Trina0936:
Half-cheats lol

janellemonae:


I have NEVER heard any married Yoruba man say this. Clearly u are lying. Thinking a group of men cheat is one thing, based on antecedents or stories u hear. What ur saying here is unheard of.

WriteBoy:



Cheating is a cultural institution among the Yourbas. I know what I am saying because I have lived amongst Yoruba people all m life.

janellemonae:


Polygamy is cultural amongst Yorubas. It was ALWAYS the norm. Like it was among all African tribes. It's not a strange new phenomena U discovered. We've always bn deeply cultural people - Not xtian nor Muslim. Some tribes are monogamous because they were successfully completely brainwashed by Christianity. But even among those Christians there are cheats. In all the tribes.

I know it might seem weird to some of u dt just started hanging out outside ur tribe, but polygamy has greatly reduced among Yorubas. This was due to d spread of xtianity & d rise in education (which are d same factors dt made it dissappear in other tribes) .E.g. In my grandparents generation, monogamy was a complete rarity. Very rare. Both my grandfathers had nothing less dn 4wives each. My parents however, met in high Skool & have bn married for over 40yrs. Same wt all their friends.

WriteBoy:


I see what you did there -- nice try, but nah, I am not buying!

Yorubas are genetically predisposed -- repeat-- predisposed to cheating. I have lived all my life within and with Yoruba people, rural and urban, and a common denominator that I have witnessed firsthand, in passing and within my group of friends is the almost nuanced acceptance for cheating. It is not even confined to one gender alone. Cheating is a malaise that the Yoruba nation cannot wake up tomorrow and shout "hurray, now our pants can finally stay at home" Doing that will run counter to cultural expectations.

Your parents and their friends are an exception and not an indication of the norm. Haven't you wondered why Yorubas record the highest number of divorces in Nigeria, maybe Africa, who knows? Do you for one second think that a sexually expressive and liberal way of life is not the chief reason for this?

I have come quite of age, albeit young still, but I am yet to witness firsthand a single Igbo divorce. I may have heard -- although my memory is quite fuzzy on that -- of an Igbo divorce, but yet to witness one. While Aunty Ladi down the street is on husband number four and five kids in tow, Tolu is on her 8th boyfriend at the ripe age of 22, and Alhaja can not count all her husbands on one hand.

Don't even get me started on the sudden marriages -- I fear I may bust an aorta if I touch that. Take the truth little miss and don't bray.

Keep in mind: Genetically Predisposed.

tomquest:
But is cheating actually common with Yoruba married men? I've heard a lot being said regarding that. If true, how do their wives feel about it?

janellemonae:


Lmao at "genetically predisposed". Clearly this is not an intelligent line of argument by any standards. I'll gladly leave u to ur studies.

WriteBoy:



To answer your question, I need to take a look at my clock now. See now, the time says 3.23AM -- would the dawn come? I believe the answer is YES.

Taking this analogy a little further, would the Yoruba man cheat? As sure as dawn!

Cheating is a cultural thing among Yoruba people and their wives understand. They understand and also get a piece of the action outside. That balances the equation nicely!

When I lived in Ibadan, my neighbour, Mr Rasheed, would always bring home strange women. My sister felt so bad for his wife every time the woman was away and she saw this happen. You can only begin to imagine the reversal in feelings (my sister's feelings for the perceived cheated woman) the day a quarrel broke out with neighnour X's wife. The bringer-of-strange-women's wife actually boasted that her husband only carries big and beautiful women and that does not stop her from getting her "owo obe" -- soup money. I thought to myself, "what a depraved people"

WriteBoy:


Ad Hominem -- attacking the messenger rather than the position. I may have imperfect grammar, but I make it up with first hand experience little miss.

janellemonae:
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Ur are extremely disrespectful & uncouth when u call a human being "depraved" because they don't believe what u believe. Clearly mr Rasheed & his wife have no problem wt polygamy. Dts d only logical conclusion from dt exchange.

abike12:
where person fit see correct Calabar guy sef?

WriteBoy:


Ad Hominem -- attacking the messenger rather than the position. I may have imperfect grammar, but I make it up with first hand experience little miss.


Edit 1:

I know you are only pulling figures out of the air -- but I am always ready to take up the gauntlet whenever it is thrown. How do you wish to receive proof of your people's wayward ways? Voice, coming down to my street. Feel safe though, because I don't bite or lace drinks with stuff unlike some Yoruba boys I know.

WriteBoy:


Polygamy, who said polygamy? No, that wasn't polygamy. That was dangerous sexual behaviour that I found reprehensible. Husband and wife were supposed to be in a committed monogamous relationship. yet, for the damnedest reason, they found ways to turn their marriage into a veritable swingers party! Does that seem normal to you ma?

I bet it does!


PS: When I say "Genetically predisposed" I mean it in the sense that: Yoruba genes in any individual would goad them to infidelity. Science may not have an answer for it yet, but if they listen to me, they actually have a solid foundation to base research on why Yoruba people cheat so much on, instead of beginning from the ground up.

buharisbae:


wicked!!

cstr9:
Go and sit down. Ofcourse, every ethnic group has cheaters, but the level differs.
For the yoruba ethnic group, it is very difficult to find a successful, well to do yoruba man without ATLEAST one extra wife and kids outside. It is a cultural thing that has been strengthened through the influence of islam in yoruba land.
Picking one or two philandering igbo men as your example does not change the fact that the overwhelming marital culture in igboland is monogamy.

brightjenny:
well based on my own experience Igbo are the best in sex not calabar....

telemapreye1:
One problem tho...calabar guys are short like small stout bottle

JiggamanGh:


A Ghanaian named Hanny Morgana, this probably written by a Nigerian blogger to feel special.

ThePeacemaker:
And the Ghanian woman====> Whøre, $lut, ashawo.
She don date the whole naija population finish.
**Real omo yoruba**

umehmj:
lol...my experience with dating a Ghanaian babe

Ghanaian babes see worship naija guys literally. to them it is like hooking a yanky
dude. the babe was all over me. she will call on the phone and i will speak with her, her sisters, her parents (to my surprise ) and indeed to the whole of tema that cares to talk to this naija dude.

they are so needy: the babe follows me bumper to bumper on all social platforms and always tagging me like in all her uploads. if any babe comments on my pix na cry be that. she doesn't waste in pikin fights with my female friends.

again, they are pretty cheap to manage. all that an average ghanian babe wants is to come and see Lagos and probably go to whizkid and psquares shows. My Ghanaian babe travelled all the way from tema to come see me and most importantly to see Lagos. guess how much it cost me? ....it cost me just an invite. shikina. but heh, i did gave her a great time and memories.

i ran when she got back to Ghana. dunno how it happened but every babe in tema was calling for an invite to come see lagos, psquare and whizkid. what's up with them and whizkid and psquare sef




where is lalasticlala?

stinggy:
That was too disrespectful man

ForeverYoung197:
If these we're true according to their tribes, then I shall seek for a calabar guy

Caleycash:
Hope you will tell that to God, when ur in hell... no be only Diplomatic, bloody liars everywhere!!