I noticed that most people shy away from their duties as someone’s Boyfriend and Girlfriend. By GF/BF I mean anybody you are in a committed relationship with (with or without sex). Of course for the married/engaged couples, it goes beyond duty; it becomes a responsibility.

For a guy, these are the things he would expect from a GF.

1. Help make his meals: Even if she doesn’t know how to cook, she should ensure he always has food to eat. Either by making him cook and store or by getting a cook for me. Either way, his feeding should be her responsibility. Of course the guy does the funding!!

2. Help keep his house clean: Now I know this is hard for most ladies to understand but guys operate better in a clean environment. Even though he’s a bachelor, his apartment should always reflect the presence of a woman in his life. If you can’t clean, get help!!

3. Help with his Laundry: Okay, that’s a no-go area for most girls but the truth is that, guys expect it. It’s not right to sit back and watch you BF wash his clothes. A lady should ensure that her guy is at his best appearance always! If you can’t wash, take them to the cleaner and pick them up! Of course he should foot the bill.

4. Help with his personal hygiene: Well some guys can be pigs you know. It’s a girl’s responsibility to ensure her guy gets a timely haircut, manicure/pedicure, shave and other things that come with looking good.

5. Host his friends: Guys like to host their friends once in a while and as his GF, you should try your best to be there for him. Don’t just write it off as a guy’s thing . .  be there to serve the drinks, serve the snacks/meals, make the small talks, and know when to leave if they want to get down to the guys talk. Just being there makes him happy that you can blend into his life!!

6. Be with him: As a GF, as far as the r/ship involves sex, it’s your duty to satisfy your BF. Sometimes, it’s not even about the sex, it’s about knowing he can hold you in his arms all night long. A guy needs comfort from a girl, so as his girl, you should let him know you are there! That’s very important.

As a girl, these are the things I expect from my BF.

1. Handy-man: Okay the word’s a bit derogatory, but if I have a BF, he should be there to fix my things. Electrical faults, plumbing, household appliances and even my car. Even if I have to pay for it, he should be the one to take it to the electrician/mechanic and make sure it gets fixed! If I have to travel a far distance, he should be ready to drive me, if I have a flat tire, he should be ready to change it and get it fixed. Infact, if I need anything done, he should get it done. That’s why we really hare their numbers on speed dial :d

2. My escort: Well I can’t go for that wedding/ Party alone! He has to come with me.

3. My protector: Okay, before you say another word to me, I’ll have you know that I have a BF :d I actually let a guy go cos he let someone else toast me while I was with him. Before you talk to me, you think of what my BF will do to you!

4. Money: I know you guys don’t want to hear this but it’s the fact! My BF (poorer or richer than I am) pays for my hair and my clothes. Now I don’t expect him to take up totally financial responsibility of me, but if I’m throwing my B/day party, he shd pay for it or at least pay for most of it. He should at least once in a very blue moon, take me and my ladies out! He should pay for some lil things that I need and he should contribute, no matter how small, in anything I do!!

5. Call me: Now this is a very tick one. If I have a BF, he should be the one calling more often. No matter how busy he is. He should call and check up on me while I’m at work, he should call me when I’m sick, he should call me when he wakes up in the morning and before he sleeps at night. . .  cos I’ll expect him to!

6. Be with me: It’s not just the guys that want sex, we want it too. We also love the feeling of curling up in his arms all night long. We love company, we love knowing he’s there!!

Pls dont attack me for the looooong post oh!   

uju na wa o. very long post but with some sense in it

^{Seats and waits for the golddigging comments}

Fantastic post, four thumbs up

uju u and ur long tales but i believe the ladies shud call 2 i shudnt b d only one callin all the time and get me some stuff once in a while(witout mi payin) this are wat guys appreciate

tunery004:

uju u and your long tales but i believe the ladies shud call 2 i shudnt b d only one callin all the time and get me some stuff once in a while(witout mi payin) this are wat guys appreciate

I'm not saying she wont call, but it's ur responsibility. So if the calls slack, you should be the one to pick it up!

