I am married to a good man for almost a year now and we get along well like normal couples. But recently my spouse keeps chatting with the ex and lies about it when I ask. This makes me feel worried and sad. I don't know what to do. Do you think my spouse is cheating on me?

why not just remove your eyes and stop checking his phone. start discussing why he shouldnt engage in such act with him. ONLY GOD CAN CHANGE A MAN.

I don't have to be checking his phone to know who he is chatting with. Thanks for advice though

Presqueen:
I don't have to be checking his phone to know who he is chatting with. Thanks for advice though

don't you have ex? Chat with him too. It could be an innocent chat. Don't worry your sweet head about it, just chat with your own ex too. Simple!

I don't knw why some men/women finds it hard to let go of their exes even after marriage,I mean this is pathetic,if u still have a thing for your ex why get married to another person at the first place ........ Well op,maybe u should register your complain to him that u dnt like wat he is doing asap,and let's hear wat he got to say

I guess your husband is just bored, try to add some spice into ur marriage, study what period he does his chatting and engage him with whatever activity u think might spice the relationship few minutes before he picks up his phone.

If u truly engage him, he might drop the idea of chatting with her.

He is just checking his old life. Just make sure u are better than them or risk losing him.

Don't let that bother you, because if you do, depression will start to set in. Just have your own fun, stay happy, do things as a lady that will draw his attention towards you.


Wish you well.

Just look at the xtupid advice being dished out to the OP.
If she was chatting her ex, will anyone tell her husband to ignore it?

Aunty OP nip anything you don't want in the bud.
Put down your foot and tell him it has to stop. Exes belong to the past.

Presqueen:
I am married to a good man for almost a year now and we get along well like normal couples. But recently my spouse keeps chatting with the ex and lies about it when I ask. This makes me feel worried and sad. I don't know what to do. Do you think my spouse is cheating on me?

What he is doin is very wrong.

Report to his parents.

On a funny note, let us cheat on him..

see you better talk to him about it and how uncomfortable You are and be serious oo if not he's gonna cheat on you with her so talk to him well IF he doesn't listen start chatting on your phone too I can pm you my pin let's chat, laugh out loud during de chat and call he will get intrested then make your point Ps: this will work for a man who loves you alot

kneel down and pray for him

It seems it's making you uncomfortable, then let him know. Ask him how he would feel if you start chatting with your ex.

Personally, I feel it's disrespectful to be chatting with one's ex all the time while married no matter how innocent the chat might be.

Thanks so much y'all your words were suiting. I will go with cococandy's and see how it turns out. Hoping for the best outcome. Thanks again

Thanks so much y'all your words were soothing. I will go with cococandy's and see how it turns out. Hoping for the best outcome. Thanks again

Presqueen:
Thanks so much y'all your words were soothing. I will go with cococandy's and see how it turns out. Hoping for the best outcome. Thanks again

Just follow your heart.

cococandy:
Just look at the xtupid advice being dished out to the OP.
If she was chatting her ex, will anyone tell her husband to ignore it?

Aunty OP nip anything you don't want in the bud.
Put down your foot and tell him it is to stop. Exes belong to the past.

Must you use an abusive word?

Dheartless:
kneel down and pray for him

Then fvck his brains out



Grade one advice

TheArchangel:
Then fvck his brains out


Grade one advice

this is my kind of angel .
I hope this kind exist in heaven.
archangel please take me home.

I am a victim too -I keep chatting with all my exs!

op kpele. bt on a serious note stp him nw to avoid stories

Have you tried throwing your husband and the mobile phone out through the window? That's what I would do if I were in your shoes

buksaylor001:
I am a victim too -I keep chatting with all my exs!

Ahoy

Presqueen:
I am married to a good man for almost a year now and we get along well like normal couples. But recently my spouse keeps chatting with the ex and lies about it when I ask. This makes me feel worried and sad. I don't know what to do. Do you think my spouse is cheating on me?

Is your husband a child that you need to keep tabs on?

Or he needs your permission on whom to chat with?? You really must be idle.

He lied about chatting with his ex(s). That there is a problem