sam4eva777:


So funny. No be only Shiloh oooo, when they start lighting red and blue candles too in a white garment church, their eyes go open.

Many refusal of proposals are because the guy isn't rich. let's just be honest.

Ishilove:
I didn't outrightly reject their proposals. I just told them to 'hold on' until they got tired and walked away.

I didn't want to break their hearts

yetseyi:
A young minister in church proposed 8 weeks after he lost his wife (his wife died some weeks to their 1year anniversary)

Of course I rejected. I was tempted to remind him that he should still be mourning but I guess I didnt want to state the obvious and rub salt on the wounds(thats if he was even hurting)

I am still in shock that someone can propose to another woman just weeks after he lost his "newly wedded" wife

Some people sha

He even still had the guts to tell someone to please talk to me that my response was unfavorable. I was like seriously?

Na there I para well well

He ended up calling to apologise.

Dandeson1:
Na shiloh go end all this shakara when you start to sweep shiloh ground yur eye go clear.
Shey you wan discover mongo park

yetseyi:
A young minister in church proposed 8 weeks after he lost his wife (his wife died some weeks to their 1year anniversary)

Of course I rejected. I was tempted to remind him that he should still be mourning but I guess I didnt want to state the obvious and rub salt on the wounds(thats if he was even hurting)

I am still in shock that someone can propose to another woman just weeks after he lost his "newly wedded" wife

Some people sha

He even still had the guts to tell someone to please talk to me that my response was unfavorable. I was like seriously?

Na there I para well well

He ended up calling to apologise.

DollyParton1:
I never let it get to marriage proposal level.
Once I see the irreconcilable differences and/or the unpardonable flaws, I let you go.

remsonik:

That's hard o!! I will ask him if he killed his wife that he can't mourn for at least 18 months. Men atimes

anonymousreport:
Does he have to mourn forever. Anyways that's your opinion but the thing is the dead is dead. They don't even care really what the living are upto anymore - separate world. Some people get over the loss of someone when they are closer to people they find dearly.

drnoel:


Now thats evil and unfair but I bet I saw one most sinister than yours.

Was once men in suit for a pal of my cousin who was an architect. Guy was getting married to a babe he was dating for a few months. Organized a massive wedding to impress the bride. The bride didn't show up for her wedding but followed another nigger to South Africa. She scattered the niggers heart but we later heard why she refused. She had placed the guy on hold for years and had started dating the guy from what we heard out of pity. One would wonder what she and her sister meant by out of pity cos the 3-4/5 months she was dating the guy while waiting for her drug boyfriend in south Africa she was living in the guy's house, acting wife material. In the guys words which I believe cos I knew him pretty well, he was 4king her everyday. She didnt even drop a note or tried to explain, she just did an MIA on him.
I learnt a lesson that date. It just taught me as much as I love our naija sisters most of them gurls dont get loyality and not to be trusted. That doesn't mean we shouldn't love em. It just means in case of an eventuality don't break down. Men I saw a lively young man reduced to nothing on his own wedding day. Crying himself to pieces. It was left for us to pick up the pieces the girl had destroyed.

jopretty:
I don't think so

Ishilove:
I didn't outrightly reject their proposals. I just told them to 'hold on' until they got tired and walked away.

I didn't want to break their hearts

Ishilove:
I didn't outrightly reject their proposals. I just told them to 'hold on' until they got tired and walked away.

I didn't want to break their hearts

Blade21:
I rejected my now hubby 3times before I accepted the fourth time I just said no I can't marry you after a while he asked again I refused, the 3rd time he swore never to ask me again and he moved on we stopped talking for so long then he came back and I realised that's the only man that can make me happy in this bad world he's just perfect then I said yes the 4th time lol

Dandeson1:
Na shiloh go end all this shakara when you start to sweep shiloh ground yur eye go clear.
Shey you wan discover mongo park

HaneefahRN:


2 months after he lost his wife, haba. God forbid if you lose a relative and you hear the wife wants to marry 2 months after, won't you raise an eyebrow?

DollyParton1:
I never let it get to marriage proposal level.
Once I see the irreconcilable differences and/or the unpardonable flaws, I let you go.

iykedare:
Op,

You rejected his marriage proposal because he isn't rich. 99% percentage of naija babes will marry rich men who are worse than control freaks. Abeg,tell us another story.


Hope that you won't regret not accepting the proposal someday.

Oya watch Nairaland girls will give us tales of millions of proposals they got. Keep lying to us and deceiving yourself

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Lol..chief statesman on women affairs has spoken.

Baba, men dey hail from this our panoramic angle [/size]

madridguy:
Your hubby get time ooooo. You too na iron lady with no blood.

lekjons:
i don't get the fuss about that proposal thingy..

i felt it't oyinbo thing, why should i propose when we've be f**king
why should i ask someone who claimed to love me if she'll marry me??

i'll just wake-up one day and tell her i'm considering doing engagement, then other things follow naturally..

no time for all those on the plane, in the waters, on air, on expressway etc proposal..

kaystones:


Ha, d guy cldnt stand by his swearing dts y he came back (maybe cos of love) and as 4 you, na so u get fine looks?

Lamor:
I don't have the heart to reject a guy.If I knw you can't get past the friend zone and u r already becoming too attached,I give a break.Atleast all excess feelings can wear off.Or I could jx say it jokingly,bt my message would be passed across.I can't bear to see someone feel bad cos of me,and mehn u don't marry outta pity.Though I'm looking forward to a romantic proposal.#winks.

Ishilove:
I didn't outrightly reject their proposals. I just told them to 'hold on' until they got tired and walked away.

I didn't want to break their hearts

Blade21:
I rejected my now hubby 3times before I accepted the fourth time I just said no I can't marry you after a while he asked again I refused, the 3rd time he swore never to ask me again and he moved on we stopped talking for so long then he came back and I realised that's the only man that can make me happy in this bad world he's just perfect then I said yes the 4th time lol