mhiz:


I can date a poor guy, if I know that he's hardworking, has plans/goals in life, and is working hard towards achieving them.

Cutehector:
I wish to ask a question too..




I'd use a story to explain myself. I hav this female friend, we'v been online friends for years.. way back to the very times 2go came up, up till this day, we'v not yet met ourselves in person. Well dats not the issue. She says she met a guy sometime last year and dis guy in question is the nicest man any girl can wish to have, and dat he even proposed to her.. she told me dat she doesn't love him


I'm so surprised.. like seriously, u hav someone who lavishes u with gifts, is caring, nice, gentle, cute, buh she doesn't feel any love for him.

I duno if u get my point


So my question is this


What is it dat a guy will do dat will make a girl attracted to him.. cuz from what she told me, this dude is 100 percent cool.. buh she just doesn't seem to return the feelings.

It's really hurting me cuz i"v been there.

RoyalBlak007:


are you being

honest here?

mhiz:


IMO not every girl likes Mr Nice. Sometimes we need spontaneity. That bad guy stuff. Dunno if i made sense to u??

Twaci:
Refer to this article, if you may

https://www.nairaland.com/2232099/first-time

Thanks.

Cutehector:
I wish to ask a question too..




I'd use a story to explain myself. I hav this female friend, we'v been online friends for years.. way back to the very times 2go came up, up till this day, we'v not yet met ourselves in person. Well dats not the issue. She says she met a guy sometime last year and dis guy in question is the nicest man any girl can wish to have, and dat he even proposed to her.. she told me dat she doesn't love him


I'm so surprised.. like seriously, u hav someone who lavishes u with gifts, is caring, nice, gentle, cute, buh she doesn't feel any love for him.

I duno if u get my point


So my question is this


What is it dat a guy will do dat will make a girl attracted to him.. cuz from what she told me, this dude is 100 percent cool..

Cutehector:
I wish to ask a question too..




I'd use a story to explain myself. I hav this female friend, we'v been online friends for years.. way back to the very times 2go came up, up till this day, we'v not yet met ourselves in person. Well dats not the issue. She says she met a guy sometime last year and dis guy in question is the nicest man any girl can wish to have, and dat he even proposed to her.. she told me dat she doesn't love him


I'm so surprised.. like seriously, u hav someone who lavishes u with gifts, is caring, nice, gentle, cute, buh she doesn't feel any love for him.

I duno if u get my point


So my question is this


What is it dat a guy will do dat will make a girl attracted to him.. cuz from what she told me, this dude is 100 percent cool.. buh she just doesn't seem to return the feelings.

It's really hurting me cuz i"v been there.

mhiz:

Yea, I am.

iykekelvins:
Why is it that some girls can't have a good relationship(I mean being friends) with guys they're a little bit older than. Even if the guy is very mature

JoeCutie:
Why do you think men and women should be equal, but then most of the responsibilities during marriage ceremonies - traditional and white wedding- and in the family are taken up (mostly only) by the men?

Cc: Twaci, and or anybody (female) who cares to answer.

Maxi112:
what abt in a situation, his guy doesn't know abt it, and the girl chooses to musterbate over giving it to her guy or even those in her friend zone? what do u think that can cause such devilish act

safarigirl:
various things.

I like to itemize attraction into two.

Attraction of the body (physical)

Attraction of the mind (mental)

Let me use your illustration in terms of a female.

There are girls in the world that some term "a guy's girl"...she's outgoing, cool to o hang out with, looks good and all, but, guys simply aren't into her, why? Because she's "just cool".

You meet some people that you think would make ideal life partners, but you just want the person to remain that cool guy/girl you know. You don't want to break this idea you have of the person, you don't want to discover an 'uncool' side, so you avoid the relationship.

Maybe she likes the guy and he's cool, but in her head, she doesn't see him as her man.

You meet some guys and you just imagine hanging out with em, going to watch games or movies, but that's all. Then you meet some guys and you have some 18+ thoughts running through your head. Both guys are similar, characteristics and all, but one is just your home boy.

Twaci:
Good day nairalanders!

So I was bored and thought of this; why not create an opportunity for guys to know us girls better?

So I did. This is an open thread where guys are allowed to ask questions, any question, about girls/women/ladies and I, or any female, can try to answer.

Are u confused about girls? Or moods? Is there anything you would love to know about us? Let us know and see how we can help

Ladies in the house! Who's up?


...Every girl out there!

Let's have fun

optional1:
Twaci dear please do mention names dat wil answer a particular question frm d guys not only u answering it. Some of us might not b able to contribute cos u r answering all d question.

Thanks dear!

Good work God bless!

Cutehector:
second question

Is it proper for a guy to begin to give gifts to a girl at the early stages of dating?

Twaci:
Its her personal business.

But IMO, it is unhealthy for her relationship then.

JoeCutie:
Why do you think men and women should be equal, but then most of the responsibilities during marriage ceremonies - traditional and white wedding- and in the family are taken up (mostly only) by the men?

Cc: Twaci, and or anybody (female) who cares to answer.

safarigirl:
personally, I don't think men and women should be equal. I'm all for women empowerment, but I don't subscribe to that gender equality BS.

There's a reason why God put Adam on earth first and Eve was just the after-thought

Cutehector:
second question

Is it proper for a guy to begin to give gifts to a girl at the early stages of dating?

mimzy:


I'm here