martyns303:


Hi Donna, please do not take this post as an insult or intent of insult. I would be making a few references just to clear my point. True Nigerians are boostful and arrogant its a default and we sometimes don't recognize the fact that others find it offensive, even they way we talk, its like a fight and foreigners find it irritating, pardon us, its just our lifestyle and culture.

Now to answer you, No! South Africans don't treat everybody same, certain races are sacred and you know it.

South Africans have this disdain for Nigerians or other blacks who have achieved certain level of success that's unexplainable. I have a friend, Uche, who I later had to work under his supervision. He was one of the top executives at standard bank and one of a very few blacks in such position, during a conference SA staffs started throwing shades at him for no just reason, using his ethnicity as Igbo, that they are briging drugs to SA, he should advice his brothers to be like him. Granted it was a good advice or so to speak, but it was just too obvious the intent. In his response, he said he won't deny his brothers, but maybe if SAs stop taking the drugs his brothers won't have to bring it in.

Now on a personal note. On the life of everything I hold dear, I schooled in SA, attened one of the finest institutions, a predominately white school, I could count the number of blacks, as of when I graduated it had cost me a little above R1m. Do you know that the black students were being prevented from using the school gym by the white students and nothing was done? It wasn't until myself and another Nigerian came that we changed that, they were treated as tho they lack the intellectual capacity to succeed there and only interested in their fees. Black staffs were treated with disrespect except we intervane.

True Nigerians have got a loud mouth, something we don't recognize until we have travelled and seen other cultures, but you cannot deny that these things don't happen or all that have been said is untrue. Again if you find any of my comment offensive, askies neh!!!

Dankie!!!

Pardon all typo errors

martyns303:


Hi Donna, please do not take this post as an insult or intent of insult. I would be making a few references just to clear my point. True Nigerians are boostful and arrogant its a default thing and we sometimes don't recognize the fact that others find it offensive, even the way we talk, its like a fight and foreigners find it irritating, pardon us, its just our lifestyle and culture.

Now to answer you, No! South Africans don't treat everybody same, certain races are sacred and you know it.

South Africans have this disdain for Nigerians and/or other blacks who have achieved certain level of success that is unexplainable. I have a friend, Uche, who I later had to work under his supervision. He was one of the top executives at standard bank and one of a very few blacks in such position, during a conference, SA staffs started throwing shades at him for no just reason, using his ethnicity as Igbo, that they are briging drugs to SA, he should advice his brothers to be like him. Granted it was a good advice or so to speak, but it was just too obvious the intent. In his response, he said he won't deny his brothers, but maybe if SAs stop taking the drugs his brothers won't have to bring it in.

Now on a personal note. On the life of everything I hold dear, I schooled in SA, atteneded one of the finest institutions, a predominately white school, I could count the number of blacks, as of when I graduated it had cost me a little above R1m. Do you know that the black students were being prevented from using the school gym by the white students and nothing was done? It wasn't until myself and another Nigerian came that we changed that, they were treated as tho they lack the intellectual capacity to succeed there and only interested in their fees. Black staffs were treated with disrespect except we intervane.

True Nigerians have got a loud mouth, something we don't recognize until we have travelled and seen other cultures, but you cannot deny that these things don't happen or all that have been said is untrue. Again if you find any of my comment offensive, askies neh!!!

Dankie!!!

Pardon all typo errors

lezz:


I have never had faith in your deductive abilities. I have little reliability in your comprehension too.

Someone asked a question, I gave a befitting reply.

Take less pap!


Tell me how you want me to go down on you, cease this charade of sly jabs.

So we dagga up and tear up?

Your moniker conjures up an imagery of audible moaning women are wont to emit the minute a bone-erect penïs divides your püssy lips with a firm, commanding thrust.

That's the inspiration behind your moniker, eh?



This is one south African who never ceases typing the words "South Africa" in NL's search field each time he logs on here.

He is excessively obsessed about our opinion of his country. NL's foremost Nigeria stalker he is.

You're playing the victim now. That's good. You boasted you await me for a show down.

Now come blow me away, I'll shake it off and hurl you alive into the graves where all Zulu victims of Soweto'76
Never rested in peace for you slavery continues to this day.

Mduza? What a fücked up kind of name is that!

Can't even pronounce it without twisting my tongue.

Omo-kwerekwere!!!

DonnaCorleone:


I remember you & your story about the gym, I still don't believe it. As I've told you before, I also went to a predominantly white school in Pretoria. An Afrikaans school to boot & everything was available to anyone who wanted to use it. That is part of our bill of rights. IDK which school or area you lived in. Maybe some farm school in Ventersdorp I will never believe that story in a million years, as someone who was in an Afrikaner enviroment for a number of years. A few are still racist, I'll admit. And we didn't wanna be around them either, so it was not unusual to find us sitting in different racial groups during break. The Indians preferred to sit with Indians, blacks with blacks, whites with whites, etc. It's not by force that we should all mix when we have little or nothing in common. In my school most of the whites did rugby & there was one or two students in the rugby team. It was not because they were not allowed to, they just didn't want to. The only sport that had all races was tennis, swimming & athletics.

