Some people say they don't like driving or are afraid of getting behind the wheel. If you find that you're extremely afraid of driving to the point that it's causing you distress, you may have a phobia of driving. This specific phobia might make you feel as though your life is in danger when you're driving or riding in a car. You might even experience panic attacks, racing heart, rapid breathing, or feelings of terror.[1] If your anxiety behind the wheel is controlling you and preventing you from driving with ease, or even at all, it's important to face the phobia. This way, you can get back behind the wheel and take control of your life.

Part One of Three:
Practicing Relaxation Techniques

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Create a calm environment in the car. You should feel comfortable just sitting in the car regardless of whether or not it's moving. Wear comfortable clothes and shoes. Practice sitting in the car and becoming relaxed before you begin driving. Consider playing soothing music. It may help you overcome a sense of rising panic and can drown out the noise of other cars.
Even the most confident driver can become anxious if there are noisy passengers in the car. Make sure the car is quiet and free of trash or clutter.
Increase your sense of safety in the car by making sure your car gets any needed repairs.

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Practice abdominal breathing. If you begin to feel a panic attack come on or your neck and chest muscles tighten, begin breathing deep into your lungs. Inhale slowly through your nose with the focus of getting air to the bottom of your lungs. Let your belly expand and pause for a moment while you hold your breath. Slowly exhale and let your whole body relax.[2]
You can repeat this process 10 times counting backwards from ten on each exhale. Try to complete three sets of 10.

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Try progressive muscle relaxation (PMR). Tighten and relax muscle groups in your body so that you become aware of how to hold and release tension. Begin by clenching your fists for 7-10 seconds. Release your fist for 15 to 20 seconds while you focus on how the tension is leaving the muscles in your hands. Repeat the exercise with other muscle groups, moving up your arms, to your head, then down the back of your body to your feet and toes.[3]
You can even practice PMR every day for 20 minutes even if you are not experiencing panic. This can improve your sense of control over your mood, reduce the frequency of panic attacks, and increase your concentration.

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Use positive affirmations. Affirmations are short positive statements that remind you that you can make changes. With driving, the type of affirmations that you might want to use include:
I am driving carefully and within the speed limit. Careful driving is safe driving.
Driving is a common, everyday activity. I am an alert driver participating in a common activity with care.
I do not have to drive fast. I can drive in the right-hand lane if I want to travel slower than other cars.
I do not have to risk switching lanes at the last minute. If I miss a turn-off, I can safely double back.
I have planned this journey from start to finish. I know where I am headed and when I have to make lane changes and turn offs. I am well prepared.
Even though I am a passenger, I can control my reactions to riding in the car. If I feel uncomfortable at any time, I can ask the driver to pull over.

Part Two of Three:
Using Exposure Therapy

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Consider confronting your phobia. You've probably been told that you need to face your fear. Exposing yourself to the fear is especially important if you've been avoiding driving for fear that you'll have a panic attack. Exposure therapy remains one of the most important ways to get over a phobia, although you should know and be able to use relaxation techniques before you start. This way, you'll have some sense of control during the session.
Avoiding your phobia will actually make the fear worse over time and can create other phobias.[4]

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Create an anxiety scale. Become familiar with your anxiety levels so you can take action before you reach a full scale panic attack. Having a scale of anxiety will also help you know when to stop exposure before you reach moderate panic. Your scale should describe physical and mental characteristics of anxiety. An example scale might look like this:[5]
0 - Fully Relaxed: no tension, calm, feeling peaceful
1 - Minimal Anxiety: feeling slightly nervousness, more alert or aware
2 - Mild Anxiety: muscle tension, tingling or butterflies in stomach
3- Moderate Anxiety: heart and breathing increase, feeling slightly uncomfortable but still in control
4 - Marked Anxiety: clear muscle tension, increased feelings of being uncomfortable, starting to wonder about staying in control
5- Beginning Panic: heart is starting to race or beat irregularly, dizziness, clear fear of losing control, wanting to escape
6 - Moderate Panic: heart palpitations, difficulty breathing, feeling disoriented
7 to10 - Full Panic Attack: feelings of terror, fear of dying, and increased feelings of moderate panic

