Many people believe introversion and shyness are one and the same, but this is not true. All my life I was told that I was shy. I believed it too… until I learned that shyness is the fear of people due to insecurity or social anxiety.

When I learned this, I thought: wait a second- I'm not afraid of people, but being around too many people for too long always leaves me feeling drained. I also know that I always require alone time to recharge my energy. Moreover, I'm not a fan of interacting for the sake of interacting. I usually have a reason behind every interaction. It was then I thought to myself: nope, I'm not shy at all… what I am is an INTROVERT.

If you've always thought that you were shy, but you're not afraid of being around people, check out this list of 24 signs that you are actually an introvert:

1. You Don't Enjoy Small Talk

Introverts prefer conversations with substance over small talk. We're thinkers, and thrive on heavier conversations about life, ideas, theories and big goals. But when small talk is inevitable, we can't help but try to make the other person feel comfortable. We're good listeners and are naturally in tune with how the people we interact with are feeling. More often than not, you find these casual chit-chats morph into deeper, more meaningful conversation.

2. You Have a Love-Hate Relationship With Your Phone

Introverts are not the best at talking on the phone. It's not personal, honest; we screen calls from even our family and closest friends. At times we really hate the phone because it's intrusive and tears our minds away from whatever we're deeply focused on. However, those we choose to speak with can be sure that our monthly (or annual) phone conversations will be spilling over with plenty of heartfelt talk- and these calls will more than likely last for hours!

3. You Wait to Text Back

When you're notified that you have a text from a family member or friend, you wait until you're ready to give it your undivided attention, to read it, and send a thoughtful response.

4. You Find Crowds Stressful

You prefer one-on-one time, where it's more intimate. If spending time around a lot of people is inevitable, you can't wait to go home and recharge your batteries.

5. You're Not Anti-Social… You're Selectively Social

As an introvert, you find it difficult to meet people you like and feel comfortable with. You don't get energized by the people around you, and most of the time, it takes you a little while to warm up to someone. We don't invest our energy on people we're not completely crazy about, so we choose to get to know them better before we get too close. That said, when we do find someone we enjoy being around or have an interest in getting to know better, it's kind of special!

6. You Enjoy Being Out With a Group of People… in Small Doses

Every once in awhile you like to go out with a group of people and have a great time. It could be a party, networking event, or a huge concert. But once that's done and over, it may take days, weeks, or even months, to completely recharge your batteries and feel ready to do it again.

7. You Are Extremely Observant and Mindful of Your Surroundings

You enjoy getting to really know what the people around you are really about. Introverts are also very mindful of their surroundings and small details, so people enjoy having you around and quickly grow comfortable opening up to you.

8. You Unlock Your Heart for Only the Most Special of Souls

Introverts are extremely careful in choosing who we allow to see our inner self. Sure, being left open and vulnerable is incredibly frightening for us, but it means we've determined the recipient of our affection and attention is worth the risk. That being said, we're pretty quick in shutting people out when we feel threatened or hurt. We just don't have the energy for that.

9. You are Creative

Studies show that introverts are a creative bunch! We are able to take in a lot of information and use it to create wonderful new ideas!


10.You Value Listening… Deeply

Introverts are great listeners. You listen to understand, not simply to respond. And if you're asked for advice, the help you share has been thought out fully for that specific individual. The act of listening is our way of showing love and respect, and as such, we deeply appreciate when those we communicate with recognize that we carefully think through the messages we share… and that we love it when the same is done for us.

11. You are Highly Introspective

You tend to over analyze situations that don't even need to be analyzed at all. It may take you a little longer to understand what's going on, not because you don't get it, but because you always seek to understand the deeper meanings.


12. You Think Before You Argue

Introverts need to take time to work things out in our heads first, and we choose our words with care. Once we've been given the chance to carefully process the issue, we'll be able to clearly communicate exactly where we stand with those involved.

13. You are Accused of Flirting with Everybody

Which is pretty funny, considering that it takes time for most introverts to actually warm up to anyone. This misconception is usually due to your great listening skills and your mindfulness towards those around you.

14. You Enjoy Your Time Alone

This may not sound like fun to everyone, but introverts not only like our alone time- we need it. Just doing nothing and having some 'me-time' is a way for us to unwind and re-energize.

15. You are Rarely Bored

While our extroverted counterparts turn to others for stimulation, we are constantly working out our lives and dreams in our heads. Introverts are deep thinkers and almost always have an inner monologue running through our minds- it keeps us highly entertained!