Regarding some races receiving preferrential treatment,from whom? There're no "sacred" races here. We all receive the same treatment. Maybe you're taking everything in & viewing it through your Nigerian filter of visions & delusions. Shrugs.

MduZA:


See you after the nedbank finals game,in the meantime you can put your asylum papers ready,definately am coming to you after the match.

Umn, I'm peeing in my briefs!!!

Dunderhead!!! Asylum papers?

Bro, South Africa's unemployment rate is 26%. There's no job there.

OohLalah:


When were you at that school (year or decade) & which standard bank are you talking about? Branch office or head office and when?

You see these are things that makes me mad! Lies and generalization upon exaggeration, it irks me badly!

lezz:


Umn, I'm peeing in my briefs!!!

Dunderhead!!! Asylum papers?

Bro, South Africa's unemployment rate is 26%. There's no job there.

MduZA:


That is why you are here I guess...

lezz:
Let us mutually dispense with this female banter.

Tell me when you're done watching that match.

I've got something to show you:

You need to see why every black South African is Africa's burden and baggage.

It started with your father and his. They were denied even the basic of human civility and dignity. That segregation, that severance, that outcastness is the chief reason you look upon every black African , especially Nigerians with apprehension, hate and uncertainty.

You're an offspring of a castaway!!!

400 years of slavery can't be wiped out of your psyche, all nearly 40 million of you black south Africans, by your rants in the pages of Nairaland.

Your history will always be told in tears and sorrow.
A
Give me a sign when you're ready to bare your knuckles

OohLalah:


Pleeeeeze! Don't come we are xenophobes down here and we don't want anymore of you! Thank you!

DonnaCorleone:


I believe they say there's a thread about that on the travel section. I wouldn't know much about that because I don't live in the areas you mentioned & every city is different.

Mduza, what's that thread called?

lezz:
Let us mutually dispense with this female banter.

Tell me when you're done watching that match.

I've got something to show you:

You need to see why every black South African is Africa's burden and baggage.

It started with your father and his. They were denied even the basic of human civility and dignity. That segregation, that severance, that outcastness is the chief reason you look upon every black African , especially Nigerians with apprehension, hate and uncertainty.

You're an offspring of a castaway!!!

400 years of slavery can't be wiped out of your psyche, all nearly 40 million of you black south Africans, by your rants in the pages of Nairaland.

Your history will always be told in tears and sorrow.

Give me a sign when you're ready to bare your knuckles

martyns303:


I even forgot that I have talked about the gym issue before, and no I wasn't expecting you to believe/admit such things happen. But it wasn't a pleasant experience, these other students wanted to use the gym, not because they were not "interested". I exepct certain level of denial and defence anyway.

The worst lie anybody can tell, is a lie he/she tells himself, you know these things happen on a daily basis, worst is some Nigerians have lived in SA to withness these things and for you to now come here and outrightly deny them amazes me.

You won't see me talking bad of SA, it is a nice place, but let's call a spade a spade.

MduZA:


When your forefathers were selling their own kids for slavery were doing it for the pride of Africa,not so?stop using Nairaland as if its your family "kraal"..no south African is seeking asylum here,its a matter of logging in and out on internet...your history is great that's why a certain tribe wants to see the other tribe out of Lagos..I will never come down to your level by mentioning your father in our interactions,if that's how the youth of Nigeria debate issues unfortunately am not that type..I lost interest in the match,vomit your rubbish,am here.

DonnaCorleone:


Let me tell you a little secret about South Africans. Not sure if every country reacts the same way in the same situation, but I can only speak about the things that provoke a violent reaction in South Africans. For an example, let's say you're having a disagreement with someone here in SA, never ever use your nationality as a threat eg. by saying something like, "You don't know me, I'm Nigerian, I hail from Lagos". For some reason, saying things like that irritates people here & will earn you a beatdown from somebody.

Just recently, they were shooting a scene for a TV show downtown Jo'burg. It's one of those competition shows where people get voted out at the end of each episode. It was a show about acting & the contestants were from parts of Africa, including SA. So anyway, the actors had to act out a scene & pretend to be arguing in public. People around were not aware it was all acting. Mind you, this was shot on a busy street with people everywhere. Usually nobody pays attention to other people arguing. It's like, "whatever". But this time the guy, an amateur Kenyan actor, made the mistake of saying, "I'm Kenyan! We don't give a fùck" & a lot of other unnecessary things. Guess what? This earned him a brick over the head, live on TV! This was not done by the crowd, mind you, but by one person who got irritated by what he said. So yeah, you get the good & the bad, you just have to mind what you say sometimes because not all of us are nice. They'll fight you at a drop
of a hat if they think you're being disrespectful or provocative.

