" I wish he could be less bossy",
"he is just too quick-tempered and I cant stand it"
" I wish she could stop talking too much ", "she is just too proud"
These are the words and thought of so many folks all around the world. The Question is "Can you really change people?" Well what do you think? or what do I think?
People can be changed if you want them to be changed, but that depends on why you want them to change. This is what will tell if they would change or they would just keep pissing you off..

Then we need to give a thought to this..
Why do you want your spouse, your sibling, friend or whoever to change?The first step is to make sure your reason is not selfish, e.g Do you want them to change so they can hang out with you more or pay the bills more when you go out with them?. Or is it because its just plainly not good for the person's health or a particular habit gets him/her into trouble? Whatever it is, Think about it and make sure it is not selfish. to continue reading
...http://expressperspectives..com/2016/06/changing-bad-habits-of-those-closest-to.html
Now the second step is; don't try to change them, you would probably be thinking right now."did you hear me right?" Yes, you did!