Of course she'll get you things too, just like you'll be a darling and cook the meals sometimes!!

Ebonyeyes:

^{Seats and waits for the golddigging comments}

Fantastic post, four thumbs up

LOL

Gold-digging comments right? . . I guess I asked it!!

You are right, I like a guy calling me often, it shows he cares and is thinking about me. That "i have been busy line" doesnt cut it with me

Ujujoan:

LOL

Gold-digging comments right? . . I guess I asked it!!

Yes ma'am you asked for it I agree with you sha.

Uju I have one question for you.

Do you practice all those things you wrote? tell me the truth

Ujujoan:

2. Help keep his house clean: Now I know this is hard for most ladies to understand but guys operate better in a clean environment. Even though he’s a bachelor, his apartment should always reflect the presence of a woman in his life. If you can’t clean, get help!!
3. Help with his Laundry: Okay, that’s a no-go area for most girls but the truth is that, guys expect it. It’s not right to sit back and watch you BF wash his clothes. A lady should ensure that her guy is at his best appearance always! If you can’t wash, take them to the cleaner and pick them up! Of course he should foot the bill.
4. Help with his personal hygiene: Well some guys can be pigs you know. It’s a girl’s responsibility to ensure her guy gets a timely haircut, manicure/pedicure, shave and other things that come with looking good.
5. Host his friends: Guys like to host their friends once in a while and as his GF, you should try your best to be there for him. Don’t just write it off as a guy’s thing . .  be there to serve the drinks, serve the snacks/meals, make the small talks, and know when to leave if they want to get down to the guys talk. Just being there makes him happy that you can blend into his life!!
6. Be with him: As a GF, as far as the r/ship involves sex, it’s your duty to satisfy your BF. Sometimes, it’s not even about the sex, it’s about knowing he can hold you in his arms all night long. A guy needs comfort from a girl, so as his girl, you should let him know you are there! That’s very important.

The ones in bold are 150% NECESSARY! The others are 100% necessary . . .  

Ujujoan:

As a girl, these are the things I expect from my BF.

1. Handy-man: Okay the word’s a bit derogatory, but if I have a BF, he should be there to fix my things. Electrical faults, plumbing, household appliances and even my car. Even if I have to pay for it, he should be the one to take it to the electrician/mechanic and make sure it gets fixed! If I have to travel a far distance, he should be ready to drive me, if I have a flat tire, he should be ready to change it and get it fixed. Infact, if I need anything done, he should get it done. That’s why we really hare their numbers on speed dial :d
2. My escort: Well I can’t go for that wedding/ Party alone! He has to come with me.
3. My protector: Okay, before you say another word to me, I’ll have you know that I have a BF :d I actually let a guy go cos he let someone else toast me while I was with him. Before you talk to me, you think of what my BF will do to you!
4. Money: I know you guys don’t want to hear this but it’s the fact! My BF (poorer or richer than I am) pays for my hair and my clothes. Now I don’t expect him to take up totally financial responsibility of me, but if I’m throwing my B/day party, he shd pay for it or at least pay for most of it. He should at least once in a very blue moon, take me and my ladies out! He should pay for some lil things that I need and he should contribute, no matter how small, in anything I do!!
5. Call me: Now this is a very tick one. If I have a BF, he should be the one calling more often. No matter how busy he is. He should call and check up on me while I’m at work, he should call me when I’m sick, he should call me when he wakes up in the morning and before he sleeps at night. . .  cos I’ll expect him to!
6. Be with me: It’s not just the guys that want sex, we want it too. We also love the feeling of curling up in his arms all night long. We love company, we love knowing he’s there!!

Sounds reasonable IMO except #5 . . . i expect the girl to do most of the calling, i really dont like using the phone as much. I simply have it as a form of entertainment on the go.

CrazyMan:

Uju I have one question for you.

Do you practice all those things you wrote? tell me the truth

Of course na . .

davidylan:

The ones in bold are 150% NECESSARY! The others are 100% necessary . . .

