Legalkhaddie:
Pray about them, hopefully you might choose the right one!

suzan404:
The one big pass me....lemme call Mimzy

mimzy:


Lolz.. If you ask me, na who I go ask

whiteybankz:
Dear nairalanders, I thought I should share my probs with u for advice especially from the married and experienced matured ones, and pls critics, do am with mercy lol… gonna make this short


But I wana be careful of choosing a girl coz of money or material stuffs, and also discard d rest without hurting them so much. jst a young man who needs advice, critics are welcome

BrideOfDracula:
Be wary of the Australian if you don't wanna end up with an ice-pick burried in your back. She sounds very unstable. I can understand jealousy, but not having enough restraint & go lashing out on people in a public platform sounds a bit nutty to me.

The Ugandan sounds more like a better choice imo.

But if I were to be frank with you, I'd say marry none of them because if either of them were what you're searching for you'd have known without needing to do all this eeny-meeny-moneey-mo. You'd just know!

mimzy:
Op im gonna be very blunt with you.

from all indications, you are not in love with any of these ladies, you are simply keeping them cos of one material gain or the other.

My advise? It all still boils down back to you, sit yourself down and ask yourself... If you were to spend the rest of your life with any of these ladies and you'll be the one to take 100% responsibility of the home, who will it be

Wish you luck...
Good rhetoric question, thanks a lot, food for thought

mimzy:
Op im gonna be very blunt with you.

from all indications, you are not in love with any of these ladies, you are simply keeping them cos of one material gain or the other.

My advise? It all still boils down back to you, sit yourself down and ask yourself... If you were to spend the rest of your life with any of these ladies and you'll be the one to take 100% responsibility of the home, who will it be

Wish you luck...

whiteybankz:

No, she does the lashing privately and those ppl msg me to report.
Truly, I have a thang more for the yoruba lady…but that shouldn't be enough reason to piCk her, should it?

4reala:
There is something u are yet to do. Dat is working on ur self. Cos from all u've stated here, u are looking for someone u can rely on(Financially). It is wen u start learning on how to take responsibilities and not rely on women. Then u knw dat u are ready to settle down

4reala:
There is something u are yet to do. Dat is working on ur self. Cos from all u've stated here, u are looking for someone u can rely on(Financially). It is wen u start learning on how to take responsibilities and not rely on women. Then u knw dat u are ready to settle down

Estharfabian:
Smh!



Wait...You're dating All of 'em at once
Some Player, You Are! I'm Almost impressed!



Marry All of 'em...Except the Ugandan. she's not A Nurse.


dunno what you lots gain from playing with people's feelings. Guy hoe!

BrideOfDracula:


Dude still, the lack of restraint should be a huge red flag. You aren't even in an official relationship just yet but she's already terrorizing anyone she perceives as a threat to your pseudo-relationship. Imagine what she'll do once you're truly "HERS".

If you have a "thing" for the Yoruba lady, then maybe that's what you should explore. Sounds like a more plausible reason, than the other things you listed in your initial post.

whiteybankz:

I'm not dating any officialy, God knws I didn't ask any of em out

whiteybankz:

I thought about that, thanks a lot I do appreciate

ronald4lif:


Very apt. More like a gigolo who sees these women as a springboard to success. When he's financially stable it'll dawn on him that they were just there for the financial undergird.

BrideOfDracula:


Thought about what, the Yoruba lady situation or your Aussie ticking time bomb?

whiteybankz:

The aussie ticking d time bomb lol, she jst too possesive and aggresivee, that scares me …thank u

whiteybankz:
Dear nairalanders, I thought I should share my probs with u for advice especially from the married and experienced matured ones, and pls critics, do am with mercy lol… gonna make this short

I'm a 27 year old guy with little businesses here and there trying to enlarge and be stable, with a promising future, plans to settle down in 2-3years time.
my prob now is who to choose as I have these 4 really close female friends with promising futures, who are crazy about me from all indications. the first is from crossriver, a 20yr old nursing girl still in school, who in d course of our frndship developed strong feelings and offered me her land when I wanted to start my snail farming which is doing well now, known her for 2yrs now.

2nd is a 25yr old yoruba lady, who is a nurse, health/nutrition consultant and she's doing rly great this lady is so crazy about me, she readily helps me with stufs, all I need do is ask. Known her for a year and 7months.

3rd is a 23yr black australian mid-wife/nurse, this one fights anyone she notices flirts with me on my wall, met her on fb, after 2yrs she made me know how much she fell for me overtime and wish I'm hers, she suprises me with money in my account, little sums though and now wanting to send me huge sum so I can start up one of my proposed businesses and also rly settle so when she comes we can be together in a house of my own and not lodge her in a hotel, which I'm delaying jst coz I wana make a choice first of them all. This one, already to her, we in a relationship and she can be very possessive.known her for 4yrs now

4th is a 29 yr old ugandan, master holder from an indian uni, working with a multi national, met her on fb, she professed love to me after like 1yr, she wants me to further promising to sponsor and planing to relocate to naija so we start a massive business together, know her for close to 3yrs. This one can be so matured in everything even emotions.

But I wana be careful of not choosing girl coz of money or material stuffs, and also discard d rest without hurting them so much. jst a young man who needs advice, critics are welcome

whiteybankz:

Bros u are totally wrong for that, but I don't have to defend myself. Thanks though

Julianyao:


I like this kind of situation. Do this :
Get four pieces of paper
Write the name of them girls on each
roll the papers
throw them up into the air
randomly pick any of them rolled papers
That one you're holding is your partner.

halfricanadian:

lol dats called playing with ones destiny wat if devil now wants to purnish op nd giv him d one dat scares him d most to pick

U wicked o