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.....You ever been in a situation as this? by Nobody: 12:46pm On May 23, 2016 |
Hey good people of NL... A very good afternoon to ya'll... Uhm.. I don't know if anyone has experienced tis... But has anyone offended you..(More like betrayed you)... They ask for forgiveness and you assure them you've forgiven em but each time you see tat person the anger wells up inside you..... Well ts happening to me... I'm not usually the kind of guy tat holds grudges but tis is different... My mood changes the moment I see her... Someone should say something tat makes sense to me.. I feel I am being unfair.. But I just can't help it..... I aint talking about a Girlfriend tho... |
Re: .....You ever been in a situation as this? by vizkiz: 12:56pm On May 23, 2016 |
it's easy to forgive but to forget is the problem. Many people face this same ish...I think you just have to look for a way to pour out your mind towards that person and let him/her know how you truly feel about what they did It's going to bring a relief to your heart.. #been there 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: .....You ever been in a situation as this? by Nobody: 12:58pm On May 23, 2016 |
You'd get Over it..with time. You just need Time to get over whatever the Bleep the person did. that's All. It's A familiar feeling. If she leaked Your nude picture or something? Trust Me...You'd NEVER forget it! it'll always hunt you...Buh if it Ain't any of that? give it more time...Say, five to twenny years? 3 Likes |
Re: .....You ever been in a situation as this? by Cutehector(m): 12:59pm On May 23, 2016 |
I think vizkiz is right... slyisaac just pour out ur heart to her.. allow her to apologize |
Re: .....You ever been in a situation as this? by halfricanadian(f): 1:03pm On May 23, 2016 |
i forgive nd forget d pain but not d message learnt Just give it time express ursef |
Re: .....You ever been in a situation as this? by mamawin(f): 1:03pm On May 23, 2016 |
prayer, only prayer can change that. I had three such issues. and we're kind of related too. prayer did it for me |
Re: .....You ever been in a situation as this? by halfricanadian(f): 1:04pm On May 23, 2016 |
i forgive nd forget d pain but not d message learnt Just give it time express ursef. |
Re: .....You ever been in a situation as this? by vizkiz: 1:08pm On May 23, 2016 |
Cutehector: sometimes people apologize to us and we say "it's ok" but really, it's not. We still hate them and If possible bash their skull open with a hammer... Just like how I was feeling when Estharfabian apologized when she cheated halfricanadian: I.e what you told me the last time |
Re: .....You ever been in a situation as this? by Nobody: 1:08pm On May 23, 2016 |
Estharfabian:Nah she didn't leak my unclad photos...twas actually "or something"..... Thanks aunty esthar! |
Re: .....You ever been in a situation as this? by Nobody: 1:11pm On May 23, 2016 |
vizkiz: so estherfabian is your boo? |
Re: .....You ever been in a situation as this? by Nobody: 1:11pm On May 23, 2016 |
vizkiz:Lol. I didn't cheat. we agreed Our relationship was An Open one. I.e we could sample other goods? ....And that's what I did. why you gotta be so emotional Vicbaby? |
Re: .....You ever been in a situation as this? by Nobody: 1:11pm On May 23, 2016 |
vizkiz:Thanks a lot bruh.... Thing is.. I don't think I can bring ma self to talk to her about it.. I might freak out n murder her!.. No kidding.... Mayb I'll just keep my distance..... For now... Let time do its work Cc:cutehector halfricanadian 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: .....You ever been in a situation as this? by Nobody: 1:14pm On May 23, 2016 |
slyIsaac:Except you're younger than 16....then, I ain't Qualified to be called ''aunty" Lol. anyhoo...thanks! |
Re: .....You ever been in a situation as this? by vizkiz: 1:15pm On May 23, 2016 |