Sounds reasonable IMO except #5 . . . i expect the girl to do most of the calling, i really dont like using the phone as much. I simply have it as a form of entertainment on the go.

LOL

Okay, if I have to call, make sure your call collect is activated, or you can always send r/cards

But you still have to call more. It shows she's veery important to you!!

lol

Ujujoan:

LOL

Okay, if I have to call, make sure your call collect is activated, or you can always send r/cards

But you still have to call more. It shows she's veery important to you!!

I've never liked phone calls, once a while is ok . . . and no if you think i'm important then you dont need me to buy you r/cards to call me.

TheSeeker:

How many hours did it take you to type this? You get time ooooo. I'll read and get back to you.

   

I should be taking lessons from you nawn, you are the baba of long posts !!  

Neway I'd love to know wat u think!!

davidylan:

I've never liked phone calls, once a while is ok . . . and no if you think i'm important then you dont need me to buy you r/cards to call me.

Once in a while? Okay forget about who buys the cards, but if you are in a r/ship, you should talk on the phone on a regular basis. Once in while dosent cut it. I mean for distant r/ships, the calls are all you have!!

[Quote Author=Ujuoan]For a guy, these are the things he would expect from a GF.
1. Help make his meals: Even if she doesn’t know how to cook, she should ensure he always has food to eat. Either by making him cook and store or by getting a cook for me. Either way, his feeding should be her responsibility. Of course the guy does the funding!![Quote]

What if she doesn't live close to her? He lives in California, she lives in New Jersey? Does she send her e-food? Will she order foods online for him just in a bid to make sure he has something to eat?

If a lady doesn't know how to cook, she'd learn how to do so; in the process of doing that, she should demonstrate willingness to do so when she has learned.

If she cooks insipid meals, he might complain or at least just murmur about it.I don't see anything wrong if she decides to cook for him out of her money without the guy funding it, but that should be once in a while.


[Quote Author=Ujuoan]2. Help keep his house clean: Now I know this is hard for most ladies to understand but guys operate better in a clean environment. Even though he’s a bachelor, his apartment should always reflect the presence of a woman in his life. If you can’t clean, get help!![/Quote]

What kind of help will she get? Homemaker? I think cleanliness is a habit most women should have. Not only men functions in a better environment but it's only healthy that it'd be so.

May I also add that, if a guy is dirty and filthy, her girlfriend may not be obliged to make him see cleanliness as a virtue. He has to make a clean environment the kind that he operates in and appreciates before a woman will follow suite.

If he's clean and his girlfriend is dirty, she'll be forced to adapt-ably conform with his environment or she'll start feeling uncomfortable. But I still want to know what kind of help you recommend she gets? Is that to curb laziness or to imbibe cleanliness in her habits?



[Quote Author=Ujuoan]3. Help with his Laundry: Okay, that’s a no-go area for most girls but the truth is that, guys expect it. It’s not right to sit back and watch you BF wash his clothes. A lady should ensure that her guy is at his best appearance always! If you can’t wash, take them to the cleaner and pick them up! Of course he should foot the bill.[/Quote]

Well, if it's a responsibility as you say, she should foot the bill if she can't wash and has to take them to the laudro-marts, otherwise the guy should pay but then it shows it's not her responsibility, will it? If she washes them, will he pay her? Of course not. I think it's a matter of choice and not responsibility.

If she doesn't wash for me, will I not wash them? If she has to wash them, well, it's her choice (which I will greatly appreciate) and if she chooses not to, I won't bite myself on it, and I don't think any guy should.


[Quote Author=Ujuoan]4. Help with his personal hygiene: Well some guys can be pigs you know. It’s a girl’s responsibility to ensure her guy gets a timely haircut, manicure/pedicure, shave and other things that come with looking good.[/Quote]

And if he doesn't have a girlfriend he should remain a pig? LOL! All these are things a guy should do on their own without it being necessarily some loads on his girlfriend. Does my girlfriend have to remind me when to have my manicure/pedicure, haircut, shave and other things? No!


