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Why Do Women Include Their father's Name After Marriage? by philit22(m): 3:04pm On Jul 10, 2016
Pls what do you say on this?
There is a trend of women retaining their father's name even after they are married..E.g Chisom Obiano gets married to Martins Adesina, She begins to answer Chisom Obiano-Adesina..As a man will you permit this and as a woman do you prefer this and why?

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Re: Why Do Women Include Their father's Name After Marriage? by Cutehector(m): 3:09pm On Jul 10, 2016
I totally won't permit that.

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Re: Why Do Women Include Their father's Name After Marriage? by Breadmaker: 3:19pm On Jul 10, 2016
Cutehector:
I totally won't permit that.
same here because i started making the plan of starting a family long ago, I have laid so many blocks in the foundation already under my surname. I don't even know who I am going to form this family with but I am working hard to ensure she enjoy it to the fullest.
Because I was alone when I laid this foundation, I have chosen my own name for it and when she comes she will fall in because two cannot walk unless they agree.
If she's not comfortable with that then she should stay in her father's house. Whoever thinks I am a chevaunist should lay this foundation when I don't even know her, work hard to secure my future and that of my kids, ask for my hand in marriage and pay my bride price and every other payments we make to get a wife and I will gladly take her surname.

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Re: Why Do Women Include Their father's Name After Marriage? by general111(m): 3:23pm On Jul 10, 2016
No

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Re: Why Do Women Include Their father's Name After Marriage? by Mskrisx(f): 3:33pm On Jul 10, 2016
U answered the question already wink

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Re: Why Do Women Include Their father's Name After Marriage? by Nobody: 5:21pm On Jul 10, 2016
never

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Re: Why Do Women Include Their father's Name After Marriage? by Joy1706(f): 5:22pm On Jul 10, 2016
Look at them. Small men suffering from small peniss syndrome. There's nothing to permit. It's MY decision if I decide to keep the surname I've been known with all my life.

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Re: Why Do Women Include Their father's Name After Marriage? by Thunderlicious: 5:32pm On Jul 10, 2016
Joy1706:
Look at them. Small men suffering from small peniss syndrome. There's nothing to permit. It's MY decision if I decide to keep the surname I've been known with all my life.

Then get ready to pass menopause with no husband.

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Re: Why Do Women Include Their father's Name After Marriage? by xreal: 6:02pm On Jul 10, 2016
Why should I permit that?

If she does without my consent- she willgo back to marry her father the very day I discover.

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Re: Why Do Women Include Their father's Name After Marriage? by AntiWailer: 6:03pm On Jul 10, 2016
It depends.

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Re: Why Do Women Include Their father's Name After Marriage? by Nobody: 6:03pm On Jul 10, 2016
news no dey today wahlai angry undecided

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Re: Why Do Women Include Their father's Name After Marriage? by idee91: 6:04pm On Jul 10, 2016
Not happening

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Re: Why Do Women Include Their father's Name After Marriage? by AntiWailer: 6:04pm On Jul 10, 2016
Thunderlicious:


Them get ready to pass menopause with no husband.

Wickid

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Re: Why Do Women Include Their father's Name After Marriage? by Nobody: 6:04pm On Jul 10, 2016
My sister has been married for almost a year now and she's still answering our surname.

The name just stain her mouth and fingers

Please check posts she loves reading in the link in my signature

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Re: Why Do Women Include Their father's Name After Marriage? by visijo(m): 6:04pm On Jul 10, 2016
incase of divorce... But e no fit happen for my family oo..
Re: Why Do Women Include Their father's Name After Marriage? by Adekorya: 6:05pm On Jul 10, 2016
Most women do it for recognition while few do it for love they have for their father's name.

Me personally don’t blame women who keep their fathers’ names or hyphenate both names. If your dad’s name could open doors or even break walls and you got married to someone whose name does not even ring a bell, what would you rather do?

