I know its customary and kind of exciting to use your wedding pics a week to 2 months after your wedding. At that time the thing is still shacking you and you want the whole world to celebrate with you.

But after a while you stop and life goes on. However, I have a married friend who still uses her white and trad wedding pix as BBM dp three years after wedding and she does this almost every week. Just the other day she used her Introduction pix. I know its not like its bad per se, but it feels weird to me. Does anyone feel that way too or should I be minding my business more. Lol

exactly mind ur business

toboski1:
exactly mind ur business

Lolz I'm doing that but still can't help wondering though

Kindly wonder bout ur finances or why u don't do same if u are a married woman

Godmother:


Lolz I'm doing that but still can't help wondering though

It should be cool to do that if its occassionally and not that its d only picture used all d time.. As in once in a while no matter how many years later.

I do that on my wedding anniversary and maybe once in a while my personal trad picture in my aso oke just to rock that super makeover u get only on ur wedding day.

Her hubby is still doing that thing he was doing when they got married. Those things that excites her that most couples stops doing after their wedding

@Godmother: Mind your business more

I see nothing unusual about that. I find it cool,minding your business more will do.

Minding your business won't be a bad idea actually.

toniapat:
It should be cool to do that if its occassionally and not that its d only picture used all d time.. As in once in a while no matter how many years later.

I do that on my wedding anniversary and maybe once in a while my personal trad picture in my aso oke just to rock that super makeover u get only on ur wedding day.

Yea, I agree with you Toniapat. Once in a while and special occasions like your anniversary is great, but not every week, which is what I find odd.

Adesiji77:
@Godmother: Mind your business more

Lolz. I'm doing that o, Egbon

rubbish!!!

wonder why anyone in his or her sane mind would create such a senseless thread...

I have seen cases where the woman kept posting pictures of her and her husband in romantic mode a lot on FB not knowing that the life of the marriage remained one bar.

The divorce was messy.

The need to get people's validation and positive comments on your relationship with your significant other says volume about the health of that relationship.

BBM has a feature that enables you to hide people's DPs and updates no matter the amount of times they change it.

She may not be enjoying the marriage but just trying to hide it from people or pretend about it.

johnson232:
rubbish!!!

wonder why anyone in his or her sane mind would create such a senseless thread...

Senseless thread and you took your time to comment Says a lot about your level of reasoning.

@ Ioannes
@ shapeey

We chat from time to time and she has let on subtly that she's enjoying her marriage. I just pray its true cos she's a nice person.

Godmother:


Senseless thread and you took your time to comment Says a lot about your level of reasoning.

it is worthwhile letting people know how senseless or sensible whatever they are doing is... by doing such, people can improve and desist from creating senseless thread... what do u think my sister?

johnson232:

it is worthwhile letting people know how senseless or sensible whatever they are doing is... by doing such, people can improve and desist from creating senseless thread... what do u think my sister?

Its a free world. Think what you like. Peace.

Godmother:
@ Ioannes
@ shapeey

We chat from time to time and she has let on subtly that she's enjoying her marriage. I just pray its true cos she's a nice person.

Yeah, well That's great. She must really love her husband. Let's hope her husband loves her as much.

Lets look at it this way

I have some very old pics that look so nice and they make me smile or laugh when I see them (the innocence, the smile, the make-up, the weird look, the day I took the pic... name it or Maybe I see them as very cute)

Up till this moment I still use some of those as DP and I don't see anything wrong with it
So maybe its the feeling attached to such pics that makes her use them often

Ioannes:


Yeah, well That's great. She must really love her husband. Let's hope her husband loves her as much.

Yea, hope so too.

favoured234:
Lets look at it this way

I have some very old pics that look so nice and they make me smile or laugh when I see them (the innocence, the smile, the make-up, the weird look, the day I took the pic... name it or Maybe I see them as very cute)

Up till this moment I still use some of those as DP and I don't see anything wrong with it
So maybe its the feeling attached to such pics that makes her use them often

While I agree with you that using old pix sort of creates that nostalgic feeling, I believe wedding pix are in a different league. Like someone already said, most times its when people have problems in their marriages they do such.

I used mine for. Week or two when I got married and most of my married contacts did same. Some of them still put up their pix from time to time. What I just find odd is using it everyday. This my same friend will buy a new pair of sneakers, snap it and put online, she'll go to the movies and put the pix online. Its her life though. I just hope its not a kind of cry for help.

Godmother:


While I agree with you that using old pix sort of creates that nostalgic feeling, I believe wedding pix are in a different league. Like someone already said, most times its when people have problems in their marriages they do such.

I used mine for. Week or two when I got married and most of my married contacts did same. Some of them still put up their pix from time to time. What I just find odd is using it everyday. This my same friend will buy a new pair of sneakers, snap it and put online, she'll go to the movies and put the pix online. Its her life though. I just hope its not a kind of cry for help.

Ahh from the bolded perspective...
Now I get, don't bother your head about such friends, they would rather die than cry out