[Quote Author=Ujuoan]5. Host his friends: Guys like to host their friends once in a while and as his GF, you should try your best to be there for him. Don’t just write it off as a guy’s thing . .  be there to serve the drinks, serve the snacks/meals, make the small talks, and know when to leave if they want to get down to the guys talk. Just being there makes him happy that you can blend into his life!![/Quote]

Nice one! Scintillating point. But how many women will do this without thinking he's turning her to his slave at the expense of his friends?

[Quote Author=Ujuoan]6. Be with him: As a GF, as far as the r/ship involves sex, it’s your duty to satisfy your BF.
Sometimes, it’s not even about the sex, it’s about knowing he can hold you in his arms all night long. A guy needs comfort from a girl, so as his girl, you should let him know you are there! Try important.[/Quote]


Once again, you've judged correctly!


[Quote Author=Ujuoan]1. Handy-man: Okay the word’s a bit derogatory, but if I have a BF, he should be there to fix my things. Electrical faults, plumbing, household appliances and even my car. Even if I have to pay for it, he should be the one to take it to the electrician/mechanic and make sure it gets fixed! If I have to travel a far distance, he should be ready to drive me, if I have a flat tire, he should be ready to change it and get it fixed. Infact, if I need anything done, he should get it done. That’s why we really hare their numbers on speed dial :d[/Quote]

You're right on this one! What if he's afraid of electric shock like me? LOL! It'll take God to be right by my side where I can see and look in his eyes before I can tamper with electricity. LOL! But I get what you're saying - he should be good at DIY (Do it yourself). I get it.

What if he can't handle long and very distant driving? Not all guys love driving you know? But if I could drive from here to heaven or space, I'm so game!


[Quote Author=Ujuoan]2. My escort: Well I can’t go for that wedding/ Party alone! He has to come with me.[/Quote]

Romantic! Nice!


[Quote Author=Ujuoan]3. My protector: Okay, before you say another word to me, I’ll have you know that I have a BF :d I actually let a guy go cos he let someone else toast me while I was with him. Before you talk to me, you think of what my BF will do to you![/Quote]

Ain't that some real shit?! Cool! Can I be your boyfriend so I burst some head wipe open?

[Quote Author=Ujuoan]4. Money: I know you guys don’t want to hear this but it’s the fact! My BF (poorer or richer than I am) pays for my hair and my clothes. Now I don’t expect him to take up totally financial responsibility of me, but if I’m throwing my B/day party, he shd pay for it or at least pay for most of it. He should at least once in a very blue moon, take me and my ladies out! He should pay for some lil things that I need and he should contribute, no matter how small, in anything I do!![/Quote]

Contribute sounds good. Taking you and your girls out sounds very cool. I can dig that.


[Quote Author=Ujuoan]5. Call me: Now this is a very tick one. If I have a BF, he should be the one calling more often. No matter how busy he is. He should call and check up on me while I’m at work, he should call me when I’m sick, he should call me when he wakes up in the morning and before he sleeps at night. . .  cos I’ll expect him to![/Quote]

Sounds good. A guy should call all those times. What about you calling him when you get to work? When you get off work? When you feel you're about to go ill? When someone or something upsets you? When you have a confusing day? When you're going on your lunch break? When you get home? I see you calling more often that him if you have to call at other times asides from those you said he should call you at.

[Quote Author=Ujuoan]6. Be with me: It’s not just the guys that want sex, we want it too. We also love the feeling of curling up in his arms all night long. We love company, we love knowing he’s there!![/Quote]

That's normal. It's traditionally required[/quote][/quote]

Ujujoan:

Once in a while? Okay forget about who buys the cards, but if you are in a r/ship, you should talk on the phone on a regular basis. Once in while dosent cut it. I mean for distant r/ships, the calls are all you have!!

I get what you mean . . .

@the seeker

u hit d nail on d head, way 2 go, !!!

