I’m 38. I’m a nice person. All I have ever dreamed of is being married. I know I would make the perfect wife. I’m not jealous, I’m not a pushover, yet I would devote myself to making sure my husband is happy.

Deep down, I want to feel needed. I want to be the person who fusses over my husband’s dinner, who keeps a perfect running household and still manages to look elegant and beautiful at dinnertime. I want to be taken care of, to be looked after, but more importantly to feel safe. All my friends are getting married, some of them to guys who are really, really below their league, and yet I cannot find anyone who wants to marry me. I’m constantly searching for that one person who will be my saviour.

My greatest fear is that I will end up alone.I can see myself at 40, still single and living in a little flat that I bought at 28, which seemed super independent and grown-up but at 40 seems like the biggest humiliation.

Source: http://www.jtownconnect.com/2016/05/im-getting-to-40-yet-no-husband-lady.html

Cc: Lalasticlala

No need to cry nah...this woman/gel dey fall hand jor

forget about husband for now but try and get pregnant

D good lord who created u will definitely not allow u to end up alone n he will surely send a man who truely deserve you ur way, just believe that gods time is d best

Shebi Na u dey form hard to get those years, GOD will provide ooo.

Are u saying nobody approached u or what ?

eeeyha

Maybe u shoud consider getting preggy for now,and forget marrage or hubby

eyaaaaaah! Can you manage as my 3rd wife? if Yes then you are lucky...

eeyaaa....madam I understand ur pain...just keep on praying....good husband will come

You got a flat@28...Hmm. The truth just might be that you kno you're so many nice things, but are you sure people out there view you in that regard?

This might just be the point in your life where you need to know people's opinion about you, since you're desperate to get married.

You just need to be as objective as possible about yourself... Look inwardly and quit being sentimental when you do that, else, there's no getting anywhere.

Josphine4good:
forget about husband for now but try and get pregnant

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Josphine4good:
forget about husband for now but try and get pregnant

ewww Josphine,, shocked

I sincerely hope that its the womans picture. Twil not be nice if u postd an innocent womans pic on a public forum.
That said, believe me u ll get married. Bt try finetunin urself.

Oliviaarims:
You got a flat@28...Hmm. The truth just might be that you kno you're so many nice things, but are you sure people out there view you in that regard?

This might just be the point in your life where you need to know people's opinion about you, since you're desperate to get married.

You just need to be as objective as possible about yourself... Look inwardly and quit being sentimental when you do that, else, there's no getting anywhere.

you that have no boyfriend rubbish

Josphine4good:
forget about husband for now but try and get pregnant

for who?
Angel Micheal?

Lol...you are 38, female and still single...my sister your own don done oo. I think you should consider bn a nun...cos no fresh niqqa in his correct senses will come for you

Better still find one old man, make ein impregnate you.

Na all dis kind woman dey form during der youth level



You go too old ehn



Ewu

Madam, there has to be a reason or reasons why it hasn't worked oit for you even till this time.

Are you saying you hvn't had any proposals b4? Or you were being too picky, arrogant, proud n stuff? Coz if truly you are all that you say you are n will do then why is it this difficult? It baffles me really.

Not saying it's entirely ur fault though, but something has to be wrong somewhere. However, there's someone with whom there's no impossibilities, you need to seek him earnestly now and Godwillining you'll be met just at the point of ur need.

Keep a positive mindset and always be hopeful, be good. All is well

MEHN SUCH IS LIFE BUT IT DEPENDS, ATTITUDE IS ONE ASPECT IS SHE VERY LOYAL BECAUSE TRUST ME EVERY MAN WANTS A LOYAL AND HUMBLE WOMAN

Josphine4good:
forget about husband for now but try and get pregnant

u look cute

Eleyii gidi Gan o

mezynaija:
I’m 38. All my friends are getting married, some of them to guys who are really, really below their league

I find this part interesting. Could this mentality be the reason why you are still single at 38?

While it's good to get married to your "dream man", you also gat to realize that there is no PERFECT man out there.

Be realistic and check your attitude towards suitors

Independent women don't need husbands.

am sorry sweetheart to hear that. but eeh what were u doing when u were 25? ooh i get it waiting for that rich dude right? thats it well is not too late honey he may still come around.

Husband scarce this average girls no kw..

mezynaija:
I’m 38. I’m a nice person. All I have ever dreamed of is being married. I know I would make the perfect wife. I’m not jealous, I’m not a pushover, yet I would devote myself to making sure my husband is happy.

Deep down, I want to feel needed. I want to be the person who fusses over my husband’s dinner, who keeps a perfect running household and still manages to look elegant and beautiful at dinnertime. I want to be taken care of, to be looked after, but more importantly to feel safe. All my friends are getting married, some of them to guys who are really, really below their league, and yet I cannot find anyone who wants to marry me. I’m constantly searching for that one person who will be my saviour.

My greatest fear is that I will end up alone.I can see myself at 40, still single and living in a little flat that I bought at 28, which seemed super independent and grown-up but at 40 seems like the biggest humiliation.

Source: http://www.jtownconnect.com/2016/05/im-getting-to-40-yet-no-husband-lady.html

bestthings815@gmail.com.......expecting ur hookup

No matter how hard our self acclaimed independent women or feminists try to down play marriages in our African societies, it doesn't work out.

They end up hurting other ladies who value marriages but were misguided by uncontrollable chants of " u must not be married to be happy in life" by the feminists.


As an African lady, no matter what u do, just know it @ the back of ur mind that our own African society have carved out a life pattern for all of us " our true African believes" no matter what we do, no matter how we live, no matter how we see life, we can not down play it. because the society will still be alive to hunt us in the nearest future.


My advice to my brothers and sisters, whatever u do, please live by the good morals of a true African home.

My mother will always say, "let our true African beliefs and cultures co-exist with our good modern lives". That the good ones and discard the bad ones, but never discard the important ones.



Nigeria and indeed Africa as a whole has not advanced much like other western countries where u have the "homes for the elderly, where u are paid once u ain't working, where govt takes care of ur health and even ur funeral, where it is ok be buried by just few people".


My grandma stopped active work when she was around 70yrs due to waist pains and eye problem, she died @ 84yrs, if u do the maths, u will realise that the last 14yrs of her life was taken care of by her kids.

Assume u ain't married with no kids and husband, assume u are all alone in this world, and u found yourself in my grand ma's case, what will u do?


There are so many reasons why people get married, and because of the law of diminishing returns, the above stated happened to be one of the important reasons why we africans marry.



So, be wise when that ur lesbian friend will be telling u to forget about marriage.


U will only understand it when all ur friends, sisters cousins are all married with kids except u, that is when u will realise that this society is a very cruel one indeed.

Cal my number lets arrange things maybe baby mama-