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Re: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by babie78: 6:30am On Jul 05, 2016 |
@infogenius are you for real . He should give her a nod to go ahead. Now I have read it all |
Re: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by Henrypraise: 6:32am On Jul 05, 2016 |
Kosigift: Its not selfishness, d man needs tym to diffuse d negativity he feels, most tyms d negativity may stem from pity. Wit tym, he will get ova it if he trully loves his wife. But d woman shud not push him. Healing for hu is raped n d spouse hu watched takes different dimensions. @kosigift message me on whatsapp or fb. Fynboys obtain me, dem rob me, collect my phones. |
Re: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by infogenius(m): 6:35am On Jul 05, 2016 |
babie78: That nod is still very far better than going ahead to do it without any word or sign from him. |
Re: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by mightykay(m): 6:44am On Jul 05, 2016 |
infogenius:I have a great pity for those that gave to birth you and any woman in ur life. This is clear evidence of improper upbringing. Im still marvel at ur post and ur defence. I just wish u a similar experience and be alive to tell us ur action. |
Re: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by infogenius(m): 6:54am On Jul 05, 2016 |
mightykay: Pity yourself that you are a dump without senses and improper use of investment bestowed on you. If your sister tells you a lecturer wants her to bed to pass. I am sure you will tell her to bulge. I am not you, I can't reason like you cos it amounts to failure. Your statements tells me more how you were brought up. Poorly my dear. So poor! I will not experience such and if the scene arises God Forbid , I insist no man will sleep with my wife with me watching without my consent. You can go to hell if my comments doesn't please you. I don't care A dump like you can do that as we are not same. |
Re: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by mightykay(m): 8:13am On Jul 05, 2016 |
@infogenius. ur madness knows no bound wt this ur continous show of lunatism, comparing at gun point where u dont ve option or lose all the lives involved not the husband alone to a lecturer's advance where simple no can cause a rewrite of extral yr is unimaginable. let me start by asking what is the meaning of armed robber by any dictionary u know?. which is better being raped n save all lives involved or refused rape lose all lives including ur own. pls am sorry to say this u er an ebola to this generation |
Re: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by infogenius(m): 8:18am On Jul 05, 2016 |
mightykay: An idiot like you should fear God not even an armed robber. A robber that is a mortal like you. Coward! Imagine your foolish sense of reasoning. Tell your children this spew whenever you have one. "That they can sleep with mummy if told to do so at gun point" Wisdom is not for all and I am not surprised you don't have any. |
Re: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by mightykay(m): 8:26am On Jul 05, 2016 |
infogenius:so u prefer armed robber to kill u and ur daughter even the wife eventially cos u will be traumatised. u er nt cured yet |
Re: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by mightykay(m): 8:27am On Jul 05, 2016 |
infogenius:so u prefer armed robber to kill u and ur daughter even the wife eventially cos u will be traumatised. bible says wisdom is principal thing. u er nt cured yet |
Re: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by HaneefahRN(f): 8:32am On Jul 05, 2016 |
infogenius: Don't worry I'm sure your wife will even take the gun herself and blow your brains out . I'm sure you are the type of person that thinks every problem in marriage is caused by a woman. And people who will tell people that were raped to shut up cos they enjoyed it. Sick See him talking like the woman planned to be raped or was happy about it. I've read about about these kind of occurrences and the woman usually suffers continuously for it at the end of the day. I wonder why women are still taking the risk and being sacrificial sef. Doesn't mean they won't still rape her even after killing the husband. The husband never stood up for her! And now it's her fault. And you are beyond fish brained, you are just pathetic, feels like I'm replying a psycho. |
Re: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by infogenius(m): 8:35am On Jul 05, 2016 |
mightykay: Yes I prefer that than to cause my wife to sin against God. This is not common sense brother, tell your religious leader I call it higher sense. I can authoritatively tell you that you live a fearful and chickly life. And honestly, you won't achieve much spiritually and physically this way. Most probably end up a failure. I proudly say I belong to the camp of the bold that stands on the truth from the Bible not willing to compromise even my life to stand for the truth than to join a camp of chickens like yours to please people. Fear God my friend and damn any idiot. And tell me if God won't stand for you. |