@post

ermmm, nyc points,although i disagree wiv som,

on d side of wat gurls hv 2 do for guys,i think points 1-4 shuldnt be like a DUTY or BY FORCE, naturally,,a gurl should help cook,clean and stuff but abeg,if ur gurl is busy or for guys dat dont even hv babes,wat happens?abi,wont guys eat,do thier laundry or keeep their houses clean without gurls??and BDW,i cant date a guy who isnt mature enuf to take care of himself by himself.
sha,i dnt mind hostin his friends sha,but its definitely nt goin to b evrytyme his friends com around, its evn more okay if the friends in question r also my friends, NO WAHALA at alll,

on d side of wat guys hv to do 4 gurls,
for 1,, hellll yeah!!!!!my guy has to do those tins, nyce point uju
for 2 and 3, welll,ok.not dat necessary thou esp for d escort part
for 4,, ermmmmm, he doesnt need to provide d MONEY for my hair,clothings and all wat not, ill handle my bills by myself, if he gives me money to do some stuff,i will take but i wont ask, ill onli ask if i dnt hv d money,and evn den,this rarely happens,
for 5,, yes o!!!he has to call,esp we he wake s up, b4 goin to bed and wen at work, i love calls,

I liked most of them and agree.  Except the taking my girls out I dont expect my man to do that as most of my friends have boyfriends that can always want to pay for their ladies so thats not an issue.  I don't expect him to contribute financially to everything I do either sometimes I like to treat myself and sometimes he can treat me.  I don't mind hosting his friends thats a minor, laundry and cooking are minors too most guys can't cook food I would want to eat so if we are close physically I will definitely cook for him no problem.  Sex well I have quite a decent drive so its not a problem but sometimes I have needs to so he better not mind getting woken up occcasionally.   

Yep and if he doesn't contact me or call me frequently it won't be a very long relationship.

Damn so much duties.Being Gay seems cheaper.[insert sense of humor].

Got another one for the guys

1. Always answer your phone when I call (if you are in a business meeting I expect you to get back to me at the earliest opportunity within a couple of hours is good, next day or three days later is a no no)
2.  Don't ever ignore me I am too important in your life
3.  Don't spend more time with your friends than me otherwise you will be asking them for sex and they probably won't like it.     


Another one for ladies

1.  We won't nag you
2.  When there is a problem we expect you to take a proactive approach to resolving it if you don't you know where the kitchen is tell the fridge you are hungry and see if it cares.
3.  Don't sleep without making us orgasm first and don't leave the bedroom definitely without making us orgasm dat is just inpolite and makes you look useless and weak.

Insert Quote
Damn so much duties.Being Gay seems cheaper.[insert sense of humor].

lol lol lol lol

Yumi:

I liked most of them and agree. Except the taking my girls out I dont expect my man to do that as most of my friends have boyfriends that can always want to pay for their ladies so thats not an issue. I don't expect him to contribute financially to everything I do either sometimes I like to treat myself and sometimes he can treat me. I don't mind hosting his friends thats a minor, laundry and cooking are minors too most guys can't cook food I would want to eat so if we are close physically I will definitely cook for him no problem. Sex well I have quite a decent drive so its not a problem but sometimes I have needs to so he better not mind getting woken up occcasionally.

Yep and if he doesn't contact me or call me frequently it won't be a very long relationship.

GBAM . . . . .minus that

1. Help make his meals: Even if she doesn’t know how to cook, she should ensure he always has food to eat. Either by making him cook and store or by getting a cook for me. Either way, his feeding should be her responsibility. Of course the guy does the funding!!

Wetin him mama dey do? He nor get hands? Na bf not fiancé, na wa o. Wife material.

2. Help keep his house clean: Now I know this is hard for most ladies to understand but guys operate better in a clean environment. Even though he’s a bachelor, his apartment should always reflect the presence of a woman in his life. If you can’t clean, get help!!

Ahahahha! I nor get enough for my house na to go clean another person own. Wife material.

3. Help with his Laundry: Okay, that’s a no-go area for most girls but the truth is that, guys expect it. It’s not right to sit back and watch you BF wash his clothes. A lady should ensure that her guy is at his best appearance always! If you can’t wash, take them to the cleaner and pick them up! Of course he should foot the bill.

