sapiosexual1:

Mel-Phleg. You?

Phleg-Mel... Guess I Will Be A Good Family Man Someday. Although In Reality I Have A Weakness Am Still Struggling With It.

babasolo:


Phleg-Mel... Guess I Will Be A Good Family Man Someday. Although In Reality I Have A Weakness Am Still Struggling With It.

We all have weaknesses, how we deal with it is what's important

sapiosexual1:


We all have weaknesses, how we deal with it is what's important

Yea Thats, The Best Remedy, Knowing How To Deal With Your Weaknesses. Anyways Its Been A Swell Time Chatting Or Let Me Say Replying Each Others Mention.. Mr Mel Phleg...

babasolo:


Phleg-Mel... Guess I Will Be A Good Family Man Someday. Although In Reality I Have A Weakness Am Still Struggling With It.

Wow... Extreme introvert.

groomed:
In some quarters, guys will say you do not woo a girl in this current time.

And certainly, events have shown that this true.

I was busy professing love, speaking how much I want this girl and want her to be mine BUT all I get was rejection, or indifference.

After while I switch to flirting mode and all seem well with her.

Another girl whom I kinda have a respect for have been acting same way as well. She wouldn't want to admit outrightly or accept when the question is ask. She would prefer I do not even ask her to date me but to just flow along.

Mind you, if I choose this route, I can easily bolt out--after all, "we were not dating" or "I never asked you out"

Compared to case whereby the relationship is defined from the onset.

So I ask: Do modern day Nigerian lady prefer not to wooed? Do they prefer undefined relationship to a defined one, a case that seem like flirting?

Na so we see am o, same thing happening to me.

Kakamorufu:
trust me, u do. Wat do u need frm her then, food?

Lol... She is a virgin as at that time and I don't want a situation where things won't work out between us later.

Wow... Extreme introvert. [/quote]
Really!! Anyway It Takes One To Know One...

0luwajuwon:
werey

Another thing you just showed us is "always tell women what they want to hear"

Shiite... You are as smart as IPhone 6...

That was a clear definition of telling ladies what they wanna hear...

It's like saying:

Me: Hey babe, I wanna Fvck you...

She: Hey... You think amma hoe??

Me: I am sorry babe... I didn't imply that.. I was just tryna let you know that I want you...

She: Aight Bae.. Come and Fvck my Brains out...


Shikena ..

Men deceiving women since 1900

Gaddafithe2nd:

Lol... She is a virgin as at that time and I don't want a situation where things won't work out between us later.

eyah. U try small sha

0luwajuwon:
Like criously sex is all you could think abt. Smd 4 u

lol. U no just understand jare

elpedro:


Shiite... You are as smart as IPhone 6...

That was a clear definition of telling ladies what they wanna hear...

It's like saying:

Me: Hey babe, I wanna Fvck you...

She: Hey... You think amma hoe??

Me: I am sorry babe... I didn't imply that.. I was just tryna let you know that I want you...

She: Aight Bae.. Come and Fvck my Brains out...


Shikena ..

If you just knew this, you're fantastically a late comer!

Kakamorufu:
lol. U no just understand jare

Really .. I grab. But can't say same abt u tho.

0luwajuwon:
Really .. I grab. But can't say same abt u tho.

i grab pass u

LuveU2:
Really? i thought u were smart? smone just implied we are all hoes and what he does is just to fvck us. And u are very okay with that

No wonder i prefer controversial threads to all these shallow droppings.

e pain am o

Kakamorufu:
i can attest to that as well, buh am talking for relationship sake, not for fuvck sake

Many things have changed. This indomie generation has changed things, the only way to woo is to show some money. I realised that in 2013 after a long period of frustration and that settles it. If you show some cash/gifts, you will get whatever u want... Wife, FWB, gf, fuckmate, bedmate, roommate, clubmate, hookup mate, mention it. I see Nigerian women differently too, because of that. A lot different when I was overseas.

Cc: groomed

mhiztee15:
That's what I hate most undefined relationship is not my thing

Gbam....

ladyF:
lol undefined relationship in this time and age?

You better open your mouth and tell her what exactly you want if you're really serious. I can assure you that the babe is spreading her wings, she will send you her wedding IV in a few months and you will start telling stories that touch...

But babe,i think the op is right.Cos most girls i have met,wouldn't be willing to date,but to flow with your current

[quote author=groomed post=47756330] lol. What if your serious doesn't make them take you serious and you really like them?

