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Re: Why Do The Rich Marry The Rich And The Poor Marry The Poor.... by abnot: 11:00am On May 05, 2016
Usually the rich and the poor have completely different lifestyles in today's world. Back in the days children of both the rich and poor attended public or missionary schools but today its different.The rich and the poor attend different schools. The rich usually work in elite organizations and also worship at elite churches and all. So it is very possible for the rich and the poor to never come together.
Will give an example, I consider myself to have originated from a middle class family however my parents introduced me to some sort of eliticist education which saw me attend secondary school with the children of governors , service chiefs , a sitting vice president and some wealthy business moguls. From their I proceeded to an elite ancient university in scotland which also got me close to africans from upper class families as well as upper middle class whites. We ate at high end restaurants, partied with style at porsche clubs and casinos and all. Sometimes we planned weekend trips to places like barcelona, paris, amsterdam, berlin, madrid, geneva, las vegas and lodged at 4 or 5-star hotels......I had this belief that this was the normal way of life everywhere till i got to NYSC camp and saw how people lived/behaved (poverty mentality/lifestyle).... Then I realized that all along I had been living away from the realities of the saying that "nigeria had poverty in it" . So assuming I didnt spend some time at the NYSc camp i would not have had any form of interaction with the poor. A good number of my friends have had no interaction with people from the lower class and as such will not or let me say didnt end up marrying the poor; not out of arrognce but due to inaccessibility. You cant marry someone you havent interacted with.

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Re: Why Do The Rich Marry The Rich And The Poor Marry The Poor.... by firstking01(m): 12:18pm On May 05, 2016
jokeydamson:
i agree with u dear,d root of all evil "money" av really turn humans to something else ......the rich wanna keep dere money blooming
Yea sweetheart, the rich are getting richer abd the poor are getting poorer day after day.

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Re: Why Do The Rich Marry The Rich And The Poor Marry The Poor.... by butanep(m): 4:49pm On May 05, 2016
2dugged:
I would rather be surprised than to hope and be frustrated, hope will only lead me to depression as the odds of breaking free from the shackles of poverty is one in a million,I can't live on that,I might end up hoping too much and loose my mind, or do something stupid, all this talk about believe in yourself, have faith,miracles exists,blah blah is just to keep the poor in check psychologically so they dont revolt and the rich gets to enjoy their money in peace,it takes a lot of energy to hope of which I lack,reality check says my chances are slim,so why punish myself by waiting for what will not be,the rich have made the gap so wide, crossing over will require extra forces

Hmmm... I understand your side of the story. it's not easy to break even in the society where the gap between the rich and poor is so wide but it's still possible. You might be among the one in a million that will break the bond to become a rich and wealthy lady tomorrow.

Life sometimes is not fair, as your hardwork doesn't guarantee your prosperity tomorrow but that shouldn't stop you from working hard and believing it will all come to an end one day.

I know it can be frustrating sometimes but never give up. Most rich dudes and ladies you see today was once from a humble background. An opportunity in life catapulted them to the level they are today. Just have the confidence that your opportunity to become wealthy is near. Don't be idle. Just keep the spirit alive and keep working. Nothing works except you work...
Re: Why Do The Rich Marry The Rich And The Poor Marry The Poor.... by Nobody: 5:54pm On May 05, 2016
butanep:


Hmmm... I understand your side of the story. it's not easy to break even in the society where the gap between the rich and poor is so wide but it's still possible. You might be among the one in a million that will break the bond to become a rich and wealthy lady tomorrow.

Life sometimes is not fair, as your hardwork doesn't guarantee your prosperity tomorrow but that shouldn't stop you from working hard and believing it will all come to an end one day.

I know it can be frustrating sometimes but never give up. Most rich dudes and ladies you see today was once from a humble background. An opportunity in life catapulted them to the level they are today. Just have the confidence that your opportunity to become wealthy is near. Don't be idle. Just keep the spirit alive and keep working. Nothing works except you work...

I wish I could believe you,but I lost hope long ago,guess some people ate born lucky than others
Re: Why Do The Rich Marry The Rich And The Poor Marry The Poor.... by butanep(m): 6:57pm On May 05, 2016
2dugged:
I wish I could believe you,but I lost hope long ago,guess some people ate born lucky than others




Hmmmmmm.... you made up your mind already. people like you easily become successful. At the point when you think all hope is lost, that's when you begin to experience a new phase of of life.

Some are born great, some workhard to become great and some hit opportunities that make them great.

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Re: Why Do The Rich Marry The Rich And The Poor Marry The Poor.... by Nobody: 8:58pm On May 05, 2016
butanep:





Hmmmmmm.... you made up your mind already. people like you easily become successful. At the point when you think all hope is lost, that's when you begin to experience a new phase of of life.