Re: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by infogenius(m): 8:47am On Jul 05, 2016 |
HaneefahRN: I thought you would have made some sense but you are another foolish lady out there. Please go and understand the importance of sex in the lives of married couples. Not the ones you watch on nollywood. That pot of honey is sacred if you feel yours is not. I have never seen anywhere or read anywhere that God clapped or will clap for any woman that compromises that way. Except mumus like you after all what do you know. You are the physcho that uses her brain to lead your affairs in life knowing fully well you know nothing. And feel you have done the right thing. Try it now and tell me your boyfriend pats you on the back. Dummy |
Re: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by mightykay(m): 9:00am On Jul 05, 2016 |
@infogenius.if u er a failure and alive chances are high that one day u will meet sucess but s stupid bravery that caused ur live will receive additional punishment in hell. i dont even know if im talking a toddler here cos most ursubmissions paranoid pathetic and childish. I dont know when being raped is now a sin to God to the victim. I think I need to ask some questions here. 1. how old er u?2 what is level of ur education? 3. wht is the meaning of rape and sin? 4.what is the meaning of stupid, bravery, arrogance and failure? The ans. will determine further lecture |
Re: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by infogenius(m): 9:08am On Jul 05, 2016 |
mightykay: If you die doing the right thing, it is far better than to be foolish to live to do more wrongs. I must admit here that she was not raped as you were meant to think, she allowed them to have a carnal knowledge of her to save her husband. It was her choice. Check the meaning of rape again I understand now that you are a learner and I will no longer respond to whatever you say because you know nothing. Well to tell you , I believe I am more learned than you in all spheres of life except foolishness. Enjoy! |
Re: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by mightykay(m): 9:11am On Jul 05, 2016 |
HaneefahRN:can u imagine that boy talking about sacred. what is sacre? sex or life! we ve bn talking to a boy since. even killing him will not stop robbers from raping her and later kill her thereafter. |
Re: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by infogenius(m): 9:17am On Jul 05, 2016 |
mightykay: Girl, after he dies it will pleasure him that he didn't watch a movie. What makes you think he will be killed? Abeg little girl go and learn. That is y you get tossed anyhow by circumstances of life. |
Re: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by mightykay(m): 9:21am On Jul 05, 2016 |
infogenius:If u er above 20 yrs wt all these rubbish u er saying, u er already a minus in ur family n a disease in d society to be tackled immediately b4 spreading. I pray dat no woman will come near u except some similar mad ones like u and peradventure u er married i sincerely pass my condolence msg to them all |
Re: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by infogenius(m): 9:42am On Jul 05, 2016 |
mightykay: Tinykay,chickenkay, nonsense kay I am a blessing to mankind and to this generation. I am happily married with children and a father to many. You can burn in hell for all I care that I am far better than you and have impacted more lives than you. I am not timid and mad like you. I am not commoner like you that needs to be managed and condoned. Your condolence to your family once again. I know you are not married and if you are I am too sure you are not in charge. Marriage is not for boys and girls but for men and women that have a lot of sense. |
Re: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by mightykay(m): 10:02am On Jul 05, 2016 |
@infogenius.The only ppl I pity in ur life are ur wife if she is not like u n children, they er really suffering and bleeding internally and u dont know. Take them to a cool place n let them comment about u,u will be surprised the let out from them regret the day u were born, the way u were brought up, the kind of father n husband u ve bn. infact the bible says it is better u not born.But there is hope for u, a rebirth n new life, u need it now more than ever before 1 Like |
Re: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by infogenius(m): 10:09am On Jul 05, 2016 |
mightykay:Shut up! You know nothing about the Bible. Who are you to advice me? Does your Bible teach you to compromise even at the point of death? Jesus would have done that several times. But he didn't A Dummy like you will deny Jesus to live. I now know that I have only wasted my time engaging you in a talk. Tell your pastor what I said concerning the topic and get back to me. Mumu like you. I even thought you had small sense. You talk about Bible? I no fit laff. You need to learn more about Biblical principles to improving your already wretched life. 1 Like |
Re: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by quivah(f): 10:22am On Jul 05, 2016 |
buhahahahaha
I never knew a Nigerian man could be more stu.pid.
