If it's girl na, everybody will scream Gold digger and olosho. What will you na call o.p?

I no go talk o, o.p marry goat I don't care.

Julianyao:

I'm not. There's a meaning behind that. That post encapsulates much of my philosophy. There's no justifiable reason to pick one over another; We are all the same, with our good sides and defects. The substance of love is commitment. He should be able to pick any and make it work....

Awwwww thats lovely but dats done with games

Cos in reality nd real life issues u just dont toss papers around to choose u use ur cognitive senses nd ability abeg

halfricanadian:


Awwwww thats lovely but dats done with games

Cos in reality nd real life issues u just dont toss papers around to choose u use ur cognitive senses nd ability abeg

I'm not necessarily telling the lad to do what I posted up there. My msg is that he shouldn't bother thinking about the choice to make, he should go ahead, choose randomly and be prepared to deal with the upside and downside. Sometimes reason get in the way of living, and this brings regrets (in the the future) after choices have been made.

Not sometimes but most times.

Julianyao:

I'm not necessarily telling the lad to do what I posted up there. My msg is that he shouldn't bother thinking about the choice to make, he should go ahead, choose randomly and be prepared to deal with the upside and downside. Sometimes reason get in the way of living, and this brings regrets (in the the future) after choices have been made.

i like u
Actually was playing with u

Op caused all dat for himself

He cud av just stick with one

Bt guys always av dis mentality dere is a girl better dan d one im with now

Well op is wat pastor ashimolowo calls commitment phobic

halfricanadian:

i like u Actually was playing with u
Op caused all dat for himself
He cud av just stick with one
Bt guys always av dis mentality dere is a girl better dan d one im with now
Well op is wat pastor ashimolowo calls commitment phobic

Thanks! Like you too.

There is nothing wrong in relying on someone financially but when you get her/his hopes up without a just reason, I hope you get burnt, really bad. WTH are you to play with feelingd of not just one but four people. I hope you make the wrong choice. We shall be waiting

halfricanadian:


i like u
Actually was playing with u

Op caused all dat for himself

He cud av just stick with one

Bt guys always av dis mentality dere is a girl better dan d one im with now

Well op is wat pastor ashimolowo calls commitment phobic

Are you by chance what your username imply? just curious.

Julianyao:

Are you by chance what your username imply? just curious.

not really o .

halfricanadian:

not really o .

OK. BTW, I'd like to chat with you some more.

Julianyao:

OK. BTW, I'd like to chat with you some more.

Ok

halfricanadian:

Ok

You OK with chatting on this platform or some place different?

Julianyao:

You OK with chatting on this platform or some place different?

Any whr

halfricanadian:

Any whr

Whatsapp then. You take pm? so I'll msg my contact.

Julianyao:

Whatsapp then. You take pm? so I'll msg my contact.

Lets start from here first which is d bed before we take it to d bedroom which is pm

halfricanadian:


Lets start from here first which is d bed before we take it to d bedroom which is pm

badt girl

halfricanadian:


Lets start from here first which is d bed before we take it to d bedroom which is pm

I'm OK with that, but don't you think it's better if it's a little bit private?

ronald4lif:


Mate, most of the time guys who sought for friendship from women abroad on social media sites like Facebook are either looking for financial assistance or an easier route to entry visas. That may not have been your intent but your narrative have the blueprint of someone seeking for financial freedom.

There was no where in your inditing where you mentioned if you have any emotional feelings towards any of these women or if any makes you feel happy, it was centralised on what they did and keep doing for you. That's a signal of a leech, fam.

For the records, I didn't sought for any of em online, the two of em I got to know from fb were d ones who added me and started convo truthfully…

I didn't need to start saying how much I love em or like em, the story was on d basis that I love em all, just not equally our, I jst need one to take as one and only thats y I seeked for u guy'ss advice…thnnks tho

Julianyao:


I like this kind of situation. Do this :
Get four pieces of paper
Write the name of them girls on each
roll the papers
throw them up into the air
randomly pick any of them rolled papers
That one you're holding is your partner.

