whizqueen:
Guys complain of not wanting a liability as a spouse,yet you claim that financially stable women are rude and proud.

Men don't even know what they want sef

Jeffreyjamez, sod09, iamcharis and justwise. Your answers are cool. Thanks. But still men don't know what they want


Another question, why are most guys just selfish? After eruption during sex they just sleep off. They don't consider their partners feeling or satisfaction? Sex to them is just more like "hit", "cum" and "doze". Don't you guys know what is after sex activity?

whizqueen:
Guys complain of not wanting a liability as a spouse,yet you claim that financially stable women are rude and proud.

Men don't even know what they want sef

Jeffreyjamez, sod09, iamcharis and justwise. Your answers are cool. Thanks. But still men don't know what they want


Another question, why are most guys just selfish? After eruption during sex they just sleep off. They don't consider their partners feeling or satisfaction? Sex to them is just more like "hit", "cum" and "doze". Don't you guys know what is after sex activity?

Ishilove:

Okay o. You're a still a virgin but you like big brezz and nyash

Kwantinue

whizqueen:
Guys complain of not wanting a liability as a spouse, yet you claim that financially stable women are rude and proud.

Men don't even know what they want sef

Jeffreyjamez, sod09, iamcharis and justwise. Your answers are cool. Thanks. But still men don't know what they want


Another question, why are most guys just selfish? After eruption during sex they just sleep off. They don't consider their partners feeling or satisfaction? Sex to them is just more like "hit", "cum" and "doze". Don't you guys know what is after sex activity?

whizqueen:
Guys complain of not wanting a liability as a spouse,yet you claim that financially stable women are rude and proud.

Men don't even know what they want sef

Jeffreyjamez, sod09, iamcharis and justwise. Your answers are cool. Thanks. But still men don't know what they want


Another question, why are most guys just selfish? After eruption during sex they just sleep off. They don't consider their partners feeling or satisfaction? Sex to them is just more like "hit", "cum" and "doze". Don't you guys know what is after sex activity?

rosieluv:

hehehehehehe naw u v answered my question to my satisfaction,tnkx

mhiz:
Why do guys stop talking to girls when we reject their advances. Some one that always talks to you just goes cold/off. Can guys have females that ate just friends.

I dunno if its bn asked before, Why do cute guys cheat. I've never seen a really cute guy have only one girlfriend. Why is that??

whizqueen:
Jeffrey tagged me on the thread. Lol. Let's see

1. Why do guys steer clear off intelligent and smart ladies? I mean men finds it hard approaching a woman with higher IQ for a relationship. Why is that?

2. Why are guys so quick to tag a lady that wants a successful guy for herself "gold digger"? After working so hard do you expect me to open my eyes wide open and walk into poverty?

3. Where has the guys confidence gone to? The moment a lady does well financially guys run from her. Unless the guy is around to some gold digging purpose , a rich lady finds it hard finding true love. Why?

4. Why do guys brag about their sexual prowess? It could be a skill to you. But there are much more important things to brag about than sex

Please answers!

1) Sudden low self esteem in guys when they see an intelligent lady is not really their fault. The society we leave in has trained the male child to be an alpha, no one is better and no one should be better especially the female folks which to me is wrong. I thank God for my life, my I.Q scores says a lot so I don't shy off intelligent ladies, I'm sapiosexual sef . But that has not always been the case, while I was younger, I hated any situation where a girl did what I could not do, I always tried so had to beat the girl, academically, sports etc and God punished me well by putting me in classes where girls mostly came first while we struggled for 2nd. But as I grew, I discovered that life isn't about winning all, you can't win all. You have to come to terms with the fact that ladies are not any less than us. Unfortunately many guys have not been able to understand that and that's why they shy away from smarter ladies.

2) Insecurity is a big issue with guys, yeah we work hard, when the money finally comes, insecurity is so wicked that they tune the head of the guy to think that every new friend is there only because they are rich. Nobody will deliberately walk into poverty . But seriously, many ladies are they because of the money. The best is to try to form the best of relationships out of nothing, people still fall in love along the way, even though that wasn't their plan, our parents were even match made and they stuck together. We can do better.