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Re: Why Do Women Include Their father's Name After Marriage? by Toluwani111: 6:05pm On Jul 10, 2016
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Re: Why Do Women Include Their father's Name After Marriage? by ronald4ever(m): 6:05pm On Jul 10, 2016
I actually like the praxis. A woman doesn't have to give up her identity just coz she got married. Using of her maiden name together with the hubby's is appropriate. That way one can easily identify her in-case they come across her name somewhere.

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Re: Why Do Women Include Their father's Name After Marriage? by chrysso83(m): 6:05pm On Jul 10, 2016
When they feel their father's name is too important that they cannot detach from it. It's mostly done by women from famous families or women who achieved fame b4 marriage

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Re: Why Do Women Include Their father's Name After Marriage? by aminho(m): 6:05pm On Jul 10, 2016
Serious question

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Re: Why Do Women Include Their father's Name After Marriage? by silent10(m): 6:05pm On Jul 10, 2016
Thunderlicious:


Them get ready to pass menopause with no husband.
Wicked grin grin grin

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Re: Why Do Women Include Their father's Name After Marriage? by januzaj(m): 6:05pm On Jul 10, 2016
Joy1706:
Look at them. Small men suffering from small peniss syndrome. There's nothing to permit. It's MY decision if I decide to keep the surname I've been known with all my life.
it ain't our fault that you are suffering from extra large v*gina syndrome

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Re: Why Do Women Include Their father's Name After Marriage? by alphaconde(m): 6:06pm On Jul 10, 2016
That na for women wey den papa girl money. So that people go still de use dem papa name help them.

My guy babe suggest give my guy say e go add her papa name join den name when dem marry my guy Ask am. who ur papa name don help? Na dere the story end.

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Re: Why Do Women Include Their father's Name After Marriage? by spencekat(m): 6:06pm On Jul 10, 2016
Not allowed!
Re: Why Do Women Include Their father's Name After Marriage? by Chaleeee: 6:06pm On Jul 10, 2016
It's not much of a big deal.

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Re: Why Do Women Include Their father's Name After Marriage? by jmichlins(m): 6:06pm On Jul 10, 2016
Joy1706:
Look at them. Small men suffering from small peniss syndrome. There's nothing to permit. It's MY decision if I decide to keep the surname I've been known with all my life.
with this mindset just forget about marriage else

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Re: Why Do Women Include Their father's Name After Marriage? by austinesiji(m): 6:07pm On Jul 10, 2016
Cutehector:
I totally won't permit that.
same herw
Re: Why Do Women Include Their father's Name After Marriage? by UnknownT: 6:07pm On Jul 10, 2016
Mostly when her maiden's name is popular. I wouldn't mind my wife 'hyphenating' hers btw
Cc: Mrs. LadyH-UnknownT cheesy grin

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Re: Why Do Women Include Their father's Name After Marriage? by Checked86: 6:07pm On Jul 10, 2016
They are just weighing out equality in different angles
Re: Why Do Women Include Their father's Name After Marriage? by Nobody: 6:08pm On Jul 10, 2016
philit22:
Pls what do you say on this?
There is a trend of women retaining their father's name even after they are married..E.g Chisom Obiano gets married to Martins Adesina, She begins to answer Chisom Obiano-Adesina..As a man will you permit this and as a woman do you prefer this and why?

1) Every single entity that has a hyphenated last name is a royal beyotch. FACT.

2) Every single one is married to a sissified man. FACT

EgunMogaji doesn't tolerate BS, marry me or stay married to your fathers name. Choice is clear.

I also hate those that keep it after divorce. I had to force the Ex in court to drop my last name because she wanted to keep it so people can know she's the mother of her black kids (she's white).

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Re: Why Do Women Include Their father's Name After Marriage? by exnovio(m): 6:08pm On Jul 10, 2016
Should anything happened, its just to erase the Husband's surname and they returned to their surname, Nigerian women with their sabi, sabi.

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Re: Why Do Women Include Their father's Name After Marriage? by muller101(m): 6:08pm On Jul 10, 2016
Joy1706:
Look at them. Small men suffering from small peniss syndrome. There's nothing to permit. It's MY decision if I decide to keep the surname I've been known with all my life.
u that will beg men to marry u

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