MduZA:


When your forefathers were selling their own kids for slavery were doing it for the pride of Africa,not so?stop using Nairaland as if its your family "kraal"..no south African is seeking asylum here,its a matter of logging in and out on internet...your history is great that's why a certain tribe wants to see the other tribe out of Lagos..I will never come down to your level by mentioning your father in our interactions,if that's how the youth of Nigeria debate issues unfortunately am not that type..I lost interest in the match,vomit your rubbish,am here.

davewhizy:
this girl can lie.... Who even sure say u be girl...you see thrend rush go register as person from SA on the 25th of this month... Kwantinue

lezz:


I made you lose appetite for the match? It's refreshing to know. You make my swizzle taste better.

My father freed your father and taught him how to safeguard his heritage. That's the reason you don't own an ancestral land. If you were to be shown your family tree, you'll see the last two generations and beyond shared common habitat with chacma baboons.

Your immediate past generation were half-nakêd, spear-wielding, monkey-chanting bozos.

Funny how the Boers cited Zulus and Bantus killing each other as an excuse for apartheid. And your bloodlines went down in history as humanity's longest serving willing slaves.

Lagos government is made of various tribes in Nigeria.

Now compare and contrast with your Julius Malema, former youth president of the ANC, calling on blacks to seize white lands!!!

Omo-kwerekwere!!!

LeSudAfricaine:
Flaunting your inferiority complex on the net, you have no shame. What you saying is that, without white people you are nothing. By the way, you are not a clairvoyant. You have no way of telling the future. We might have even been a better country who knows

lezz:


I made you lose appetite for the match? It's refreshing to know. You make my swizzle taste better.

My father freed your father and taught him how to safeguard his heritage. That's the reason you don't own an ancestral land. If you were to be shown your family tree, you'll see the last two generations and beyond shared common habitat with chacma baboons.

Your immediate past generation were half-nakêd, spear-wielding, monkey-chanting bozos.

Funny how the Boers cited Zulus and Bantus killing each other as an excuse for apartheid. And your bloodlines went down in history as humanity's longest serving willing slaves.

Lagos government is made of various tribes in Nigeria.

Now compare and contrast with your Julius Malema, former youth president of the ANC, calling on blacks to seize white lands!!!

Omo-kwerekwere!!!

craziebone:


abeg dey take am easy with these guys, abeg. They are humans and could get deeply hurt.

Another thing...have you ever stayed in the UK? You have the command of language similar to British-Nigerians. You also 'yab' like them. The other guys i can compare to you here are Sagamite and sirshymex.

lezz:


I made you lose appetite for the match? It's refreshing to know. You make my swizzle taste better.

My father freed your father and taught him how to safeguard his heritage. That's the reason you don't own an ancestral land. If you were to be shown your family tree, you'll see the last two generations and beyond shared common habitat with chacma baboons.

Your immediate past generation were half-nakêd, spear-wielding, monkey-chanting bozos.

Funny how the Boers cited Zulus and Bantus killing each other as an excuse for apartheid. And your bloodlines went down in history as humanity's longest serving willing slaves.

Lagos government is made of various tribes in Nigeria.

Now compare and contrast with your Julius Malema, former youth president of the ANC, calling on blacks to seize white lands!!!

Omo-kwerekwere!!!

Kingsteve:


Kai, some guys sabi diss! Wadafuq?
Seriously though, all these jibes aren't necessary.
Truth be told, the OP opened this thread to address the issue of e-fights between Naija and South, but some of the Southies kinda hijacked the thread, and gradually dished out subtle jibes.
It was inevitably going to end up like this!

ganaziah:


My brother, I'm just tired sef, no one is talking about solutions and how to let go of these shameful trends but instead still continue to lash at each other.

It's rare for Europeans to start talking craps about each other on a daily basis but see we blacks, just giving the right to refer to us as undeveloped.

From all I've seen, I think underdevelopment isn't about beautiful cities and countries, it's actually about mental ability to positively affect our environment, which we as a continent are lacking.

God help us!

dgalon:

oh really? i thought you guys are over living at the primitive era. please tel me u are jokin :-p

DonnaCorleone:


I'm not one to deny anything, EVER. I still don't believe that story as it is most definitely thumbsucked to score cheap points. What was the name of this MYTHICAL school of yours? Name & shame Who knows, maybe one of us also schooled there & can deny or comfirm your claims