3) Firstly, refer to answer (1) for the first answer to this question. Now for the second answer, I'm not a rich lady, but I think they find it difficult to fall in love because they build this high wall that's really difficult to break, now here's the twist, the mostly minute of things might be the solution to breaking that wall, she might be so choked up with work that all she needs is a funny guy to help her relief stress but many guys won't know that, they would be planning unnecessary things in their head that won't even impress the lady and the brick wall stands.

4) Why guys brag about sex ?? hmm I do that to. You know the joy that comes with you doing a task well, or discovering river Niger or solving one difficult maths equation or finding one exclusion clause in the constitution that everyone has been looking for ? Well that's the same feeling that comes with satisfying a woman, when she tells you you're really good or she's never had this kind of sex before and stuffs like that. You feel fulfilled, happy, joyed, every good feeling.
The only problem is mentioning names, I dunno why it is difficult for some guys to put names under wraps. The mentioning of names is where the problem lies.

I hope I answered your questions?

whizqueen:
Guys complain of not wanting a liability as a spouse,yet you claim that financially stable women are rude and proud.

Men don't even know what they want sef

Jeffreyjamez, sod09, iamcharis and justwise. Your answers are cool. Thanks. But still men don't know what they want


Another question, why are most guys just selfish? After eruption during sex they just sleep off. They don't consider their partners feeling or satisfaction? Sex to them is just more like "hit", "cum" and "doze". Don't you guys know what is after sex activity?

Kachisbarbie:


'but why is it that majority of the guys calling girls gold diggers on Nairaland don't have any hustle let alone gold to dig ?

pbs4real:
gal u ve been dealing wit learners trust me, jez pre-intimacy alone wld exhaust u b4 i start the main thingy.

KingEbukasBlog:

If I dont like big nyash and brezz ... Who will

justwise:


1.The same was an obsessed girl will be looking for a guy with 6 packs

2. A girl who never worked or owned a car will say things like...'he must have a good job, a house and a good rid'

There is no angel out there, things may change if some girls stops taking boyfriend as a job that has to pay well.

safarigirl:
show me a girl obsessed with 6-pack and I'll show you a 10,000 guys obsessednwith booobs and asss.

Those two aren't the same. You can't make yourself have boobies or asssss cuz it's a natural thing, but you can work on a 6-pack. A woman who wants her man with abs can help him work out and he'll have abs, but what happens when you want a girl with boobs or a big assess?

You can't get that in a gym, you can only get it at a theater

iAmCharis:
Osheey pre-intimacy warrior! Master of the female body You abide in the secret place of the "most high"

captaindavid:
The way to a guys heart is not food... There's no way to a guy's heart... just be urself... And also, d reason guys are scared of commitment is because,most times guys are not certain as to what dey want.bGUY U TOO LIKE FOOD... D way 2 d heart of a glutton like u is FOOD!!!!!!!!

pbs4real:
sowie u luk 16, dunno if am wrng tho.

justwise:


..and a man can help his woman lose weight without her moaning...love me the way I'm? A woman without a big boobs can go under the knife to get one just to please her man right?

The point here is...women who make list of dos and don'ts from a man should also expect the same from the man.

Nobody has exclusive rights to make demands

danyel09:
1) Sudden low self esteem in guys when they see an intelligent lady is not really their fault. The society we leave in has trained the male child to be an alpha, no one is better and no one should be better especially the female folks which to me is wrong. I thank God for my life, my I.Q scores says a lot so I don't shy off intelligent ladies, I'm sapiosexual sef . But that has not always been the case, while I was younger, I hated any situation where a girl did what I could not do, I always tried so had to beat the girl, academically, sports etc and God punished me well by putting me in classes where girls mostly came first while we struggled for 2nd. But as I grew, I discovered that life isn't about winning all, you can't win all. You have to come to terms with the fact that ladies are not any less than us. Unfortunately many guys have not been able to understand that and that's why they shy away from smarter ladies.

2) Insecurity is a big issue with guys, yeah we work hard, when the money finally comes, insecurity is so wicked that they tune the head of the guy to think that every new friend is there only because they are rich. Nobody will deliberately walk into poverty . But seriously, many ladies are they because of the money. The best is to try to form the best of relationships out of nothing, people still fall in love along the way, even though that wasn't their plan, our parents were even match made and they stuck together. We can do better.