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Write down your fears. Be specific and write down what things you fear about driving. Then, go through and rank these fears from what you fear the least to what causes a full panic attack. This will help you gradually expose yourself to your fears. But, you'll slowly work your way through your fears so that you never feel truly out of control.
For example, holding the keys in your driveway might be something you fear the least while driving on the highway can cause you to have a panic attack.

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Take gradual steps. Start with the least feared item on your list and gradually expose yourself until you no longer feel anxious. Once you've mastered an item on your list, move on to the next thing on your list or scale. For example, you list might expose yourself to fears like these (ranked from least to greatest feared):[6]
Hold your car keys and look at your car in the driveway
Sit inside of your car, working up to 5 minutes
Drive around the block
Drive in your neighborhood making right turns, then left turns
Drive on a main street taking left turns at traffic lights or stop signs
Drive on a highway in the right lane for 1 to 2 exits
Drive on a highway in the left lane for 2 exits
Drive on the highway changing lanes past cars for 3 to 5 exits

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Ride with drivers you trust. If you find that you can't even stand being a passenger in a car, follow the exposure therapy steps. Instead of driving, you may want to gradually face your fear by riding in a car with a driver you trust. Choose someone you know will drive with the greatest of care. Once you're comfortable riding with that person, try to ride with other drivers or ride along on more challenging drives (like on the highway).
Find what feels the most comfortable for you when you begin riding as a passenger. You might find that you prefer to sit in the backseat. Or, maybe you find it less stressful to sit next to the driver. Experiment to find what works for you.

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Commit to learning how to drive. Most people are afraid of getting behind the wheel for the first time. To ease your fear, choose a knowledgeable driving instructor who has a lot of experience teaching new drivers. A good driver can reassure you and make you feel comfortable in the driver's seat.[7]
Consider working with a driving school instructor. You might realize that the anxiety you had been feeling about learning to drive actually stemmed from your previous instructor, especially if it was a relative trying to teach you how to drive.

Part Three of Three:
Getting Help

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Know when to see your doctor. If your fear of driving is disrupting your life, you should get medical or psychological treatment. If you're unsure who to ask for help, contact your doctor who should be able to put you in touch with trained professionals.[8] You may work with your doctor, a psychologist, a psychiatrist, or a counselor trained in phobias.
If you're increasingly depressed by your inability to drive, make sure to seek help. Don't simply adjust to the fear that prevents you from driving this can cause other phobias to develop.[9]

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Try therapy. You may work with a counselor or therapist on a one-on-one basis. In addition to relaxation techniques and exposure therapy, your counselor may simply want you to talk. Talking is an important way for your brain to learn how to handle fear. It will give you a chance to think about what's behind the fear and can treat your driving phobia.[10][11]
Don't expect your counselor to offer you advice. Many counselors simply listen and ask questions so you can give thoughtful answers and explore your fear.

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Join a support group. If you'd rather talk about your phobia with a group, find a local driving phobia support group to talk with. You may also find an online support group with people who experience similar symptoms. Just knowing that you're not alone can be helpful in overcoming your fear.[12]
You can also talk with friends and family. Share your fears with them and explain the challenges you face. It can help knowing that you have friends and family who understand what you're going through.

Tips
Consider driving school or defensive driving classes. Some people specialize in helping anxious drivers return to the road with practical hands-on lessons in safe places that graduate out into the roads or places you fear most.
Try a variety of therapies and treatments. You never know what treatment might work for your specific phobia until you try it.
Other forms of treatment that can help include hypnotherapy and eye movement desensitization and reprocessing, although research is conflicted about their usefulness.[13]
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