As written by the mum of two on her IG page this morning. See message below.


https://www.instagram.com/p/BFGb4qip-sG/?hl=en

Hhmm

She is so on point!


Marriage is not by force.



The funny thing there is, most women will notice violent traits in their fiancé during courtship nd still go ahead with the wedding plans with the mind set of changing him.





Sometimes I blame the abused women


RIP to her
It's a pity

D same society dat will condemn u for walking out of an abusive marriage, is the same society dat will still condemns u for not walking out of an abusive marriage wen it's already too late

Women need to learn to walk out of abusive relationships. Forget about wah pple will say abeg. This life is just one. Marriage is not by force. Marriage isn't wah being a woman is about. Marriage doesn't guarantee happiness.a man who respects u isn't supposed to hit u. If he does, plz "ex" his ass. If ur bf is an "Hulk Hogan", leave him before he kills u. A word is enough for d wise.

Rest in peace. I think it's time for some NGO's and the government to start educating everyone about Domestic Violence and the dangers. There should be help for both men and women who seek to flee Domestic violence.

Better Single and praying to be married than married and praying to be single!
Marriage is not a do or die affair! QED

What does a man need from a LADY...?
NOT her cash.. ..
All we need as MEN is simple " LOYALTY or better still RESPECT".

Most WOMEN lost our love for them, the very day they started seeing their own mothers as slaves to their own father, thinking that what their mothers did then was EVIL.
That's why most "empowered and exposed" Ladies are losing out. Thinking they now know it ALL.
Now with the ADVENT of so many SOAP OPERAS and NOVELS , ladies now see every man as cheat, unromantic and not well cultured. They see AFRICA tradition as EVIL.

They now enter into Marriages with the HOPE that the hubby is already a CHEAT.
MEANWHILE, these same ladies dress indecently even in churches now.
IF u say ALL MEN are CHEAT, i will tell u that, u are d BIGGEST CHEAT because u have TASTED ALL MEN to that they are all cheats.

FOR every man that wants to CHEAT, there is always a WOMAN ready for that.
Ladies should learn to respect men, that was the "ab initio" plan of GOD
Respect and cherish ur man and see if he will not take u to HEAVEN.

Everybody Now Don Dey Ger Idea!!!

EVILFOREST:
Women Empowerment go show LADIES pepper.

Next time when they see America and Britain come up with new pranks they will decline

Can you elaborate? What's wrong with empowerring women?

All this feminist, meanwhile she is comfortably sitting in her husband's house.

The ones who preach the most, go through the worst, Joseph Yobo could be hitting her all night!!!

Preach on preacher!

myfantasies:
D same society dat will condemn u for walking out of an abusive marriage, is the same society dat will still condemns u for not walking out of an abusive marriage wen it's already too late

abi oo my sista

Attention seeker on the lose.

Everybody will turn to marriage guru now...




God let my life be a sweet story to tell on Nairaland and LIB nOT RIP AND CO...

But she is married now?...hmmmmm..which kain advise be. dis?

Na wa oooo... marriage don turn to force



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martyns303:
All this feminist, meanwhile she is comfortably sitting in her husband's house.

The ones who preach the most, go through the worst, Joseph Yobo could be hitting her all night!!!

So You are saying women should stay in abusive relationships?

Too many foolish people on nairaland, reason I seldom cmment.

Adaeze's husband cheats on her, why hasn't she left though?

Practice what you preach lady

Adaeze, cheating is a form of emotional abuse. Why haven't you left your husband's house?

EVILFOREST:
What does a man need from a LADY...?
NOT her cash.. ..
All we need as MEN is simple " LOYALTY or better still RESPECT".

Most WOMEN lost our love for them, the very day they started seeing their own mothers as slaves to their own father, thinking that what their mothers did then was EVIL.
That's why most "empowered and exposed" Ladies are losing out. Thinking they now know it ALL.
Now with the ADVENT of so many SOAP OPERAS and NOVELS , ladies now see every man as cheat, unromantic and not well cultured.

They now enter into Marriages with the HOPE that the hubby is already a CHEAT.
MEANWHILE, these same ladies dress indecently even in churches now.
IF u say ALL MEN are CHEAT, i will u tell u that u are a bigger CHEAT because u have TASTED ALL MEN.

FOR every man that wants to CHEAT, there is always a woman ready for that.

Ladies should learn to respect men, that was the "ab initio" plan of GOD

Ajo ofia d correct man

Adaeze has said it all, now I know how strong I am and brave ofcos, God guided me and saved me, trust me guys, the worst thing that will ever happen to any woman is being in abusive marriage, everywoman look up to their husband as their hero, protector and where they find solace, when they get the opposite, what is there to live for again under such man. Some women are annoying, and more still not enough reason to hit them,

What
I don't think it has been proven that the man killed let alone laid a hand on his wife thus he is innocent till proven guilty
What if this is the first time he beat her? How would she then have left a non existent abusive marriage.
What if provocation could be used as a defence for her death maybe she had tried to kill him first or he discovered something fishy

I'm not supporting any kind of violence but all this one people turn to preachers with other people's misfortune, instead of going inside to pray for their own marriages that their spouses don't change.


Very soon pastor's will loose their jobs cause everybody don turn pastor.

Why do I have a feeling Tiwa and Tee's marriage issue has a hand in this? Everybody now has an opinion.

He/she that hath ears to hear, let him/her hear.

myfantasies:
D same society dat will condemn u for walking out of an abusive marriage, is the same society dat will still condemns u for not walking out of an abusive marriage wen it's already too late

very true, marriage thou

obowunmi:
Adaeze's husband cheats on her, why hasn't she left though?
Practice what you preach lady

Cheating is not the same as being physically abusive. A spouse who cheats will only hurt you emotionally, but a physically abusive spouse will one day kill you. Simply incomparable.

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This is the factual fact of the fact