3) Firstly, refer to answer (1) for the first answer to this question. Now for the second answer, I'm not a rich lady, but I think they find it difficult to fall in love because they build this high wall that's really difficult to break, now here's the twist, the mostly minute of things might be the solution to breaking that wall, she might be so choked up with work that all she needs is a funny guy to help her relief stress but many guys won't know that, they would be planning unnecessary things in their head that won't even impress the lady and the brick wall stands.

4) Why guys brag about sex ?? hmm I do that to. You know the joy that comes with you doing a task well, or discovering river Niger or solving one difficult maths equation or finding one exclusion clause in the constitution that everyone has been looking for ? Well that's the same feeling that comes with satisfying a woman, when she tells you you're really good or she's never had this kind of sex before and stuffs like that. You feel fulfilled, happy, joyed, every good feeling.
The only problem is mentioning names, I dunno why it is difficult for some guys to put names under wraps. The mentioning of names is where the problem lies.

I hope I answered your questions?

whizqueen:
Jeffrey tagged me on the thread. Lol. Let's see

1. Why do guys steer clear off intelligent and smart ladies? I mean men finds it hard approaching a woman with higher IQ for a relationship. Why is that?

2. Why are guys so quick to tag a lady that wants a successful guy for herself "gold digger"? After working so hard do you expect me to open my eyes wide open and walk into poverty?

3. Where has the guys confidence gone to? The moment a lady does well financially guys run from her. Unless the guy is around to some gold digging purpose , a rich lady finds it hard finding true love. Why?

4. Why do guys brag about their sexual prowess? It could be a skill to you. But there are much more important things to brag about than sex

Please answers!

safarigirl:
lol....bros, 18k gym membership to get abs is nowhere near 300k breast enlargement surgery.

Will you pay 300k for that? Will you claim to love someone and yet you want the person to risk her life for boobies? Do you know many women don't leave the surgery room alive? And you want to compare that to entering a gym or just doing sit-ups at home?

Do you know once you insert silicon, you can't breastfeed?

If na 6-pack be the issue, come, I'm working on mine and getting results. Lots of dancing and a little bit of sit-up is doing the magic, I can easily get 6-packs, but going under the knife?

If I was fat sef, it would have been better, then all I have to do is lose weight, but I still gat the booobbs and the ikebe. When you don't have it at all, that's a totally different thing.

Don't compare something that can never cost you your life to something that can. They are not on the same level

whizqueen:

Sure you did. Lol

I agree with the emboldened

because you're guilty

skarlett:
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What do African guys really think of anal sex?


Can they have period sex if bae requests it?

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ogorwyne:
Lol. I will so kick ur balls if I get u.

Hybrid600:

shuuuuuu! See Ogorwyne o! Which leg?

justwise:


No I will not pay such money for her physical reconstruction because I'm not fussy about physical appearance, I'm more of character because that is what will sustain the marriage, age will take away the beauty, the ikebes and boobs but personality is priceless.



If you don't like/love a man/woman don't get him into your life because of money and start making demands.

whizqueen:
Guys complain of not wanting a liability as a spouse,yet you claim that financially stable women are rude and proud.

Men don't even know what they want sef

Jeffreyjamez, sod09, iamcharis and justwise. Your answers are cool. Thanks. But still men don't know what they want


Another question, why are most guys just selfish? After eruption during sex they just sleep off. They don't consider their partners feeling or satisfaction? Sex to them is just more like "hit", "cum" and "doze". Don't you guys know what is after sex activity?

safarigirl:
I thought you guys like girls that depend on you and ask you for stuff.

I've never collected any money from a guy that I can't repay. I hate feeling indebted to people, so yeah, siphoning money from someone who's trying to get on his feet is not something I can everbor will ever do.

Like you said, the mindbis a far better assetghan the body, unfortunately, most people of the world are more captivated by the body than the mind

justwise:
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Sorry I don't like a girl who constantly ask/make demands call it being stingy I couldn't careless.

If I get to know you I should know when and how to help without being asked.

I'm not going impress you by giving u money or gift just to win your heart, what happens when the money runs out?

I'm not at all against helping gf or wife...that is my responsibility naturally but it shouldn't be the condition of love.