...Fearful and wonderfully made. That is what God made every human being but I'm always in consternation when guys will stand tall to the decision of "I must test what I want to buy" for the fear of taking their fellow 'man' to their house.

In bible days, there wasn't any record of barrenness except one(because of her display),time will fail me to go into details.
My question is, why are guys always in fear of marrying without "testing?" If guys can stop "destroying" this young girls/ladies, who will be afraid of marrying without testing? If after "campus couples,, the best couples on campus", why do u(guys) hesitate walking down the isle with her? Why searching for "brand new?" Who will take those "abandoned or forth hand goods" home?

For your information ladies, guys don't take you as anything once they've succeeded in climbing you. You may call the guy 'mugu' because he spent little amount of money on you but I must confess you are the greatest 'mugu' because your dignity and self worth has been destroyed. Your identity is thereby known to every guy as "cheap thing" anywhere you are seen by guys they'll be passing eye contact at each other and their discussion will be like "Ogus has used her, Emeka has used her..." Etc.

A lady I knew very well was about to be married by a guy, unfortunately to her, the guy was a friend to her ex and that her ex told his friend that the lady that he wants to take as wife had aborted for him, the rest is history. Up till now the lady in question is yet to marry and her age mates are in their respective matrimonial homes with children. Even that her ex that she aborted for I believe is married with kids.

One secret ladies should know is this; if you refuse that guy (no matter who he is) sex, though he may pretend not loving you at that time but on the long run you'll be a "worthy jewel" in his sight and in the sight of every other guys.
Another thing is that premarital sex is bad. It is a covenant between the two. If the other person has evil spirit in him/her, the other will contract it, if he/she is having curse, both of you will share it and so on and so forth. That is why it's very dangerous to have sex with somebody that is not your husband/wife. You can even imagine in many cases that many couples look alike after coming together to show that sex is more of spiritual bonding.

Ladies should know that they are mostly at the receiving end of the negative effect of premarital sex.
I have a roommate who said that he don't want to have female child his reason being that they(feamles) are wayward and whores...but this same guy do change ladies like clothes. And he forgot that whatsover a man sow that he shall reap(law of karmal or law of retributive force).
I always watch in surprise and laughter at times when some women try hard to tame their female kids so that they won't go wayward(but they forgot the tough times they gave their own parents) I'm watching in 3D.

My candid adv[color=#006600][/color]ice to ladies is that they should maintain high level of dignity and hold their virginity tight. Don't allow that guy(that dosnt deserve your worth) defile and take your pride away just because of ephemeral things. Remember that that money he gave you will soon be spent, the clothes he bought for you will soon wax old, even the car(if any) will one day become outdated and your virginity once lost is lost forever and your dignity is gone never to be retrieved.


Written by a concerned citizen,
And a student of Obafemi Awolowo
University,
Ile-Ife, Osun State,
Nigeria.

hmmm

BS!

Next!!!!

GBAM!!!!!!!!! You have said it all

vote refiner for miss nairaland

As much as u have let the cat out of the bag...u are right ..but u no try sha..

Some of this girls have follow come sense ,some just have plates in their skull. ..they would only learn after numerous heart breaks ...

okay

tell this to Olori wuraola. joker. even some virgins no see husband marey self

ednut1:
tell this to Olori wuraola. joker. even some virgins no see husband marey self

I want to tell you categorically, there is no lady that kept herslf that will find it difficult to get married. Quote me anywhere.

Is marriage a must ?


U r saying it like it's d wish of every lady to get married
Some don't get married cos they don't want to


Besides virginity status isn't what will help u get a good wife

OlivetBen:
...Fearful and wonderfully made. That is what God made every human being but I'm always in consternation when guys will stand tall to the decision of "I must test what I want to buy" for the fear of taking their fellow 'man' to their house.

In bible days, there wasn't any record of barrenness except one(because of her display),time will fail me to go into details.
My question is, why are guys always in fear of marrying without "testing?" If guys can stop "destroying" this young girls/ladies, who will be afraid of marrying without testing? If after "campus couples,, the best couples on campus", why do u(guys) hesitate walking down the isle with her? Why searching for "brand new?" Who will take those "abandoned or forth hand goods" home?

For your information ladies, guys don't take you as anything once they've succeeded in climbing you. You may call the guy 'mugu' because he spent little amount of money on you but I must confess you are the greatest 'mugu' because your dignity and self worth has been destroyed. Your identity is thereby known to every guy as "cheap thing" anywhere you are seen by guys they'll be passing eye contact at each other and their discussion will be like "Ogus has used her, Emeka has used her..." Etc.

A lady I knew very well was about to be married by a guy, unfortunately to her, the guy was a friend to her ex and that her ex told his friend that the lady that he wants to take as wife had aborted for him, the rest is history. Up till now the lady in question is yet to marry and her age mates are in their respective matrimonial homes with children. Even that her ex that she aborted for I believe is married with kids.

One secret ladies should know is this; if you refuse that guy (no matter who he is) sex, though he may pretend not loving you at that time but on the long run you'll be a "worthy jewel" in his sight and in the sight of every other guys.
Another thing is that premarital sex is bad. It is a covenant between the two. If the other person has evil spirit in him/her, the other will contract it, if he/she is having curse, both of you will share it and so on and so forth. That is why it's very dangerous to have sex with somebody that is not your husband/wife. You can even imagine in many cases that many couples look alike after coming together to show that sex is more of spiritual bonding.

