chigoizie7:


Den stop lamenting or complaining

I'm not. I'm highlighting illogical thought process in patriarchal societies.

foolinlove:


No. Men walk around topless. Why can't women if they want?

And if u think it is the right thing to do,

I mean, walking around topless as a woman, feel free and do it, no one will stop u.


But stop lamenting

nuelzz04:
men r very visual I guess u knw dat already .......so objectifying a semi nude lady is almost certain .......how many guys walk around in just der briefs

Lots do. But they're not called slvts.

Why is it a woman's responsibility to control a man's thoughts?

Men are capable of self control. Besides, if you have sexual thoughts then that's your problem to deal with, not a woman's.

ehikwe22:
I don't want to see your tits. Just don't get how telling women to cover their body is infringing on their rights. opening your boobs is invitation to calamity. you're in Africa. except maybe you're not

How is opening of ur boobs an invitation to calamity?
Every saturday we see pictures of brides with exposed boobs getting married. U know, its what is trending now. Explain how their husband's are insane?

foolinlove:


I'm not. I'm highlighting illogical thought process in patriarchal societies.

Not all logical things are good or perceived good.

Isn't it logical for men to feel pains down their groins when having sex for the 1st time? The same way women do?

Or isn't it logical for a man to feel used by a woman after having sex with him too?

foolinlove:


Lots do. But they're not called slvts.

Why is it a woman's responsibility to control a man's thoughts?

Men are capable of self control. Besides, if you have sexual thoughts then that's your problem to deal with, not a woman's.

OK .....wen will u b my area .......ah don't v a prob seeing n unclad lady ...n I v plenty of self control

chigoizie7:


Not all logical things are good or perceived good.

Isn't it logical for men to feel pains down their groins when having sex for the 1st time? The same way women do?

Or isn't it logical for a man to feel used by a woman after having sex with him too?

No, it isn't logical. Because nothing is being stretched or broken when a guy loses his virginity - that's what happens to women.

Physical trauma causes pain. The man goes through no physical trauma. Therefore pain is illogical.

nuelzz04:
OK .....wen will u b my area .......ah don't v a prob seeing n unclad lady ...n I v plenty of self control

Good. Time to stop being illogical with your thoughts then.

If only the malefolk in this part would stop picking on everything a woman does and focus on being great men, maybe some of us wld not start topics like this.

foolinlove:


Good. Time to stop being illogical with your thoughts then.

u didn't ansa ma question

foolinlove:


In your opinion.

But a woman's life doesn't revolve around you, or what men think.

I don't give two hoots whether you like me or not.

I care whether you respect me based on the fact that I'm human, not judge my entire character on what I wear and then decide whether I'm "worthy" of your respect. It's illogical.

you are what you wear, and first impression matters a lot.

foolinlove:


Why not?

okay, upload a pic with your breast open wide, then I'll upload mine with full beards and let see who the world will criticise , u just have to admit a man and a woman don't stand equal chance it's not as if u deprived of some right, your body is a treasure , it need to be covered

nuelzz04:
u didn't ansa ma question

I'll never be in your *area*.

Kakamorufu:
you are what you wear, and first impression matters a lot.

Illogical thought pattern.

Certifiedbillio:
okay, upload a pic with your breast open wide, then I'll upload mine with full beards and let see who the world will criticise , u just have to admit a man and a woman don't stand equal chance it's not as if u deprived of some right, your body is a treasure , it need to be covered

That's what I'm trying to illuminate and fight - gender inequality.

Gender inequality is based on differing rights for differing genders.

You say I'm not deprived of any right, then tell me to cover myself. Thereby denying my right to wear whay I want.

See the hypocrisy in what you say?

foolinlove:
You say women should cover their cleavage because breasts are sexual organs.

Breasts aren't sexual organs. They're secondary sexual characteristics.

Just so you know: your facial hair and enlarged adams apple are secondary sexual characteristics as well.

So if you think people should cover secondary sexual characteristics, feel free to shove your entire head into a bag at any time.

see shallow thinking sha, why do you use bra?
you know what? when going to you place of work, don't put on any shirt or blouse just put on your trousers... mtchew

LuveU2:
If only the malefolk in this part would stop picking on everything a woman does and focus on being great men, maybe some of us wld not start topics like this.

It's more than them picking. It's an ingrained perception. It needs to be remedied.

Even if men were successful, they will still have poor attitudes to women.

TheAziz:

see shallow thinking sha, why do you use bra?
you know what? when going to you place of work, don't put on any shirt or blouse just put on your trousers... mtchew

I don't wear any underwear. Why do I have to justify myself to you?

If I want to go topless like a man, I should be able to without judgement.

foolinlove:


I'll never be in your *area*.

*so sad* ...gals over here r just too stingy n decent ....dey can't even show a brother half view

nuelzz04:
*so sad* ...gals over here r just too stingy n decent ....dat can't even show a brother half view

They are allowed to wear what they want. Women aren't there to decorate the world.

foolinlove:


That's what I'm trying to illuminate and fight - gender inequality.

Gender inequality is based on differing rights for differing genders.

You say I'm not deprived of any right, then tell me to cover myself. Thereby denying my right to wear whay I want.

