Fellow nairalanders I have a prollem I am afraid of being in relationship.But before you start shaking head I am not homosexual infact I love brezz so much that I wish it can be included in my breakfast every morning.But I can't keep a girl No! Even when I manage to overcome my fear the relationship will last for weeks,I go just taya for the matter.But if its time to toast babe I would gallantly go and speak grammar when she kon gree I go dey fear and if you ask me now what my fear is particularly my answer would be "I don't know" you guys should please Epp me in any which way

Keep deceiving yourself. You're gay!

I don't know why guys here always make it clear they aren't gay. There is no shame in being gay. It's who you are.

Besides, it's not mandatory you are in a relationship. There is more to life than relationships.

Develop ursef first

Gay alert.

Vinshu:
I don't know why guys here always make it clear they aren't gay. There is no shame in being gay. It's who you are.

Besides, it's not mandatory you are in a relationship. There is more to life than relationships.

Being gay is not who anyone is... It's what they have come to believe

But......But..But.....But AM NOT GAY

Obinovictor:


Being gay is not who anyone is... It's what they have come to believe

Not true. You only believe what you see and what you are. The point is they are gay and it doesn't change anything about them neither would anything change their gay life.

Vinshu:


Not true. You only believe what you see and what you are. The point is they are gay and it doesn't change anything about them neither would anything change their gay life.

Iffa woze you ehn

7footre:

Iffa woze you ehn

I don't understand

Vinshu:


I don't understand

*sigh* mention me when you do

Vinshu:


Not true. You only believe what you see and what you are. The point is they are gay and it doesn't change anything about them neither would anything change their gay life.

In most cases, you believe what you're made to believe when you have little or no knowledge of the situation

7footre:

*sigh* mention me when you do

You mentioned me first. I had no intention of mentioning you at all

Obinovictor:


In most cases, you believe what you're made to believe when you have little or no knowledge of the situation

Made to believe? Since I was 5 I was attracted to females more. I wrote love letters to females when I was 6. Even though i still like men too. Does anyone need to "make me believe" I am bi-sexual? It's who people are and nothing can change it. People are born with it. Ive seen 3 year old gays

What matters is when you discover it. Not when or what you believe or made to believe.

Vinshu:


You mentioned me first. I had no intention of mentioning you at all

Not disputing that, only asked you to mention me when you've deciphered the content of ma post

Vinshu:


Made to believe? Since I was 5 I was attracted to females more. I wrote love letters to females when I was 6. Even though i still like men too. Does anyone need to "make me believe" I am bi-sexual? It's who people are and nothing can change it. People are born with it. Ive seen 3 year old gays

What matters is when you discover it. Not when or what you believe or made to believe.

Now I get where you're coming from... No vex.

*picks up shoes and runs away*

RichieDaVinci01:
Fellow nairalanders I have a prollem I am afraid of being in relationship.But before you start shaking head I am not homosexual infact I love brezz so much that I wish it can be included in my breakfast every morning.But I can't keep a girl No! Even when I manage to overcome my fear the relationship will last for weeks,I go just taya for the matter.But if its time to toast babe I would gallantly go and speak grammar when she kon gree I go dey fear and if you ask me now what my fear is particularly my answer would be "I don't know" you guys should please Epp me in any which way

You are not ready yet. Look for other things to spend your time on. When you are 40yrs,then you will be able to value relationship.

7footre:

Iffa woze you ehn

Abeg, woze am for 2

@OP.You sound like someone with COMMITMENT PHOBIA...if it is what I am thinking,then u are not alone.

Mostly, commitment phobic men find it difficult sustaining even hard earned relationships. This is because they believe they could still have a better choice out there. And sometimes,the phobia could be rooted in their upbringing; Men who experienced overwhelming family squabbles while growing up tend to get scared of being in relationships.

Whichever, the usual method of overcoming any phobia, is to 'face the fear'. Doing this means you must defy all odds to make a relationship work. But,it must be with someone you sincerely cherish as a Friend(avoid all these flings,they make it worse), because the bulk of the responsibility of helping u out of the problem lies with ur partner who would have to put up with many strange behaviors on your part...