gud everning all to my fellow brother in christ.i read in the bible that jesus christ turn water in to wine.but i dont know which of the wedding he attended. as a christ which wedding is preferable?

In terms of priority, it's the traditional marriage cus it gives u control over the woman having paid all that is required by her family according to her tradition. Thereafter, u can seek for God's blessings thro the church which maight not necessarilly be a wedding.