Wow but just like that? Funy though, but this is a serious issue bro

BrideOfDracula:


Ok. You should be scared. You don't wanna feature in an episode of Snapped: women who kill

One down, 3 to go Has your head cleared a bit? Just go for the one you feel a thing for & leave the rest to find their own soulmates. It's not right that you're hogging all these women without any sincere intention on your part. It's not fair.

Thanks, but bae it's not what u think, they all know we aint officially dating, it's not like I'm decieving any, no, it all jst grew coz from inception I was trynna not hurt em by jst kiping up…
true thing is, most girls I make frnds with end up falling for me in d name of "nice, caring, blabla” how do I throw it @their face, infact, if I dnt call a new female frnd of jst a month acquaintance she start complaining I forget her blabla coz of my baes abi, u no d girlie thing

whiteybankz:

Thanks, but bae it's not what u think, they all know we aint officially dating, it's not like I'm decieving any, no, it all jst grew coz from inception I was trynna not hurt em by jst kiping up…
true thing is, most girls I make frnds with end up falling for me in d name of "nice, caring, blabla” how do I throw it @their face, infact, if I dnt call a new female frnd of jst a month acquaintance she start complaining I forget her blabla coz of my baes abi, u no d girlie thing

Lol, you must be smokin hot & irresistible then

Estharfabian:
you led 'em on...

By being nice and frndly? Ok, so how can I stop being me?

BrideOfDracula:


Lol, you must be smokin hot then & irresistible then

Lol, am I?
Not. Even my looks, u don't get it do u?

whiteybankz:

Lol, am I?
Not. Even my looks, u don't get it do u?

No, I don't get it. What's your secret?

Sunxylove:
lol u dont love any of them ,because if you did u wouldnt have gone for another

Go for another how?
I'm not dating any of them, and they know it, all these started from being jst frnds

BrideOfDracula:


No, I don't get it. What's your secret?

well, what dey say in comon about me is dey jst love my personality, coupled with my look, the 29yr old ugandan especially,

whiteybankz:

well, what dey say in comon about me is dey jst love my personality, coupled with my look, the 29yr old ugandan especially,

Lol, OK. Well sounds like you have the winning combo then.

Targaeryian:


Whiteybankz,

You don't love any of the 4 girls you mentioned.

Frankly speaking, I doubt if you understand what love is.

It sounds like you are looking for someone to provide financial (and sexual) favors on ur way to financial success.

Love isn't about what a person can give you.

It's about giving. And knowing and seeing a person's imperfections and still wanting to be with that person through thick and thin.

I mentioned all the monies stuff jst so u'all can rly know dey want me and not decieving me, if I'm about money and all that, I'd have jst played em all and kip collecting and asking, look I'm even delaying d aussie's plan of sending d mony she wants to, coz it might mean she's buying me with all that, I'm not what u think tho

whiteybankz:
Wow but just like that? Funy though, but this is a serious issue bro

Look within the thread; you'll find where I explained my funny post.

Cutehector:
Wow I can see a lot of wise comments here especially from mimzy




You should keep them as friends op... when someone does good for u, u tell them thank u.


They all have feelings for u.. yes



But do u have feelings for anyone? If ur answer is no,


Den case closed

I have, but not equally, but maybe feeling of pity, the yoruba lady tho

Julianyao:

I'm not. There's a meaning behind that. That post encapsulates much of my philosophy. There's no justifiable reason to pick one over another; We are all the same, with our good sides and defects. The substance of love is commitment. He should be able to pick any and make it work....

Rightly said, u understand what I'm going thru

Ginaz:
If it's girl na, everybody will scream Gold digger and olosho. What will you na call o.p?

I no go talk o, o.p marry goat I don't care.

Haba, atleast I no sleep with any of them, where's d olosho word coming from

BrideOfDracula:


Lol, OK. Well sounds like you have the winning combo then.

Lol thanks, but trust me it's a prob for me if u understand,