Some are born great, some workhard to become great and some hit opportunities that make them great.
thanks,but I would rather not hope
Re: Why Do The Rich Marry The Rich And The Poor Marry The Poor.... by butanep(m): 9:41pm On May 05, 2016
2dugged:
thanks,but I would rather not hope



All the best.
Re: Why Do The Rich Marry The Rich And The Poor Marry The Poor.... by Nobody: 9:51pm On May 05, 2016
butanep:



All the best.
thanks
Re: Why Do The Rich Marry The Rich And The Poor Marry The Poor.... by Nobody: 9:52pm On May 05, 2016
butanep:



All the best.
thanks
Re: Why Do The Rich Marry The Rich And The Poor Marry The Poor.... by skywalker240(m): 12:53am On May 06, 2016
refiner:


...yea...so far as hr is hardworking and works towards his dream/goal!smiley
AND U ARE SO GOOD @ IT..



KAI I ...NAIJA BABES SHA

Re: Why Do The Rich Marry The Rich And The Poor Marry The Poor.... by refiner(f): 5:54am On May 06, 2016
skywalker240:
AND U ARE SO GOOD @ IT..


KAI I ...NAIJA BABES SHA
undecidedundecided
Re: Why Do The Rich Marry The Rich And The Poor Marry The Poor.... by skywalker240(m): 6:57am On May 06, 2016
Re: Why Do The Rich Marry The Rich And The Poor Marry The Poor.... by omenka(m): 8:05pm On May 09, 2016
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You may contact me through if you need anything.

Do mention me when you get this so I can delete it. (Don't quote the msg).

Thanks.
Re: Why Do The Rich Marry The Rich And The Poor Marry The Poor.... by refiner(f): 9:40pm On May 09, 2016
@omenka,seen dear!
Re: Why Do The Rich Marry The Rich And The Poor Marry The Poor.... by Nobody: 10:01am On May 19, 2016
one is opportunity OF meeting the poor and the other is pride, taking myself as an example during my third year in school a friend of mine invited me to a birthday party we were to work as ushers, i met this girl she was daughter to a notable personality in Nigeria and studying in germany..it was very hard making up mind to meet her, my friend gave lot OF courage, still with my usher tag i gathered confidence walked up to her i got little or No attention after much bla bla she refused to give out her contact rather collected mine, i got a call later from her after like a month, i got the same insulting question what gave me courage to walk up to her(PRIDE) making me understand we aren't class till after like some months we met in Abuja and since then we have been on phone often..so my dear opportunity of meeting is the major factor

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Re: Why Do The Rich Marry The Rich And The Poor Marry The Poor.... by Cityguy: 2:35pm On May 19, 2016
Tobium1:


U dey use x-ray? How come u just spoke what's on my mind
Hahahaha. Na so me too see am oooo
Re: Why Do The Rich Marry The Rich And The Poor Marry The Poor.... by Ndipe(m): 10:47pm On May 21, 2016
In most cases, birds of the same feather flock together
Re: Why Do The Rich Marry The Rich And The Poor Marry The Poor.... by jokeydamson(f): 8:58pm On Jul 07, 2016
Dear will huge u to keep ur fingers crossed.....if u believe dere is God change ur hope lost and definately God will show u hes a perfect timmer
Re: Why Do The Rich Marry The Rich And The Poor Marry The Poor.... by jokeydamson(f): 9:02pm On Jul 07, 2016
butanep:


Hmmm... I understand your side of the story. it's not easy to break even in the society where the gap between the rich and poor is so wide but it's still possible. You might be among the one in a million that will break the bond to become a rich and wealthy lady tomorrow.

Life sometimes is not fair, as your hardwork doesn't guarantee your prosperity tomorrow but that shouldn't stop you from working hard and believing it will all come to an end one day.

I know it can be frustrating sometimes but never give up. Most rich dudes and ladies you see today was once from a humble background. An opportunity in life catapulted them to the level they are today. Just have the confidence that your opportunity to become wealthy is near. Don't be idle. Just keep the spirit alive and keep working. Nothing works except you work... you've spoke well,but ow many of ur calibers will do d same as ur?cus even those who served like u did still carrys dere pride around....May God help us all .....money or no money we will all face same God

Re: Why Do The Rich Marry The Rich And The Poor Marry The Poor.... by AlfredoMarcha: 11:10am On Mar 03, 2017
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Re: Why Do The Rich Marry The Rich And The Poor Marry The Poor.... by Nobody: 2:05pm On Mar 03, 2017
AlfredoMarcha:
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Re: Why Do The Rich Marry The Rich And The Poor Marry The Poor.... by agbonkamen(f): 2:47pm On Mar 03, 2017
butanep:


Most of the rich dudes are just fortunate not that they are really hardworking. Their cake have been baked by their parents and grand parents.

It's not easy for someone with a humble background because he has to bake his cake himself. It take extra work for him to break even.

It takes extral work and God's grace to make the man from a humble background to become rich in Life.
100% correct
Re: Why Do The Rich Marry The Rich And The Poor Marry The Poor.... by MENTORCH(m): 4:23pm On Mar 03, 2017
Strahovski1:
So the rich should marry a poor person that didn't know how they got rich?

Even the rich person they are marrying will not still know how they got rich. People just like to get married to people on their level for other reasons, it happens worldwide.

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