Timbuktou:
Whatever the woman wants she can do. She's not in marriage to lose her identity. All these tips just to retain the 'Mrs.' title? God forbid..

Victorakats:
A wise woman builds her home, but a foolish woman tears it down with her own hands.' 
-Proverbs 14:1 NLT

God in his infinite wisdom created a woman to play a vital, significant, and extremely important role in the life of her husband, her home, her children, and the society at large. 
Some wives, with their two hands, destroy their marriages and homes only to run to pastors and priests for endless vigils and prayers. When they go to a counselor, they don't see themselves; they don't want to be told what they've done wrong, they just want to blame their husbands for everything.



For some of these ungodly women, there is no moment of peace in the home. In fact, there are women who naturally love commotion and so all the husband gets are insults and provocative utterances. These women don't believe they have to feed, nurture, and groom their man. 


Some have devised ways of manipulating their husbands with sex; yes, I have seen and heard women tell others to demand money before sex. And I always ask; in your own home? You are nothing but a prostitute in your home, yes, a married prostitute. A male fan once called me telling me how he's found himself with another woman. This man's wife denied him sex for three months insisting he buy a brand new SUV when the last one he bought was just two years old. This is the problem with women who keep a lot of friends with no vision, all they do is compete for material things. Well, she got what she deserved as the man found himself in the arms of another. If you are a woman like this, you are a manipulator, a thief, and a prostitute.


Some have invited strange friends and relatives and have allowed them to run their marriages and destroy their own homes. Who told you that your mother who ruled your father's house has to come and rules your own husband's house? Who told you that your sisters have to leave their husbands' houses to come run yours? Who told you that your ungodly friends have right over your marriage, telling you the way you treat your husband and domestic staff? Yes, who told you that your pastor has the right to eat what your husband does not eat from you? You won't cook well for your husband, in fact, your maid does his cooking and laundry, but you dedicate time to cook for your pastor and even do his laundry. You are shameless! You are destroying your own home.

This man's wife denied him sex for three months insisting he buy a brand new SUV when the last one he bought was just two years old. This is the problem with women who keep a lot of friends with no vision, all they do is compete for material things.

okangisaiah:


Its the duty of the woman to keep her home but a situation where a man changes after marriage, become bossy and abusive, takes the woman 'S humility for granted, above all brag's of the woman being his property of which he can do/deal with anyhow and takes decisions on his own. Do you think the woman will have the patience to exhibit the characters of the famous virtuous woman /wife?

Where both of you cannot agree and where the sanctity of your marriage is threatened, you have the right to take a walk and move on with your life if you feel that you cannot continue with him. But as long as you are under one roof, you must learn to work with him, respect him as well as he respects you, and allow him be the leader in your marriage. That is how a wise woman builds her home

Victorakats:

Perhaps you didn't read the article to understand better.. Anyways thanks for your views..

Acidosis:


She needs the car so she can loose weight and pose as a "career woman"


Leave our women alone abeg

Victorakats:


Perhaps you didn't read the article to understand better..
Anyways thanks for your views..

Timbuktou:


But I did. How dare you teach women the right thing to do. Taking responsibility and shiit. And you're even quoting from the bible, you think everybody believes in that book of fiction?

Anyway, if a man is good enough, his wife will act like an angel. Women only act bad because the men in their lives make them to. No amount of responsibilty is to be demanded from them for any of their negative actions. Please, keep your misogynistic tendencies in check. Thank you.

Nyceguy92:
"Stop expecting what your husband cannot afford and stop pushing your husband to steal simply because you feel that you must belong. A good marriage is not a function of your possession."

Quoting you as above:
A good marriage should in fact start as early as the planning stage of the wedding, when the woman does not insist on a wedding with a bang when the husband cannot afford it. There has been many posts about it here.

Most women fail, or rather refuse , to come to terms with the fact that after the wedding, the family will need to grow and responsibilities follow.

Victorakats:
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You are married, please quit comparing your marriage with other people's marriage. No two marriage are the same and no marriage is without issues and challenges. 
Stop comparing your husband's penis size and performance with that of your ex. Stop expecting what your husband cannot afford and stop pushing your husband to steal simply because you feel that you must belong. 
A good marriage is not a function of your possession but a function of your contentment and your ability to manage what you have at your disposal and make the best out of it. 



Marriage is not for those who desire to be radical feminists. Feminism and marriage is not on the same platform so if you really want to succeed and prosper in your marriage, you must as a matter of necessity learn to submit to your husband's authority. Femininity works better in marriages. Don't get me wrong, you are a woman and must be treated with respect, your husband should consult you before taking decisions, but you have to let him take the final decision.



Where both of you cannot agree and where the sanctity of your marriage is threatened, you have the right to take a walk and move on with your life if you feel that you cannot continue with him. But as long as you are under one roof, you must learn to work with him, respect him as well as he respects you, and allow him be the leader in your marriage. That is how a wise woman builds her home. 



Above all, desire to please God in your marriage and in all your endeavors, you must open your heart and give your all to make your marriage succeed. Loving God and serving Him is the number one key to your success in marriage. When you are in love with God, He makes it easy for you to love your husband.



I love you sincerely and that is why I cannot afford not to tell you this truth.
Source : http://www.amaraofficial.com/2016/07/ways-to-build-your-home-as-wise-woman.html

jesusjewel1:




True words of wisdom...
Thank you for sharing...
Lord, make me the Virtuous Woman you've called me to be.
Living according to your will and in obedience to your words.
This I ask through Christ My Lord- Amen.