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How A Relationship Should Be (1 Key Question To Ask Yourself) by naijamc: 10:38am On Jul 20, 2016
How A Relationship Should Be (1 Key Question To Ask Yourself)

We all have a natural in-built desire to seek out a romantic relationship. This is so as to enhance ourselves and our well-being. Afterall, no one seeks out a relationship in order to feel worse about ourselves (we don't tend to seek out anything that will make us feel worse about ourselves).

This brings up a very basic but an incredibly important point in trying to determine how a relationship should be:

A relationship should be enhancing our existing emotions.

This is an important point because we can use this as a guideline to know if the relationship we are in is good or bad for us. If it is good (ie a healthy relationship), it will enhance our emotions. It will also tend to increase both partners productiveness in terms of their careers, hobbies/interests and social lives etc.

If a relationship is bad however (ie an unhealthy relationship), it will detract from our emotions. It will also tend to take away from, rather than help, our productiveness in terms of our careers, hobbies/interests and social lives etc.

How can I know for sure if my relationship is enhancing or detracting from my emotions?
Lets take a few examples:

Example A: www.dtrendz.com If you watched an old movie with your partner that you'd seen many times before alone, you'd find that being with them gave the old movie a renewed flavor.
Example B:www.dtrendz.com If you go somewhere with your new partner that you used go to alone, you'll now find its more enjoyable. This shows that your relationship is enhancing your good emotions.
Example C: If you faced a problem while you were single, like a death in the family, you would probably find it much harder than you would if you weren't single but had a partner and were in a healthy relationship.

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Re: How A Relationship Should Be (1 Key Question To Ask Yourself) by EmperorLee(m): 11:28am On Jul 20, 2016
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Re: How A Relationship Should Be (1 Key Question To Ask Yourself) by halfricanadian(f): 11:31am On Jul 20, 2016
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Re: How A Relationship Should Be (1 Key Question To Ask Yourself) by dassylegend(f): 12:17pm On Jul 20, 2016
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