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Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by postmann: 11:29pm On May 20, 2016 |
lezz: You know we don't compromise. We spell out the truth slowly. No one will by any chance miss an alphabet. We're not like some pastors who can't tell the women the truth because it will hurt the offering plate. Neither are we some hopeless men who see these women as some means to cross the shores of this country or ease their dry pockets. 3 Likes |
Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by Nobody: 11:33pm On May 20, 2016 |
Just grow up already, old man. You are at least some 16 or 17 years older than I am. Like time I checked that's also almost the age difference betwixt I and all of my 'married uncles' . Act your age and stop acting like a bïtching tool. This creep just keeps finding a way, directly or periphrastically, to sandwich me unnecessarily in his 'posts that I never even read beyond the first two lines'. This nigga here is not the type to waste any more precious time in puerile internet quibbling. There are certain things one outgrow in life. If you cannot comment on a thread sanely and maturely without hurling veiled expletives then it says a lot about your intelligence and continence. I take comfort in the fact that I am not the 35 year old here. Enough said. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by postmann: 11:35pm On May 20, 2016 |
lezz: Let the rain gather until they burst through the clouds. |
Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by lezz(m): 11:39pm On May 20, 2016 |
postmann:No appeasement !!! These females with a high dose of hypocrisy have mastered the art of self-deception. And the hanger-on foundling will always tag "older females" to prepp them for sponging I have nothing against a hungry thief as long as he's genuinely hungry. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by lezz(m): 11:43pm On May 20, 2016 |
postmann:The older he makes my age, the more excusable his failures are Should I kill him ? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by postmann: 11:48pm On May 20, 2016 |
lezz: Hold your fire still. I know this infamous kid who ran in here to start a new life after been found out as a deceitful conman who specialises in feeding from the purse of women, needs some financial aid. You don't want to knock him off his hustle, do you? |
Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by postmann: 11:52pm On May 20, 2016 |
lezz: Let him eat some more, grow some little flesh over his impoverished body. Let him feed like the hungry pig he is. Then bring him to the slaughter table. Then waste his worthless blood on the asphalt on this forum. |
Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by lezz(m): 11:54pm On May 20, 2016 |
postmann:A part of me has genuine sympathy for him, but when I remember his gift of inherent wickedness and devilish antics. I am tempted to knock him once after a while!!! |
Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by postmann: 11:55pm On May 20, 2016 |
lezz: Let the rain gather some more. Until the clouds can't hold it anymore...then let it fall!!! |
Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by lezz(m): 11:58pm On May 20, 2016 |
postmann:A certain female says I hound him , yet he made me more famous and carried my handle on his signature for weeks!!!! Tell me about anger and frustration! I'm certain he will put a bullet through me if he catches me in the flesh!!! |
Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by postmann: 12:03am On May 21, 2016 |
lezz: A juvenile mind, no matter how far gone in pretence will always betray his lack of wisdom. 2 Likes |
Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by lezz(m): 12:11am On May 21, 2016 |
postmann:That was one error he will wish he never made. 1 Like |
Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by postmann: 12:12am On May 21, 2016 |
It's time for the battle of the midnight. I leave you here, bro. Goodnight @lezz the ultimate vanquisher! 1 Like |
Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by PunterTim(m): 12:14am On May 21, 2016 |
postmann:Wallahi,no chill! 1 Like |
Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by lezz(m): 12:18am On May 21, 2016 |
postmann: Last week, I saw him being shellacked by several monikers in Romance section!!! He denied his own picture, his very self like he denied it in my thread! Lolz. His moniker isn't worth the show or fight!!! I will never diss him, if it ever amounts to that, I will just tell of his life and e-story. My simple phraseology will always make it an interesting read!!! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by Justeenaleo(f): 12:19am On May 21, 2016 |
lezz: 3 Likes |
Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by lezz(m): 12:22am On May 21, 2016 |
postmann:Alright, bro. Today was for side jabs and veiled swearwords!!! Tomorrow might be for brutal confrontation..... of facts of course Good night 1 Like |
Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by postmann: 1:23am On May 21, 2016 |
lezz: |
Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by Acidosis(m): 4:52am On May 21, 2016 |
bukatyne:I'm not one of those who use this line: "bible is from the west" Christianity has always been with us (Africans). A very vast Christian would understand that a country like Ethiopia (was talked about in the Bible), and places like Cush are all in Africa. You must have heard about the Cushite woman, the Midianite, the Ethiopian woman. Moses married a Cushite woman (black woman from Southern Ethiopian). And all these stories you read about Egyptians aren't false; last time I checked, Egypt remains in Africa. Besides, do you consider Israel as "West"? Why is Gay marriage not legalize in Israel? Christianity is not from the UK, America or India. In fact, the percentage of unbelievers in some of these Western countries is higher than what obtains here. Most times, we overlook the fact that Jesus was a middle Eastern man who lived in North Africa. Why do we have people like Odukoya, Oyedepo, Adeboye travelling back to the 'West' to teach the ethics of marriage? As regards your point about "African values", each culture in Nigeria has its own beliefs. Christianity (from the missionaries) has only helped us to discard the evil practices (e.g. killing of twins, killing of albinos, etc.). In Nigeria today, an average Yoruba man still believes in calling his elders "boda", "anty", etc. I don't have much to say about the love aspect, since we both know your statement is baseless. Loving of wives is not alien to us before the missionaries came. A very close look at traditional & church marriage would reveal a total demonstration of love and respect. Why some groups of lost chauvinists have decided to fight the " headship" aspect of marriage is what I find strange and hard to comprehend. 2 Likes |
Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by Ishilove: 6:29am On May 21, 2016 |
MrPresident1:I reject! I weave am!! I dodge am!!! |
Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by Jahblessme: 7:02am On May 21, 2016 |
Culled from bella naija 1) Man: Be yourself. Do what you want. 2)Woman: Endure 25 years later: Man: This marriage has been so sweet, delicious and lovely. Woman: Endurance and tolerance are key in all marriages. You have to endure 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by HaneefahRN(f): 7:11am On May 21, 2016 |
Jahblessme: Lolz, hilarious but true |
Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by HaneefahRN(f): 7:15am On May 21, 2016 |
What's up with this thread sef, I had to skip through most of the posts |
Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by PinketteDawn: 7:44am On May 21, 2016 |
Jahblessme: Yes oh. Endure, endure, endure till death. Endure and pray. |
Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by Dheartless: 7:53am On May 21, 2016 |
postmann:this is surprisingly sad, if only I had seen this earlier....... |
Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by MrPresident1: 7:55am On May 21, 2016 |
Ishilove: Amen to your prayers. When the owner of the sceptre comes, there will be a restoration of better settings, just like the Father always wanted it. |
Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by PinketteDawn: 8:01am On May 21, 2016 |
darkenedrebel: Virtual hug for you! |
Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by Dheartless: 8:02am On May 21, 2016 |
postmann:surely it's a relief 1 Like |
Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by PinketteDawn: 8:13am On May 21, 2016 |
lezz: I totally agree with you on this. Yes every woman wants her man to LEAD her. lezz: How? The little I know about genetics is that no sex can exist without the other, so women depend on men and vice versa, especially to procreate. Could you please explain how women are genetically programmed to depend on men? |
Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by postmann: 8:22am On May 21, 2016 |
Dheartless: We won't lose her to misandry. Neither will she been taken by the new generation male prejudice. 1 Like |
Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by Dheartless: 9:01am On May 21, 2016 |
postmann:@bolded, this is very funny |
Re: What Is African Marriage About And What Is It Values? by lezz(m): 9:17am On May 21, 2016 |
PinketteDawn:Good and honest start. PinketteDawn: But you have the answer yourself . You just stated that yourself above. |
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