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Top Relationship Problems And Solutions: Pls Share Your Problems by OEmiohe: 4:10am On May 27, 2016
There is no such thing as the perfect couple no matter how good things may seem. Every couple will experience some sort of problem in their relationship.

Let’s take a quick look at some of the top relationship problems .

1). Cheating - Cheating is a very common relationship problem. Being unfaithful can lead to further problems and a lot of times causes many relationships to end.

2) Lack of Trust - Another common relationship problem is lack of trust. A lot of people find it hard to trust the person they are with. With this lack of trust, it can make the relationship complicated and cause further issues.

3) Little to No Communication - It takes communication to make a relationship work. when there is little or no communication in the relationship, the relationship itself can’t thrive and become something greater. Other problems may also occur because of little communication.

4) Jealousy - A lot of people may not think jealousy
is a big problem but it can grow into a big issue
enough to where it can destroy a relationship. If
one or both partners find themselves in a jealous
rage all the time, the relationship can’t grow into
a healthy one and more problems can occur.
Constant Arguments - If you are in a relationship,
there is a good chance that you have argued with
your partner before. It isn’t always a bad thing
because making up after the argument can help
to build a stronger bond and strengthen the
relationship itself. However, some couples constantly argue. They may argue over any little thing at any given time. This is when there really is a big problem and sadly, there are many couples out there that constantly argue with each other.

5) Abuse - Unfortunately, physical, verbal, and mental abuse can be present in a relationship. when it is, it is a big problem, especially physical abuse. In any case, any abuse should be dealt with immediately.

6) Being Controlling - A partner can become controlling and want to control the other partner and the relationship. This is a big problem. A relationship can’t grow when one wants to control everything and the other spouse has no say in anything.

6) Negativity - A lot of negativity in a relationship is
an issue. A partner may always look at the negative side of everything or constantly criticize, nitpick, and nag.

7) Gossiping & Confiding in Everyone Else But The
One They Are With - A lot of times, a partner may
talk about what is going on in the relationship to
friends, family, and other people. It is not always
a bad thing but it can get out hand especially
when the stuff that is said is negative, spiteful, or
just dishonest. Sometimes, they may talk about
what is going on in the relationship to seek some
advice or input , which again isn’t all that bad
but it can be when they can’t even go to the one
they are having the problems with and discuss it
one on one. They make it a habit to confide in
others first and then their partner last.

cool The Blame Game - Sometimes one or both partners like to play the blame game. They may put the blame on the other for various things.
Some examples of this goes something like this.
“It’s your fault we don’t get to go out much” “You are the reason I am angry”, I blame you for causing me to not be able to trust you”. sometimes a partner may put the blame on their partner for no valid reason at all or they do it out of spite.

9). Lack of Affection and/or Intimacy - Showing
affection and being intimate in a relationship is something that should be done. Intimacy isn’t
necessarily needed in some cases but sometimes
when there is little to no intimacy, it can be a problem. Even though sex isn’t something that makes a relationship it can help to strengthen bonds and fulfill desires. Showing affection also helps to express feelings and strengthen each other bonds. When either is lacking or not present at all, it may impact the relationship in a negative way because for a lot of couples, affection and intimacy are indeed important.

10). Money - Sometimes a couple can experience some
financial problems in a relationship. Sometimes a
partner may want more and more money from
their partner. In any case, having money issues in
a relationship can cause conflicts.

11) Family & Friends - Family and friends can have a
negative impact on a relationship. They may be
against the relationship, may give bad relationship
advice, may be too nosy, or even be more
important the relationship itself.

12) The Past - It is hard for a relationship to move
forward when the past has some influence on it.
Often, a partner may have some issues with the
past which can often affect their current relationship in a negative way. Bad past relationship experiences have been known to be an issue in new relationships when one is stuck in the past and having a hard time making the relationship they are in work to the fullest.

13) Relationship Not a Big Priority - There are a lot of
things that can get in the way of a couples time
they can spend together. Work, kids, hanging with
friends, etc. It is OK if this happens every now and then but when other things always come before the time a couple can spend together, this is a problem. To sum it up, when a partner puts everything else before the relationship, this can be bad.

So let's talk about what your going thru and offer the best advice possible to you. so kindly share don't die in silence pls oooo especially the ladies /wives..

Re: Top Relationship Problems And Solutions: Pls Share Your Problems by pinkyliceous(f): 4:27am On May 27, 2016
The trust issue is a biggie. If there is no trust in a relationship then there's no relationship in the first place.
Re: Top Relationship Problems And Solutions: Pls Share Your Problems by OEmiohe: 5:09am On May 27, 2016
Great morning pinkylicuous here are Ways to Cultivate Trust in a Relationship

1. Be Loyal - Trust will be improbable, if not impossible, if the relationship brings with it a history of infidelity. A relationship shrouded with adulterous beginnings, is destined to fail. A relationship with secrets is also destined for failure. If you have infidelities in your past, it doesn’t mean that you are unworthy of trust. If you hide them, it does.

2. Build Self-Esteem and Confidence - Building
confidence in the relationship itself is important, but it is just as important to build your partner’s confidence in him/herself. Taking the time to compliment your partner, especially in front of others, shows you are willing to go out on a limb for him/her. Showing an interest in your partner’s hobbies or interests says "you mean more to me than anyone else." This cultivates trust. It eliminates the doubt that comes with
superficiality. It expresses clearly that you are not
the center of your own universe. It bridges the gap between feeling and knowing. With adequate confidence, a person is freer to trust not only him/herself, but to trust you. Trust allows you to give freely, without expectations for something in return.

3. Forgive - Forgiveness builds insurmountable trust. Do you say you can forgive but you cannot forget? What a wicked dart the un-forgetful mind throws at the inner sanctity of trust. Harbored resentment, grudges, and other negative emotions of the same ilk, only serve dis-allusion and skepticism. Retaliation, vengeance, and
expectations are their by-product. If you want someone to trust you, you need to leave bad memories at the doormat. Once an apology is made, accept it. If you say you accept it, then you must live out that acceptance. Otherwise, you will not be trusted.

I hope I helped you with my advice. thanks for sharing your issue with us.
Re: Top Relationship Problems And Solutions: Pls Share Your Problems by ironheart(m): 5:21am On May 27, 2016
I believe talking things through in a relationship helps to prevent conflict. The only way that is possible is to be open about everything.

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