Should i be ashame that i can't get rid of my feeling for a girl that want me no more, we have parted for almost five month now, due to little misunderstanding, i can't quietly stay without thinking about her, my mind tells me that i am done with her but my thought still revolve around her, is it that i still love her? and how can i get her off my mind.

Guy,if d girl does nt send u,u got 2 stand up 2 d truth & let her go,its dificult,i bet u its d most dificult tin i've done.I've lost abt 5 gud relatnshp all becos i dont want sex, caus i dnt believ in premarital sex.D last was 2mnths ago,She broke up wit me at d time i nided her most caus i was goin thru alot at dat time.I dnt knw hw i've bin able 2 survive d heart pain til date but i here am i.1 tin i knw am doin is dat i go out alot,hang out with ur 'true' friends nt sycophans & share ur pains with them.I also browse alot,read books,seek 2 develop urself.I don c 4 girls hand oh.Sumtims i ask myself 'is it a sin 2 be a gud guy'.Try dis my brother,it shall be well.

there is nothing to be ashamed of
just give it some little time you will get over it

start dating a new girl you'd forget about her

Ashame? Flipping NO!
Some people just walk into one's life and leave prints.
Give Yourself some rest . . . .Thinking about her shouldn't be the problem.
Focus on moving on and everything would fall into place.

thank you all, i know it is going to be difficult for me to 4get her easily, but i don't have a choice than to forget her