3spade3:

Aint tryin be no husband. F u c k hoes and leave em. Ya digg!!!

Outstrip:

And can you tell us what tribe you are. LOL. Ode

cooljade:


YORUBAS: The sweetest sugar coated tongues ever. They can be given the title DIPLOMATIC HUSBANDS. Love their wives + love their concubines and mistresses at the same time and with the same affection. Are very good at spending cash on their wives appearances (jewelry + expensive laces) but leave their homes unkept.  Loves parties till dawn no matter his age hence ignoring his home including kids.

Kindly differ as it suits you,  lets enjoy but no insults ,  Thanks

cooljade:

IBO: Treat their women with respect and dignity,  spend on her within thier means,  very considerate of her feelings hence tend to be faithful husbads and even if an affair is involved: they are very discreet about it. they hardly divorce their women and stick thru thick and thin.

cooljade:

@ejadamen, I fully agree that there are a few good men from every ethnic group BUT, generally speaking, you know.

Just as the popular gist goes that the reason why American embassy stopped their DNA paternity testing on families is cos it was ASSUMED that amongst the yorubas that applied for visa, out of 5 children at least 1 didn't belong to the husband hence homes were destroyed, SOME FAMILIES O OOO, But its just a general saying.

So what's it with the men? What makes each ethnic man tick, shine or

cooljade:

@ejadamen, I fully agree that there are a few good men from every ethnic group BUT, generally speaking, you know.

Just as the popular gist goes that the reason why American embassy stopped their DNA paternity testing on families is cos it was ASSUMED that amongst the yorubas that applied for visa, out of 5 children at least 1 didn't belong to the husband hence homes were destroyed, SOME FAMILIES O OOO, But its just a general saying.

So what's it with the men? What makes each ethnic man tick, shine or

Fhemmmy:

Ibo man pays thru his nose to marry the woman and he wanna make sure he takes care of his investment, wanna make sure the investment produce better result, till he is tired, if you wanna see the IBO man flirts or carry babes, go to ikeja joints and you will see them, you will halla.

Fhemmmy:

Yoruba man likes to be real and be honest, they cheats and do bad, however, they have a big heart, and the one that wanna take of the wife, do so with all he has.

Fhemmmy:

Hausa babes are well kept and dont mess around as much as Yorubas and the Ibo

Yoruba babes lags behind the Ibo babes, they are local champs.

Ibo babes will fukc even a dog for money.

Ejadamen:

I think the reason for this is that wealth or money is an important part of their culture. For them it means respect. An Ibo man loves to show off through his wife. And the wives love to be shown off. Of course this has its side effects.

Fhemmmy:

Go sit down jare, ojoro woman, i bet you be ibo woman.
It is not all Ibo people that does that, some other tribes does that too.
Aint Ibo and i love my woman being the centre of attention when she steps anywhere, i want all heads to turns towards any woman that is mine, cos they will address me with all she looks like.
So stop making mouth jare, else, i will make sure u marry Hausa man with 4 wives already
i agree with you though, the Ibo culture is rich, and i sometimes envy it
Another that i envy about them is[b] their industrial attitude[/b], and they know how to make money, both in good and bad way.

Ejadamen:

I'm not Ibo , neither am I Hausa nor Yoruba . I'm not even married to an Ibo man . You have to admit the Ibo man has the showing off thing down to perfection. They love making their wives look beautiful! It's not a slight on other ethnic groups just a compliment to the Ibo culture. Yeah others do it but generally speaking Ibos take the prize. And they are so industrious,chei! That is one thing I admire about them.

Er, how can a Hausa man with 4 wives marry another one,isn't that against their religion?

Fhemmmy:

hahahahahahahahah.
Yeah, i agree with you and i question God sometimes, how come i no be IBO? is it possible for someone to IBOlize himself?
Hausa man can marry as many as he can take care of oh, so in kano, they have may rich ones, so i will find u one there, so u better beg me now now

Ejadamen:

Nah I won't beg so do your worst!

I think it is possible to IBOlize oneself.[i] I met a Yoruba man here [/i]who,i think, has forgotten that he's Yoruba. He speaks the language fluently and behaves like an Ibo man. He even modified his surname to sound Ibo . I think that is extreme. I think the way to go about it is to live among them and to understand what makes them so industrious. My observation has been that it is a culture thing. It's ingrained in them from the beginning that money is important, a sure fire way to gain respect and being one's boss is the best. Hope that helps.

Fhemmmy:

hahahahahahaha
that is a good one, so now my name has been changed to Fhemmmy Egochukwu.
I think it is all cos of the suffer that they have gone thru.
Where is here?

Ejadamen:

Aba, Abia state.

What suffering?

Fhemmmy:

That is nice, never been to that state be4 sha, but hope to, one day.
Suffering is the best teacher on how to make money and wealth.
Is there anywhere i can learn how to speak Ibo fluently?
So what tribe are you?

aysometin:

Niger Delta men rule especially from the Isoko tribe

Ejadamen:

No idea. Where are you? I guess you are Yoruba but you've decided not to mention your location.

:oI think we've derailed this thread.

Fhemmmy:

OK, i will be sure to come and see that area one day.
do u google?

Ejadamen:

Google? I check google sometimes. What else is there to do with google?

aysometin:

Niger Delta men rule especially from the Isoko tribe

cooljade:

@3spade3, This blog is called NAIRALAND and has something to do with Nigerians. It's open to citizens of Nigeria, people married to citizens of Nigeria and those in diaspora who want to associate themselves with a rich identity, so if as you claim, do not belong to any of the categories mentioned above, i wonder if you are lost.

chiejik:

The not from africa tribe. Babagunye!!!
maybe is lost u no see your face