sweetcocoa:
I'm not joking, I have met many during my stay in school and even here on NL.

No, I will not trust you because what you are saying is not a fact,it's been proven beyond all reasonable doubt that most women think they can change a man.

That's quite disheartening.

And what you're saying is a fact?

Yh most women think they can change a miser, an introvert into extrovert or extro into introvert, change a whole lot of things but definitely not change a kungfu master. Again, I refuse to believe MOST women would knowingly commit themselves into an abusive relationship.

Bolade005:

That's quite disheartening.

And what you're saying is a fact?

Yh most women think they can change a miser, an introvert into extrovert or extro into introvert, change a whole lot of things but definitely not change a kungfu master. Again, I refuse to believe MOST women would knowingly commit themselves into an abusive relationship.

Yes, if you know anything about how most people behave when they think they are in love.

sweetcocoa:
Yes, if you know anything about how most people behave when they think they are in love.

You keep saying most but you're an exception, right?

Bolade005:

You keep saying most but you're an exception, right?

No she's not
She was once a victim

Bolade005:

You keep saying most but you're an exception, right?

Ofcourse, I am not like most people.

dytbabe:



No she's not
She was once a victim

You not serious.

sweetcocoa:
Ofcourse, I am not like most people.

Are you married?

dytbabe:



No she's not
She was once a victim

She's not but she was once a victim? It's not me you'll confuse.

Bolade005:

Are you married?

No I'm not, why?

What happens when the man is a victim?

bunbit123:
Only a true loving mother will tell you that there's no home without violence. A wise woman endures and overcome.

Na this kind thing dey make me vex.
So in every home in the world there's violence?

Is that the purpose of this your thread? To teach people who are going through domestic violence to stay put because every home has violence?

Anyway before I vex.

@topic. Divorce is not the answer when the differences are reconcilable.
When it becomes a matter or life & death, I'll choose life over marriage.

sweetcocoa:
No I'm not, why?

You wouldn't have answers so nevermind.

Bolade005:

You wouldn't have answers so nevermind.

You know this how?

sweetcocoa:
You know this how?

How will you be able to give an objective opinion devoid of bias on something you haven't experienced?..

Bolade005:

How will you be able to give an objective opinion devoid of bias on something you haven't experienced?..

Wait! So one must experience something before they can have an unbiased opinion about it?

sweetcocoa:
Wait! So one must experience something before they can have an unbiased opinion about it?

Yes. You think otherwise?

Bolade005:

Yes. You think otherwise?

Obviously.

I don't have to be robbed before I can know that I will feel like punishing a thief.

I don't have to experience rape to know that it is a traumatising experience.

sweetcocoa:
Obviously.

I don't have to be robbed before I can know that I will feel like punishing a thief.

I don't have to experience rape to know that it is a traumatising experience.

You have to experience robbery and rape to be able to fully comprehend what victims go through and how they live through those horrible experiences. Don't tell me you don't know this as a fact.

bunbit123:
Only a true loving mother will tell you that there's no home without violence. A wise woman endures and overcome.

If that's what you truly believe than I sincerely feel sorry for you Domestic violence is an anomaly and not the normal

Better to be divorced and alive ..
Domestic violence is getting too rampant




Postmann. Where have u been
Saw your mention. Don't wana derail that thread.

mimzy:
Better to be divorced and alive ..
Domestic violence is getting too rampant




Postm.ann. Where have u been
Saw your mention. Don't wana derail that thread.

Mostly outdoors today. Baked by the sun, pursuing the next naira.

postmann:


Mostly outdoors today. Baked by the sun, pursuing the next naira.

Ha lol. You should relax at home today. Good morning

cococandy:


Na this kind thing dey make me vex.
So in every home in the world there's violence?

Is that the purpose of this your thread? To teach people who are going through domestic violence to stay put because every home has violence?

I believe that's a metaphor, meaning every home has its ups and downs.

bunbit123:
It's not a good story line when couples made the headline in divorce page. It's no longer a surprise to see or heard about disengagement between newly wedded couples in the society today. Could this be the reason behind the generation unsupported child bearing carnage rocking the town? Marrital catastrophy, ungodly, uncultural and ungodly. In Eastern part of Nigeria called NDI-IGBO where i come from, marriage is respected. Divorce is somewhat an abormination therefore remain unsupported by either of the family even when the couple made up their mind to take path-ways. I so much believe that not only NDI-IGBO in particular but other ethnics follow suit to cancel an act of divorce which is like a whirl wind that blows no one good. There's this true knowledge that every one of us need to know about marriage. Marriage was the first institution that had heavenly blessings. God made it possible! Not your community not my community that instite marriage but God (the creator). One can also see this adequate support in the life of Jesus during his earthly ministry when he honoured a wedding invitation at canaan where the first miracle was recorded. Truly, marriage is for better and for worse.

OP. Please know that once you bring God into any debate, you render it loose to unsupported and purported believes, devoid of facts and evidence.

However, as regard your thread, please know that divorce is still a better option to death, especially when its obvious that the abuser refuse to change his or her way.

People here shouting about domestic violence and what have you, have you guys bothered to ask yourselves why these husbands turn their wives to punching bags?

mimzy:

Ha lol. You should relax at home today. Good morning

Something like that. Good morning, the Queen in waiting.

joseph1832:
I believe that's a metaphor, meaning every home has its ups and downs.

Believe well well.
Believe what you want. I believe I read the post correctly.
And violence isn't a metaphor for ups and downs in my dictionary.

cococandy:

Believe well well.
Believe what you want. I believe I read the post correctly.
And violence isn't a metaphor for ups and downs in my dictionary.

Okay, since your opinion is now law an order. Who am I to disobey.

joseph1832:
Okay, since your opinion is now law an order. Who am I to disobey.

Only you know what you're talking about.

cococandy:

Only you know what you're talking about.

Well I never expected one who's as stock up as you, to know what I'm talking about.

Thank you, and have a nice day.

joseph1832:
Well I never expected one who's as stock up as you, to know what I'm talking about.

Thank you, and have a nice day.

You mean 'stuck up' don't you?

You're welcome. Don't mention.

cococandy:

You mean 'stuck up' don't you?

You're welcome. Don't mention.

Oh thanks for the correction, missed it cos its a classic waste of ones time trying to implant reason in some people.

And you should know, after saying "You're welcome" don't mention don't usually follow.