You give people what they want bro, not what they need and that is how stay alive in any business venture.[/quot

Ok, but for how long will u continue like dis.

[quote author=iykenathan162 post=47774168][/quote] stop thinking I am hopping from one girl to the other.

Since I started dating the number has not exceeded 5 girls bro, which means I am not a womaniser, neither am I a player.

The problem currently is like being serious does not work with some girls. You have to know what works and apply it. It's that simple.

I can also testify that the op is right...

The thing is most of us guys would have pictured a lady to be very decent,cool and marriage worthy from their looks and character, but we forget that most of these girls are not really ready for something serious, they also want some fun for a period of time and then move on to the next guy they admire that comes after them, most of them fall within the age bracket18 to24.... It is not your fault but what that want..

Do not be surprised most ladies coming here to deny are like that or were once like that.

Fkhalifa:
I can also testify that the op is right...

The thing is most of us guys would have pictured a lady to be very decent,cool and marriage worthy from their looks and character, but we forget that most of these girls are not really ready for something serious, they also want some fun for a period of time and then move on to the next guy they admire that comes after them, most of them fall within the age bracket18 to24.... It is not your fault but what that want..

Do not be surprised most ladies coming here to deny are like that or were once like that.

Some have wished to be forked by a guy that isn't their boy friend, some have been forked by guys who isn't their boyfriend

sauceny:


But babe,i think the op is right.Cos most girls i have met,wouldn't be willing to date,but to flow with your current

Lol girls have so many ways of saying no without saying no. She probably just enjoys your company and nothing more.

ladyF:

Lol girls have so many ways of saying no without saying no. She probably just enjoys your company and nothing more.

and many can be forked through such process.

ladyF:
lol undefined relationship in this time and age?

You better open your mouth and tell her what exactly you want if you're really serious. I can assure you that the babe is spreading her wings, she will send you her wedding IV in a few months and you will start telling stories that touch...

I had wanted to reply this but forgot

It seems like you didn't understood what wrote earlier or you missed it completely.

I have "opened my mouth to tell her what I want" but her response isn't encouraging at all. She is the one not saying "what she wants"

Sometimes she would use words like "it's in God's hands" or "we will talk about it later"

However when I talked about visiting a place like Obudu together, she has no problem with that and she is willing to go.

So, what do you call this?

Here to read comments

groomed:
I had wanted to reply this but forgot

It seems like you didn't understood what wrote earlier or you missed it completely.

I have "opened my mouth to tell her what I want" but her response isn't encouraging at all. She is the one not saying "what she wants"

Sometimes she would use words like "it's in God's hands" or "we will talk about it later"

However when I talked about visiting a place like Obudu together, she has no problem with that and she is willing to go.

So, what do you call this?

Trying to learn your person....
But that depends on the type of woman tho...
Is she worth spending time with that you can digest her 'pending' response?
Or she's someone who just wanna play out?

Fkhalifa:
I can also testify that the op is right...

The thing is most of us guys would have pictured a lady to be very decent,cool and marriage worthy from their looks and character, but we forget that most of these girls are not really ready for something serious, they also want some fun for a period of time and then move on to the next guy they admire that comes after them, most of them fall within the age bracket18 to24.... It is not your fault but what that want..

Do not be surprised most ladies coming here to deny are like that or were once like that.

You picturing a lady to be serious, are you fully ready to be serious alongside committed to the relationship? If the lady is serious based on your findings and some digging, you'll be so rest assured. This relationship thingy is not solely borne on the lady.
Some guys too are pictured serious, but 20%down the lane, they are completely far from commitment.

jesusjewel1:



Trying to learn your person....
But that depends on the type of woman tho...
Is she worth spending time with that you can digest her 'pending' response?
Or she's someone who just wanna play out?

She is good, as in very well mannered, excellent home skills.

I have no idea if it's shyness or something not that there are no girls on my neck but it's just her want

sapiosexual1:
It's here and there. For some ladies especially the Sanguine and Choleric and Yorubas would actually want to hear it from you, as in you have to formally ask them out, if possible write an application letter to that effect so they could archive it. Else when a better and bolder guy comes along, they would leave you without looking back,afterall you never made ur intentions known.
Some others esp the melancholy and phlegmatics would just flow along if they see you as a serious guy who meets their specs.
Again it boils down to how you 'stand' as a guy and what ur bringing to the table, are you indispensable to her needs?

i love this..nice words

0luwajuwon:
werey

Another thing you just showed us is "always tell women what they want to hear"