The “all men are the same” cliché won’t go away soon because many women are finding themselves in different relationship dynamics they can’t phantom. Without regards to age, men act differently across board. These acts may help a woman determine if she’s with a boy or man.
WHEN HE IS A BOY
While on a date or something like just hanging out, he blatantly refuses to pay or he manipulates his way out of paying. His acts of paying for dating bills only come when it’s your birthday or something really special. Most males in a relationship would offer to pay but sometimes they’re out cash or something but a dude that’s being a boy will refuse to pay or take responsibility.
Most women want a committed dude but when you’re dating a boy, you would notice he can’t even commit to what he wants to do in the next 6hrs. He can’t even plan how his day is going to be in the next 24hrs. He will promise to take you to the moon yet he can’t decide what to eat in a restaurant. He tries on several pants before finally choosing. This dude doesn’t seem to understand that critical planning resonates through relationships.
While walking down the street together, he is caught sizing up a gorgeous lady (of his taste) and has lost consciousness of your presence. Whenever he sees a curvy woman, he can’t resist looking back. This dude probably fell for you because you flirted with so much and all in all, he places below his gadgets (FIFA, PES, PS, Xbox, car etc.)

WHEN HE IS MAN
While on a date or something like just hanging out, he insists on paying. It doesn’t matter if it’s a regular occasion or a special one. Most males in a relationship would offer to pay but sometimes they’re out cash or something but a man will show willingness to pay and may feel bad for not being able to pay the bills.
Most women want a committed dude and when you’re dating a man, you would discover that he is highly organised. He plans his day and week ahead. If there is a sudden change of plans, he copes with it well.
While walking down the street together or at a restaurant being served by a gorgeous lady, he is not even focused on her but friendly and respectful. This doesn’t mean he doesn’t appreciate beautiful ladies, he is giving you respect and class. This dude probably fell for you because you both have the same level of humour and you are at the centre of his dealings.

WHEN HE IS A GUY
While on a date or something like just hanging out, he 50s the bills. He may opt to pay for drinks while he requests that you pay food.
He is committed to the girl of the moment but then he is scared of it. While at a restaurant, he tips the sexy waitress more than usual. This guy probably fell for you because you have the looks of his perfect woman and he never jokes with his shoes, watches, collection of pictures of sexy women on the internet, fancy travel locations etc. You’re 50% on his mind. Everything about a guy is 50%

So ladies, what type of a male are you with?

Source: https://nifemiolu..com.ng/2016/06/ladies-is-he-boy-man-or-guy.html