See the hypocrisy in what you say?

my dear, you fighting you said, I know you'll never go out wearing only skirt all in the name of wearing what u like, if u can then I'll be waiting to see proof, you already know it's against moral , why just saying it and not act

Certifiedbillio:
my dear, you fighting you said, I know you'll never go out wearing only skirt all in the name of wearing what u like, if u can then I'll be waiting to see proof, you already know it's against moral , why just saying it and not act

Please. I've been topless in lots of places, television included.

foolinlove:


No, it isn't logical. Because nothing is being stretched or broken when a guy loses his virginity - that's what happens to women.

Physical trauma causes pain. The man goes through no physical trauma. Therefore pain is illogical.

And u think it is not logical to have a psychological pains?


My point is this, men and women are created differently, and such difference in their day to day activities should always be considered.

Breasts protrudes, but male chests don't. Even though both are somehow sexual organs, but one is more pronounced.

In the same vein, female virgina and male groins are both sex tools in their own way. One is protruding while the others are not. Women wear pants/shorts/trousers that are so tight even towards their virgina regions and are free and good to. because the shape and size is not pronounced maybe by sight. But it will be insane for a man will a bulging díck to be seen putting on a pant as tight as that of leggings and all that exposing their díck size to all to see. How would u feel if u see such a man walking on the road, exposing those bulge towards the groin region?


This is akin to what happens to women and not moving about topless, but if u find it logical enough to do so, feel free, no one will stop u, neither will anyone arrest u.

Trust me, I have seen countless mad women walking up and down the streets of Awka and no one has arrested them or ever cautioned them.

foolinlove:


They are allowed to wear what they want. Women aren't there to decorate the world.

I beg to disagree .....ladies make d world more beautiful....now I tink dats decoration

chigoizie7:


And u think it is not logical to have a psychological pains?


My point is this, men and women are created differently, and such difference in their day to day activities should always be considered.

Breasts protrudes, but male chests don't. Even though both are somehow sexual organs, but one is more pronounced.

In the same vein, female virgina and male groins are both sex tools in their own way. One is protruding while the others are not. Women wear pants/shorts/trousers that are so tight even towards their virgina regions and are free and good to. because the shape and size is not pronounced maybe by sight. But it will be insane for a man will a bulging díck to be seen putting on a pant as tight as that of leggings and all that exposing their díck size to all to see. How would u feel if u see such a man walking on the road, exposing those bulge towards the groin region?


This is akin to what happens to women and not moving about topless, but if u find it logical enough to do so, feel free, no one will stop u, neither will anyone arrest u.

Trust me, I have seen countless mad women walking up and down the streets of Awka and no one has arrested them or ever cautioned them.

Yawn.

nuelzz04:
I beg to disagree .....ladies make d world more beautiful....now I tink dats decoration

That's not a woman's purpose, though.

chigoizie7:


And u think it is not logical to have a psychological pains?


My point is this, men and women are created differently, and such difference in their day to day activities should always be considered.

Breasts protrudes, but male chests don't. Even though both are somehow sexual organs, but one is more pronounced.

In the same vein, female virgina and male groins are both sex tools in their own way. One is protruding while the others are not. Women wear pants/shorts/trousers that are so tight even towards their virgina regions and are free and good to. because the shape and size is not pronounced maybe by sight. But it will be insane for a man will a bulging díck to be seen putting on a pant as tight as that of leggings and all that exposing their díck size to all to see. How would u feel if u see such a man walking on the road, exposing those bulge towards the groin region?


This is akin to what happens to women and not moving about topless, but if u find it logical enough to do so, feel free, no one will stop u, neither will anyone arrest u.

Trust me, I have seen countless mad women walking up and down the streets of Awka and no one has arrested them or ever cautioned them.

those awka gehs only God will judge dem

foolinlove:


Please. I've been topless in lots of places, television included.

Since u have defied all odds to appear topless in most places, televisions included and no one arrested u, why are u still lamenting?

foolinlove:


Please. I've been topless in lots of places, television included.

proof!!!!! You can mail it to me

foolinlove:


That's not a woman's purpose, though.

didn't say its her purpose .....finally one tin we agree on since dis discus started

foolinlove:


It's more than them picking. It's an ingrained perception. It needs to be remedied.

Even if men were successful, they will still have poor attitudes to women.

Have u ever thought of it this way...most men here dont care about how a woman feels. She is suppose to feel the same way as they do.

If they say, A is not a wife material, they expect u also think same.

Moreso, what happens to respect? Everyday women are slut-shamed, shamed for being single, shamed for disagreeing with other women, shamed for being "sexy", shamed for putting on make up. Shamed for walking out of a relationship, shamed for everything

Even if its ingrained to be silly, dont they have any atom of respect for us?

LuveU2:


Have u ever thought of it this way...most men here dont care about how a woman feels. She is suppose to feel the same way as they do.

If they say, A is not a wife material, they expect u also think same.

Moreso, what happens to respect? Everyday women are slut-shamed, shamed for being single, shamed for disagreeing with other women, shamed for being "sexy", shamed for putting on make up. Shamed for walking out of a relationship, shamed for everything

Even if its ingrained to be silly, dont they have any atom of respect for us?

I'm glad u said most, personally, I don't judge, every one does things with their reason , but in this issue, we have to follow the morals of the environment we are