Why are black people like this? Why must we gleefully bring ourselves down all the time? Why are we so insensitive?

Please what is wrong with looking very dark everyone? Are we not all in Africa? Is the sun not suppose to naturally tan us? what is wrong with us?

One minute we are cussing people for looking very dark, the next minute we are cussing others for bleaching. Where do we stand?

You want to know why i am wailing look at this thread

https://www.nairaland.com/3215617/how-romantic-nigerian-pre-wedding-photo

The self-hatred is real. Black people who are just few shades away from the man below using insultive words to shame him...and at the end, themselves.

Were our foreparents not dark/very dark? Are we born white or red? No we are all black with different shades of skin.

Shaming someone for being very dark by calling them black or kiwi or ugly is shaming yourselves and your race because like it or not you are black too. Whether you are chocolate, caramel, yellow or high yellow or red bone, you are black.

If black stands for ugliness, you are ugly then. And our slave masters were right when they called us black monkeys.

But,












What's your business with what people say about the guy and why have you chosen to disturb my sleep with this "past tense"

Nothing

.

I didnt get why they bashed this couple so much in the other thread. People have become so vain.


Please if they have started making human beings, let me know because am sure no one on earth had a say on the race they wanted to come as. That was the exclusive decision of their parents

Tiwa and Tee bills with their perfect wedding pix didnt go anywhere

The girl's got azz tho

Bluezy13:
But,












What's your business with what people say about the guy and why have you chosen to disturb my sleep with this "past tense"

Does it look like i am having fun here?

FredN:
I didnt get why they bashed this couple so much in the other thread

They bashed the man for being blessed by nature to look this way.

They are cute couple.for me Love has no color.. But it's all abt attitude and a lot of ppol don't have it.

LuveU2:
Does it look like i am having fun here?

Then go to bed!!

I cant see d man ur talking about, i'm only seeing a woman on red.

TrapQueen77:
They are cute couple.for me Love has no color.. But it's all abt attitude and a lot of ppol don't have it.

Thank you.
But you see, this is beyond having just a bad attitude it is an anormally, a general self hatred that has eaten deep into our system.

We are white people in black skins now. The same way those white racists looked down on us is not different from the way we look down on ourselves. We hate being black.

Tallysmallz:
The girl's got azz tho

hmmmmmmm u are a bae, look at the guy, dont look at the she! not to talk of her azz.

To me oo da guy luks cute nd dey look great togeda

small yansh
sh*t i just wasted my mb

I like his skin color, Black is beautiful ... But i dislike the concept they used for the pre-wedding pics...

The niga's not bad tho. Could even pass for a model with that physique Ajuma Nasenyana is my witness

I stand with the OP, she's very right. We've gotten it all wrong, it starts from childhood. I'm dark too, not as that guy tho and I suffered victimization while growing up. It wasn't easy as it were a boarding school, but trust me now, I tell anyone who cares, there's no insult you'd insult me that I haven't heard worse.

Lanicky went through this same thing on this forum, we're just enemy of ourselves. Simple and straightforward.

Even now, some peeps call me "duhu"

Not like I care though......but this has got to stop


The guy is even handsome, save for his dark skin.

SELENAqueensy:
I like his skin color, Black is beautiful ... But i dislike the concept they used for the pre-wedding pics...

Your dp.........

If you dont bleach you're not human, thats what some guys on Nairaland told me

It's not about the colour but it's like the lady is supposed to be sue for child abuse

Lovely,,,but d guy jean nd shoe wack sha!!!

Thats how they shame some peeps into bleaching

then turn around and still diss them for bleaching

LuveU2:
Why are black people like this? Why must we gleefully bring ourselves down all the time? Why are we so insensitive?

Please what is wrong with looking very dark everyone? Are we not all in Africa? Is the sun not suppose to naturally tan us? what is wrong with us?

One minute we are cussing people for looking very dark, the next minute we are cussing others for bleaching. Where do we stand?

You want to know why i am wailing look at this thread

https://www.nairaland.com/3215617/how-romantic-nigerian-pre-wedding-photo

The self-hatred is real. Black people who are just few shades away from the man below using insultive words to shame him...and at the end, themselves.

Were our foreparents not dark/very dark? Are we born white or red? No we are all black with different shades of skin.

Shaming someone for being very dark by calling them black or kiwi or ugly is shaming yourselves and your race because like it or not you are black too. Whether you are chocolate, caramel, yellow or high yellow or red bone, you are black.

If black stands for ugliness, you are ugly then. And our slave masters were right when they called us black monkeys.

Only idiots do that. There are some kind of dark skin that looks so so radiating and appealing.

barackodam:
I stand with the OP, she's very right. We've gotten it all wrong, it starts from childhood. I'm dark too, not as that guy tho and I suffered victimization while growing up. It wasn't easy as it were a boarding school, but trust me now, I tell anyone who cares, there's no insult you'd insult me that I haven't heard worse.

Lanicky went through this same thing on this forum, we're just enemy of ourselves. Simple and straightforward.

Even now, some peeps call me "duhu"

Not like I care though......but this has got to stop


The guy is even handsome, save for his dark skin.

I am sorry for what you went through. I have a very dark gf, very beautiful, who was made fun of in her childhood days for having that shade.

I agree with everything you said, but ur last statement in bold. By saying...save for his dark skin...ye implying he has an ugly skin, the very thing i am condemning here.

Babzilla:
Thats how they shame some peeps into bleaching

then turn around and still diss them for bleaching

And start shouting black is beautiful all over the place. Are we supposed to be ugly?

LastMumu:
Obviously, Op is one very black chick. I can feel her pains.

There is nothing like very black, in the political sense. Its either you are black or non black Last mumu Well i am not dark not that i would hate myself like you do if i was.

LuveU2:
I am sorry for what you went through. I have a very dark gf, very beautiful, who was made fun of in her childhood days for having that shade.

I agree with everything you said, but ur last statement in bold. By saying...save for his dark skin...ye implying he has an ugly skin, the very thing i am condemning here.

Not really.......I actually meant he wouldn't have been made fun of if he weren't dark skinned. That's what I meant there

barackodam:



Not really.......I actually meant he wouldn't have been made fun of if he weren't dark skinned. That's what I meant there

Okay i understand you now.

mhisbliss:
If you dont bleach you're not human, thats what some guys on Nairaland told me

Like seriously??

They must be one set of deranged guys.

barackodam:




Like seriously??

They must be one set of deranged guys.

yes and those guys am refering to are here on Nairaland