Attention, attention, attention,
Girls! Remember that
earring you found in his car, but he said he bought for
you? Well, it could be that his side chic forgot it in the car.
And the last time he dashed into the kitchen to inform
you that his friend, Emeka, just called him to say that the
filling station 10kms away was selling fuel and he had to
go, that could just be his other girlfriend calling to confirm
a rendezvous. A perfect lie for this season of no fuel.
Oh my dear, be sure that he did not cancel your last
hangout because the other woman insisted on spending
time with him. And he might have told you that his boss
gave him an emergency call. Of course, you’d let him go
because you don’t want him to lose his job.
Truth be told, scamming comes in different packages and
identifying the ruses used by your boyfriend, is key in
determining whether you want your relationship to
progress or not. I’m not being partial. I am sure the
statistics exist somewhere under the sun, which proves
that men lie to their partners more than women do, (don’t
ask me for the survey results though, because I don’t have
it).
Don’t get me wrong, lying is universal and one of the sins
everyone from every race, regardless of gender or
profession, commits. But the male species, especially
boyfriends are in a different category.
So, here are some lies you are likely to have been told and
fallen for.
When you’ve never met any relative (especially mom):
Before you ask, no, friends, “buddies” and colleagues don’t
count. Your boyfriend should be proud of you and willing to
show you off to important people in his life like his mother,
his mentor, the high school teacher that saved him from the
life of drugs and living under bridges, his little sister, and so
on. Most ladies believe that when their boyfriend introduces
them to friends, he is staking a claim. But that’s not true. In
fact, some of these so called friends haven’t even been
friends with him for long. He might have just met them at a
bar and they bonded talking about football and how many
girls they’ve conquered. Be wise. And realize that if he hides
you or discourages you from meeting his family, then he
might be lying to you about something.
When you find articles of female clothing in his room or car:
We must have all encountered this scenario. You
“innocently” open a drawer in his room and see a pair of
female underwear that’s definitely not yours. Of course your
mind goes wild, you start thinking murder and swear it’d rain
fire and brimstone. Finally, when you confront him with the
exhibit, he says the underwear is for his sister, she must’ve
packed it with his clothes when she was doing laundry. Huh!
Like seriously… His sister did that? Dear, don’t be too sure
that is true.
When a particular phone number keeps calling his line: Of
course he won’t save the number with a name you can easily
suspect and you will be accused of checking his phone. But
girls, do not be deluded into thinking it is wrong for you to
do that. In fact, I can assure you that people who claim they
don’t check their spouse’s phones are the most culpable.
So check away. Expectedly, he’d say it’s a friend or a new
business partner or his mother’s new line. Don’t be
scammed. Granted, he could be telling the truth, but he
might be lying too. So copy the number and call. Just hear
the voice and cut the call. Now you have your answer.
What will you do about it?
When he comes home later than usual: It’s a rule of thumb
that as soon as your partner starts keeping late night, he has
a secret. Do you want to find out what the secret(s) is or
are? Then don’t ask him. He might lie, he was out with the
boys, the meeting took longer than he expected, there was
traffic, the car broke down, there was an accident on the
road, blah, blah, blah. All lies! Believe them at your own peril
anyway. Trusting your boyfriend should come naturally.
When it doesn’t, believe your intuition, sister.
When he stops eating your food: Every woman will agree
that cooking for your beloved is not always an enjoyable
task. But we do it anyway, out of loyalty, love or just because
you feel it’s your responsibility. So I can imagine your
perplexity when said beloved doesn’t eat the meal you
labored over. Excuses are always at hand. He’s tired, he had
a late lunch, he has a stomach ulcer, etc. Proceed with
caution. If he still doesn’t eat the delicacies you’re
preparing, then another woman might be feeding him. Just
saying. We all know the way to a man’s heart is through his
stomach.
To add insult to injury, they will claim they were shielding
you from the truth or that you weren’t in the capacity to
accommodate the truth. Really! A lie is a lie and saying you
didn’t want to hurt me with the truth does not make me
feel better. Right?!
Don’t come to the worst assumption. For every lie you
suspect, keep it to yourself and gather enough evidence to
support your cause. Being harmed with enough exhibits,
he won’t be able to deny your liberation. And you know
what they say; the truth will set you free.
I rest my case… for now at least.

Source : http://thenationonlineng.net/dont-scammed-boyfriend-might-lying/

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I have just one question...After you have done all the investigations and gotten enough evidence, what then follows..
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