I thought have seen/heard/read it all.
this is just too much, insanity at its peak.
dawg please, I need to breathe!!!! 1 Like |
Re: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by mightykay(m): 10:23am On Jul 05, 2016 |
infogenius:Chai! and u already ve children in dis our volatile society, govt needs some work to do to clean up some mess cos of innocent children around cos dis ur madness is contagious n ve cant affoid treatment for congregation of mad ppl. Hope u er nt living lagos sha o cos dat will be worst. anyway we will handle u like ebola |
Re: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by taryour(f): 10:27am On Jul 05, 2016 |
Acidosis: how about she had refused being raped and a bullet put thru the man's head and her life will sure continue afterwards init but no for the love she had for her hubby she took the brunt and now she is a bitch who can't be touched again by the man she saved |
Re: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by quivah(f): 10:28am On Jul 05, 2016 |
sweet Nairaland oh mighty infogenius,, all hail the wisest Jesus hand man, oh righteous Infogenius,, you once advised the woman not to bother if her husband looks outside(for se.xx of course), and now you believe she should have asked for her husband's permission before opening her legs at gun point because se.xx is sacred, more sacred than the life she felt she was protecting lol but it wasn't sacred if the husband looked out for se.xx due to the situation at hand. all hail infogenius |
Re: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by quivah(f): 10:39am On Jul 05, 2016 |
with the few points on this thread, I have come to the realization that any woman who find herself in this unfortunate situation should go for the lesser evil...kill the man!!! especially if its a nigerian man.. the man better be dead than her being violated. tho she might still get raped afterwards, but chill at least the husband ain't there no more to be traumatized.. it's your body, its his life.. choose your own oooo be wise woman!! 1 Like |
Re: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by infogenius(m): 10:41am On Jul 05, 2016 |
mightykay: People like you are the problem of this world. A retarde d generation of pretenders. You go church on Sunday pretending and thinking you can deceive God. You come out of church and do the exact opposite. You are the problem this nation has and there are plenty like you out there that is you feel you have said something. My parting shot If you Mightykay succeeds, a whole generation will succeed and if you fail, a whole generation fails. Your thinking sets the pace on the path you choose to follow. |
Re: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by mightykay(m): 10:42am On Jul 05, 2016 |
quivah:can u imagine the boy talking about bravery n he was looking at robbers carring his money and valuables then raping wt his helpless wife but cant do anything but expect the wife take permission to allow robbers. where is d best place to show ur bravery, protection over ur family, chilvary n even die in the course of protecting his home. idiot lied down as the woman lied down n he was talking about bravery. may u never go near such a disdain boy in ur life |
Re: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by infogenius(m): 10:47am On Jul 05, 2016 |
quivah: OK, she should kill the man if he looks outside? I tire for you. OK tell us what she should do. Which one is easier to corporately agree on an action or decide on your own? My dear, I want you to correct any of the above statements you quoted above and not to create strife on this thread. |
Re: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by mightykay(m): 10:53am On Jul 05, 2016 |
infogenius:u er nt going anywhere cos im nt done wt u yet. If it is curing u today is d only thing i achieve and for d sake of our society I will be glad because ur deliverance needs combination of conglonmerate annointed fire brands and uncompromising men n women of Almighty God. Nigeria must be cleaned up |
Re: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by quivah(f): 11:00am On Jul 05, 2016 |
infogenius:sir you are funny very funny. we are talking about rape at a gunpoint,, either man's life or her body..and you still feel wise to bring up cooperation.. permission from her husband before she gets rape while trying to save him loool so even if she decided on her own, she is to be blamed for acting under such pressure in order to safe her beloved but this beloved shouldn't be blamed for going out (willingly) to have se.xx outside because his wife was gangraped while trying to save him.. you are not making sense!! absolutely no sense. The shock people expressed on your post is an evidence of how senseless a human being can be.. just shut it, you really embarrassed your self on this one ... except maybe you are trolling sha.. like really trolling even |
Re: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by quivah(f): 11:02am On Jul 05, 2016 |
mightykay:the guy just shock people fa.. that's extreme stupidity |
Re: HELP! My Husband Refuses To Have Sex With Me Ever Since I Was Raped. by mightykay(m): 11:03am On Jul 05, 2016 |
quivah:pls quival dont generalise cos im a nigerian man n will never subcribe to dat. this evilgenius n may be op's husband are infinitestimal like 0.00001% of nigerian men dat reason that evil way |
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