[quote author=slyIsaac post=45893291][/quote] lol, I know you feel hurt/betrayed. There is something about me though, I get irritated/angry easily but don't know how to keep grudges (well, not anymore). I noticed the more I keep those stuffs in my heart the more I become hostile to the people around me. Bro, you might think you are trying to keep away from her but whenever you hear her name or see someone/something that reminds you of her you will feel the rage again and how long do you wanna keep doing that? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: .....You ever been in a situation as this? by halfricanadian(f): 1:16pm On May 23, 2016 |
vizkiz: thats how we roll mehn |
Re: .....You ever been in a situation as this? by Nobody: 1:17pm On May 23, 2016 |
Estharfabian:Baby it is then... |
Re: .....You ever been in a situation as this? by Lsofdk(m): 1:18pm On May 23, 2016 |
slyIsaac:wait for time to do it's work? how long? why torture yourself, tell her how disappointed you're, rain it all out, try to keep yourself calm when talking. |
Re: .....You ever been in a situation as this? by vizkiz: 1:20pm On May 23, 2016 |
olihilistic: nah... She was just one girl I had a "one night stand with"... Though we still use to have other night stands Estharfabian: Yeah, that was why I forgave you... But whenever I remember I use to spend more extra hours "hitting it" so he will know I am better |
Re: .....You ever been in a situation as this? by halfricanadian(f): 1:22pm On May 23, 2016 |
slyIsaac: Awwwwwww |
Re: .....You ever been in a situation as this? by Nobody: 1:23pm On May 23, 2016 |
[Quote] lol, I know you feel hurt/betrayed. There is something about me though, I get irritated/angry easily but don't know how to keep grudges (well, not anymore). I noticed the more I keep those stuffs in my heart the more I become hostile to the people around me. Bro, you might think you are trying to keep away from her but whenever you hear her name or see someone/something that reminds you of her you will feel the rage again and how long do you wanna keep doing that? [/quote] Thanks a lot bruh @ vikiz... Didn't wanna bring tis on NL before for fear of immature folks and their foolery... But am glad I did... Thanks man... Thanks estharfabian Thanks cutehector Thanks halfricanadian Thanks lsofdk Thanks mamawin but I don't think tis is a spiritual issue |
Re: .....You ever been in a situation as this? by vizkiz: 1:24pm On May 23, 2016 |
Re: .....You ever been in a situation as this? by vizkiz: 1:25pm On May 23, 2016 |
slyIsaac: You are welcome...that doesn't stop me from bashing you later in the day oh but you are welcome |
Re: .....You ever been in a situation as this? by Nobody: 1:26pm On May 23, 2016 |
vizkiz:Lol. hours hitting what? Oh...please! Don't let me start with you! Every girl you've screwed know you're A One-min Man! You can't even last two rounds without melting... |
Re: .....You ever been in a situation as this? by halfricanadian(f): 1:26pm On May 23, 2016 |
slyIsaac: Awwwwwww |
Re: .....You ever been in a situation as this? by Nobody: 1:27pm On May 23, 2016 |
vizkiz:Ehn na...but ah go return am in 2 folds... You too much joor! 1 Like |
Re: .....You ever been in a situation as this? by Lsofdk(m): 1:28pm On May 23, 2016 |
vizkiz:viz eh
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Re: .....You ever been in a situation as this? by Nobody: 1:28pm On May 23, 2016 |
Re: .....You ever been in a situation as this? by vizkiz: 1:29pm On May 23, 2016 |
Estharfabian: Every girl? One minute #chuckles... No wonder you were begging me to stop because you can't take it no more |
Re: .....You ever been in a situation as this? by halfricanadian(f): 1:29pm On May 23, 2016 |
vizkiz: Im nt using it against the person I love everyone Even those dat av hurt me |
Re: .....You ever been in a situation as this? by halfricanadian(f): 1:30pm On May 23, 2016 |
slyIsaac: Love u love u |
Re: .....You ever been in a situation as this? by vizkiz: 1:32pm On May 23, 2016 |
Re: .....You ever been in a situation as this? by vizkiz: 1:33pm On May 23, 2016 |
halfricanadian: not the same thing you told me. |
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