of you. Go get a suicide button!

Chai. This disrespect is monumental. Me I cannot honestly advice you to marry such a woman. The day she go slap you in front of your siblings, e go do you like dream.

Hehe..

Guy, Happiness = Life.

Distort this equation in anyway then you just another human strolling on earth and waiting for his/her day of passing.

What am I saying?..

Don't become another Teebillz, don't be naive. Marriage isn't something you jump into because of sex or looks or even because you're insecure...

You have to be absolutely sure that you're ready to spend your entire earth life, or even in the next life, with her.

If you ever doubt this, or have mixed feelings about this... Walk away.


The earlier the better.

nigeriancritic1:
She could make a TeeBillz out of you. Go get a suicide button!

You get bad mouth no be small. Lol

You no slap am?

blacq2009:
You get bad mouth no be small. Lol

I refer you to my signature!

Did Op just say nagging? mehn... a nagging women can enter your head and make someone lose every bit of happiness in life .

iPrevail:
Hehe..

Guy, Happiness = Life.

Distort this equation in anyway then you just another human strolling on earth and waiting for his/her day of passing.

What am I saying?..

Don't become another Teebillz, don't be naive. Marriage isn't something you jump into because of sex or looks or even because you're insecure...

You have to be absolutely sure that you're ready to spend your entire earth life, or even in the next life, with her.

If you ever doubt this, or have mixed feelings about this... Walk away.


The earlier the better.

Thanks.

Can only answer your question when she tells us her own side of the 'story'

ronald4lif:
You no slap am?

Thought her reason would command her to stop.

I can never marry a woman who insults the daylight out of me.... Life has taught me that even if it takes me fifteen years to ask a woman out, it would be worth the patience.

blacq2009:
My girlfriend and I are planning marriage soon. Something happened last week as in a minor misunderstanding. She insulted the hell outta me and even went as far as shaking my hands and head as if she was challenging me to a physical scuffle. Dumbfounded, I was like "what a wife-like behaviour?". I don't intend continuing with the relationship anymore. Have I overreacted?
Your views please.

Note: She's the nagging type and always unrepentant even if at fault.

From what you wrote, you mind has been made up on what you have decided to do. What i really do not understand is the last paragraph.

You added that part in order for us to be adequately informed about the situation so as to agree with you on your current stance. I mean who would want to marry a nagging and unrepentant lady?

So it wouldn't be over the top to assume that you "provoked" her in order to have a valid reason not to get married to her. But my question is why were you planning on getting married to a nagging and unrepentant lady in the first instance?

Usernamesucks:
Can only answer your question when she tells us her own side of the 'story'

I forget telling you my side of a 'story'.

kinglekan:



From what you wrote, you mind has been made up on what you have decided to do. What i really do not understand is the last paragraph.

You added that part in order for us to be adequately informed about the situation so as to agree with you on your current stance. I mean who would want to marry a nagging and unrepentant lady?

So it wouldn't be over the top to assume that you "provoked" her in order to have a valid reason not to get married to her. But my question is why were you planning on getting married to a nagging and unrepentant lady in the first instance?

Never thought she could ever attempt engaging me in a fight.

Just give yourself time Don't make a decision u ll regret later

blacq2009:
My girlfriend and I are planning marriage soon. Something happened last week as in a minor misunderstanding. She insulted the hell outta me and even went as far as shaking my hands and head as if she was challenging me to a physical scuffle. Dumbfounded, I was like "what a wife-like behaviour?". I don't intend continuing with the relationship anymore. Have I overreacted?
Your views please.
Note: She's the nagging type and always unrepentant even if at fault.

you did the right thing



I'm guessing she's one of those killer women

My advice
RUN AWAY FOR UR DEAR LIFE

nigeriancritic1:
She could make a TeeBillz out of you. Go get a suicide button!

Thanks

Stories like this is why I sometimes wish Adam had even died with his ribs intact....u should be glad u see d abusive part of her before it becomes too late....women are becoming more abusive and marriage getting more distorted .......men are known to be the one beating women but now d story has changed.Men see it as an
abuse and so frown at it but women see them as weak ....marriage has become a total gamble now....even if u think u had married an angel she can just become a devil over night and if u are not hard enough as a guy....u can become yabaleft customer easily...or a woman's beater or even d next teeblizz.

Bro run for Ur life..... honestly I'm talking from experience.... she will get worse once u guys are married and feels u belong to her and there's nothing u can do about it....for the sake of Ur unborn kids who will not be happy in a broken home.....RUNNNN.