16. You Don't Trust Easily

You take your time to observe and really get to know someone before inviting them into your inner circle; but once you have the right people in your life, you don't hold back and strive to always give the best of yourself.

17. Have a Very Small Group of Very Close Friends

While introverts usually don't enjoy much socializing, we adore our small group of close, trusted friends. We prefer to create and maintain fewer friendships at a much deeper level, over a large group of casual connections.

18. You Fiercely Guard Your Personal Space

You value your space and are extremely picky about what you give your attention to and who you let in because the wrong thoughts and people will leave you feeling burned-out.

19. You are More Comfortable Expressing Yourself in Writing
You prefer communicating through text and email because it gives you more time and space to clarify your thoughts before putting them into words.

20. You are Great at Getting Stuff Done

Your alone time is packed with brainstorming, outlining, creating blueprints and putting them all into action!

21. You are a Good Judge of Character

Because you keep to yourself, you are able to take time and observe the people around you and truly get to know who they are. Introverts pay close attention to nonverbal cues because we know words can only tell us so much. So, we're usually able to see everyone for who they really are and not just what they appear to be.

22. You are Great at Making Decisions

Introverts are masters of thinking things through, allowing us to thoroughly gather all necessary data and weigh the pros and cons before making important choices.

23. You Retain an Air of Mystery

We know there really is nothing mysterious about us, but our tendency to stay just outside the crowd, simply watching and observing, while keeping our emotions and body language in check, makes us seem like we are mysterious.

24. You are A Loyal Friend

Introverts highly value the few close friends they have. If you've been welcomed into an introvert's inner circle, you can almost be certain you have a loyal ally for life.

By Carmen Sakurai

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You just described Me...
Congrats Op..

This me to the letter!

Errmm...I know this isn't supposed to be here. Mods,please move to the appropriate section. Not very sure where it's supposed to be

Lalasticlala, Rocktation, Farano.

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If this thread nor make front page, lanicky, mimzy and refiner will not reach final.

100,1000,1m,1bn and 1trn me. Most times,I engage in some sort of soliloquy and when I finally get a grip on myself,I tell myself: hey,u're not running mad;right? And I quickly stop it. But I do a lot of thinking and sometimes, it makes me delay in decision making cos I probably wanna know all the possible outcomes,before I finally stick to an option. I love to brainstorm;it's my biggest hobbie.

This is so me!

This feels like a mastubatory thread for introverts.
Well fu**ing Done, Op. So you are implying that extroverts dont need time to recharge, and they just run their mouths like a 24hrs walkie tallie. You introverts think your are the best thing to happen to this planet. Well guess what... You're right.

I possess virtually all these signs



NO:3 is so me

I do all that's been mentioned

Been an introvert is sometimes annoying.Lost many friends cos of my introvert nature

Wait wait I will just slap everyone who just commented nw.


Are yall telling me suddenly everyone in romance section are ntroverts? Heh?


No wonder yall good at fights.

kaziblake:
Been an introvert is sometimes annoying.Lost many friends cos of my introvert nature

yeah u lost me

All this introvert nonsense again.... who introvert don epp?

Smellymouth:
Some babes go just fine like maamy water..
Oliviaarims, why u fine like that?

sinaj, ur boyfrnd is cheating on u




Will u forgive him?

PunkyV:
This me to the letter!

You told a certain young man to seek mental care when he mentioned he was an introvert....

Cutehector:
yeah u lost me

Yea and am so sorry,can we start again?

slyIsaac:

You told a certain young man to seek mental care when he mentioned he was an introvert....

Because of his depression. Correction.

refiner:
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I don't know if I'm an introvert or otherwise!....
my life looks confused sometimes!

kaziblake:
Yea and am so sorry,can we start again?

lol ur gettn married.. no need

Whrz my Hateu2
Mods shuld pls and pls release dis innocent girl nah... Atlist Dev released me

Smellymouth:
Some babes go just fine like maamy water..

Oliviaarims, why u fine like that?

baba me I dey wonder dsame thing oh she no fit give lanïcky small

Cutehector:
lol ur gettn married.. no need

Lolz okay

I possess some traits there tho.

Doesn't really make me an introvert..

Being introverted is over hyped at times.
Plenty people don turn introverts finish.

Smellymouth:


Why u wan set me up na?

Baba, na question I ask oo

Sinaj na question I ask oooooooooooo

I just hope she will forgive u dis time



Evil laff. Buhahahahaha

vicstar:

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