Ladies should know that they are mostly at the receiving end of the negative effect of premarital sex.
I have a roommate who said that he don't want to have female child his reason being that they(feamles) are wayward and whores...but this same guy do change ladies like clothes. And he forgot that whatsover a man sow that he shall reap(law of karmal or law of retributive force).
I always watch in surprise and laughter at times when some women try hard to tame their female kids so that they won't go wayward(but they forgot the tough times they gave their own parents) I'm watching in 3D.

My candid adv[color=#006600][/color]ice to ladies is that they should maintain high level of dignity and hold their virginity tight. Don't allow that guy(that dosnt deserve your worth) defile and take your pride away just because of ephemeral things. Remember that that money he gave you will soon be spent, the clothes he bought for you will soon wax old, even the car(if any) will one day become outdated and your virginity once lost is lost forever and your dignity is gone never to be retrieved.


Written by a concerned citizen,
And a student of Obafemi Awolowo
University,
Ile-Ife, Osun State,
Nigeria.

You speak as a self-righteous boy with chaste expectations from a lady. Obviously, you must have been disappointed that a lady you so much love (conditionally) is actually not a virgin. Sorry about that. Yes virginity is good but it does not qualify the worth or purity of a woman as much as taking a cup of water from a river does not reduce the river's value. Purge yourself of your fluffy mind and learn to focus on the object not the shadow.

Besides, what advice have you for the men who run around playing games with the women. Of course, self-righteousness!

A fully grown man won't be shallow to quantify a woman's worth with her virginity status. Live and let live is the way to go my brother. Open your mind.

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OlivetBen:

I want to tell you categorically, there is no lady that kept herslf that will find it difficult to get married. Quote me anywhere.

dey der y hear. keeping ones self doesn't even guarantee a successful marriage. although wat is happening is bad with d way guys nd gals are naking with reckless abandon . u cannot change it thru writing. channel ur energy to beta tins

NOIBMUUL:



You speak as a self-righteous boy with chaste expectations from a lady. Obviously, you must have been disappointed that a lady you so much love (conditionally) is actually not a virgin. Sorry about that. Yes virginity is good but it does not qualify the worth or purity of a woman as much as taking a cup of water from a river does not reduce the river's value. Purge yourself of your fluffy mind and learn to focus on the object not the shadow.

Besides, what advice have you for the men who run around playing games with the women. Of course, self-righteousness!

A fully grown man won't be shallow to quantify a woman's worth with her virginity status. Live and let live is the way to go my brother. Open your mind.

One's opinion is not bad until another person with contrary opinion comes in. But I'm not here to address whatever. I've written what I wrote but that doesn't call for abuse from u.BTW I didn't say all ladies, I said "many" it also mean that some other people are spared.

Woman this......woman that.....

Una never taya


Ancient kings wei marry virgin still dey keep concubines, not to talk of mistresses of these days.

Virgin woman wei marry violent man, why her virginity no tame am?

Virgin woman wei graduate with first class at 40 still dey form , till my wedding night "oh lawd where at thou!"

Virgin woman wei marry, yet her husband no dey enjoy the bedroom, he don dey look outside, why her virginity no give am everlasting satisfaction? Dont answer that..."man is polygamous by nature"

Mind you, am not generalizing but the amount of unhappy homes and divorce are from these issues I outlined....


Op rather than move for a piece of skin that hasent been penetrated, why dont you use your talent to encourage women to make a difference to the society,

How many Nigerian women can boast of inventing machines for agriculture?

How many Nigerian women can we boust about helping the needy on the street without looking for the press to hail them?

How many of our women that through their hard earned money, use it to open libraries to encourage literary habits?

I believe those kind of women are the ones sane and intelligent men that know what they need vie for, not a piece of skin.




Am tired.....phew!

K9blunt:
Woman this......woman that.....

Una never taya


Ancient kings wei marry virgin still dey keep concubines, not to talk of mistresses of these days.

Virgin woman wei marry violent man, why her virginity no tame am?

Virgin woman wei graduate with first class at 40 still dey form , till my wedding night "oh lawd where at thou!"

Virgin woman wei marry, yet her husband no dey enjoy the bedroom, he don dey look outside, why her virginity no give am everlasting satisfaction? Dont answer that..."man is polygamous by nature"

Mind you, am not generalizing but the amount of unhappy homes and divorce are from these issues I outlined....


Op rather than move for a piece of skin that hasent been penetrated, why dont you use your talent to encourage women to make a difference to the society,

How many Nigerian women can boast of inventing machines for agriculture?

How many Nigerian women can we boust about helping the needy on the street without looking for the press to hail them?

How many of our women that through their hard earned money, use it to open libraries to encourage literary habits?

I believe those kind of women are the ones sane and intelligent men that know what they need vie for, not a piece of skin.




Am tired.....phew!

The dignified knows her worth while the LovePeddler and stinking ones regrets. Actually u are right in what u said as regards channeling it to how they can be innovative. My question is if they keep on jumping from bed to bed how would they have the time to think of something tangible to engage themslves in?

OlivetBen:

The dignified knows her worth while the LovePeddler and stinking ones regrets. Actually u are right in what u said as regards channeling it to how they can be innovative. My question is if they keep on jumping from bed to bed how would they have the time to think of something tangible to engage themslves in?

And they are jumping from bed to bed with who again?

Don't blame all these ladies alone, most times its guys that trick them and pressurize them to sleep with them.

Besides that, isn't the act a mutual act? Why put the blame on one.