So to put clothe inside washing machine na hard work na? Abi he want make I use my hands? Na him dey pay for my beautiful natural nails abi?

4. Help with his personal hygiene: Well some guys can be pigs you know. It’s a girl’s responsibility to ensure her guy gets a timely haircut, manicure/pedicure, shave and other things that come with looking good.

Na boy abi na baby? Wife material.

5. Host his friends: Guys like to host their friends once in a while and as his GF, you should try your best to be there for him. Don’t just write it off as a guy’s thing . . be there to serve the drinks, serve the snacks/meals, make the small talks, and know when to leave if they want to get down to the guys talk. Just being there makes him happy that you can blend into his life!!

Ahahhahhah. Just move in with him.

6. Be with him: As a GF, as far as the r/ship involves sex, it’s your duty to satisfy your BF. Sometimes, it’s not even about the sex, it’s about knowing he can hold you in his arms all night long. A guy needs comfort from a girl, so as his girl, you should let him know you are there! That’s very important.

If he nor marry you eh---you go cry!!!


As a girl, these are the things I expect from my BF.

1. Handy-man: Okay the word’s a bit derogatory, but if I have a BF, he should be there to fix my things. Electrical faults, plumbing, household appliances and even my car. Even if I have to pay for it, he should be the one to take it to the electrician/mechanic and make sure it gets fixed! If I have to travel a far distance, he should be ready to drive me, if I have a flat tire, he should be ready to change it and get it fixed. Infact, if I need anything done, he should get it done. That’s why we really hare their numbers on speed dial :d

Just say you are broke and can't affor professionals.

2. My escort: Well I can’t go for that wedding/ Party alone! He has to come with me.

Ahhahahaha! Show off.

3. My protector: Okay, before you say another word to me, I’ll have you know that I have a BF :d I actually let a guy go cos he let someone else toast me while I was with him. Before you talk to me, you think of what my BF will do to you!

Stupid.

4. Money: I know you guys don’t want to hear this but it’s the fact! My BF (poorer or richer than I am) pays for my hair and my clothes. Now I don’t expect him to take up totally financial responsibility of me, but if I’m throwing my B/day party, he shd pay for it or at least pay for most of it. He should at least once in a very blue moon, take me and my ladies out! He should pay for some lil things that I need and he should contribute, no matter how small, in anything I do!!

Slut.

5. Call me: Now this is a very tick one. If I have a BF, he should be the one calling more often. No matter how busy he is. He should call and check up on me while I’m at work, he should call me when I’m sick, he should call me when he wakes up in the morning and before he sleeps at night. . . cos I’ll expect him to!

Cheap broke ass gal.

6. Be with me: It’s not just the guys that want sex, we want it too. We also love the feeling of curling up in his arms all night long. We love company, we love knowing he’s there!!

This is accpetable. The only priceless thing you can get from your darling.

michelin89:

Wetin him mama dey do? He nor get hands? Na bf not fiancé, na wa o. Wife material.

Ahahahha! I nor get enough for my house na to go clean another person own. Wife material.

So to put clothe inside washing machine na hard work na? Abi he want make I use my hands? Na him dey pay for my beautiful natural nails abi?

Na boy abi na baby? Wife material.

Ahahhahhah. Just move in with him.

If he nor marry you eh---you go cry!!!


As a girl, these are the things I expect from my BF.

Just say you are broke and can't affor professionals.

Ahhahahaha! Show off.

Stupid.

Slut.

Cheap broke ass gal.

This is accpetable. The only priceless thing you can get from your darling.

Michelin u so bitter, why na?

TOPE2000!:

Michelin u so bitter, why na?

Sugabelle
numam
ujujoan

These girls are something else. They are corrupting the minds of the young generation.

What happened to partners helping themelves through hard times, encouraging each other to realize their dreams, sustaining each other's ambitions?

THESE ARE MY BOYFRIEND'S DUTY

1. Love me. If you don't then we are pretty much done as a couple.

2. Respect me.: emtionally, physically, psychologically and mentally.

3. Encourage me. You know my dreams and ambitions, make sure whenever I lose focus you are there to put me back on track.

4. Teach me. Don't be afraid to tell me when I'm wrong. Be bold and say it even though you know you might not live to see tomorrow.

5. Trust me. Yeah I am always talking about you to my friends but I am sure capable of keeping secrets. Lean on me anytime anyday.

6. Use me. Ask for favors if you are in need. Just for the fact that I love you I may say yes even though I hate it with all my heart.

MY DUTIES?? They are quite obvious. I can't be copying and pasting.

michelin89:

THESE ARE MY BOYFRIEND'S DUTY

1. Love me. If you don't then we are pretty much done as a couple.

2. Respect me.: emtionally, physically, psychologically and mentally.

3. Encourage me. You know my dreams and ambitions, make sure whenever I lose focus you are there to put me back on track.

4. Teach me. Don't be afraid to tell me when I'm wrong. Be bold and say it even though you know you might not live to see tomorrow.

5. Trust me. Yeah I am always talking about you to my friends but I am sure capable of keeping secrets. Lean on me anytime anyday.

6. Use me. Ask for favors if you are in need. Just for the fact that I love you I may say yes even though I hate it with all my heart.

MY DUTIES?? They are quite obvious. I can't be copying and pasting.

Men don suffer oooooo

Just a question: what if the boy has a housemaid, wetin the girl go dey do?

6.Be with him.

This Ujujoan is smart eh. She dey pray make them get househelp so that she can do the sweetest chore and have the man doing all his 6 back breaking chores, including dashing out his money.

Sugabelle and numam must be delighted!

michelin89:

Sugabelle
numam
ujujoan

These girls are something else. They are corrupting the minds of the young generation.

What happened to partners helping themelves through hard times, encouraging each other to realize their dreams, sustaining each other's ambitions?

THESE ARE MY BOYFRIEND'S DUTY

1. Love me. If you don't then we are pretty much done as a couple.

2. Respect me.: emtionally, physically, psychologically and mentally.

3. Encourage me. You know my dreams and ambitions, make sure whenever I lose focus you are there to put me back on track.

4. Teach me. Don't be afraid to tell me when I'm wrong. Be bold and say it even though you know you might not live to see tomorrow.

5. Trust me. Yeah I am always talking about you to my friends but I am sure capable of keeping secrets. Lean on me anytime anyday.

6. Use me. Ask for favors if you are in need. Just for the fact that I love you I may say yes even though I hate it with all my heart.

MY DUTIES?? They are quite obvious. I can't be copying and pasting.

Awwwwwwwwwwww . . . . . cute
i agree

michelin89:

Just a question: what if the boy has a housemaid, wetin the girl go dey do?

6.Be with him.

This Ujujoan is smart eh. She dey pray make them get househelp so that she can do the sweetest chore and have the man doing all his 6 back breaking chores, including dashing out his money.

Sugabelle and numam must be delighted!

LMAO

~Sauron~:

Men don suffer oooooo

Sauron if you prefer to dashing out your money, attending parties you are not interested in, making every call, doing all sort of irritating handy chores, getting your face punched by other guys and receiving cuddles when you are obviously not in the mood for them (u're in pains), then go for ujujoan and her gang.

michelin89:

Sauron if you prefer to dashing out your money, attending parties you are not interested in, making every call, doing all sort of irritating handy chores, getting your face punched by other guys and receiving cuddles when you are obviously not in the mood for them (u're in pains), then go for ujujoan and her gang.

Firstly, there's nothing wrong in splashing one's woman with CREAM.
Attending parties that are not necessary? It depends on the PREMIERSHIP.
Doing all sort of irritating house chores? I am not a handy-man.
Getting ma face punched? Errrrrrrrrrrrr, not my portion.
Receiving cuddles? I stay in a country where there's blistering cold 3/4 of the year. . . .so i can do with the cuddles.