I met this beautiful babe weeks ago when I went to table a business proposal to the MD of the company who is a friend to by boss.....she works as the secretary general in the firm,, as in shes highly influencial and respected in the company...so while waiting for the boss to round up a meeting with some foregin client, I decided to strike up a conversation with her...I was so amazed by her level of intelligence the way she speaks queens english so well....she has general knowledge in almost everything we talked about, religion, sports, cars, politics etc...so I decide to fix a date wt her and she accepted immediately....days later it was a saturday afternoon lunch date....I called her, and asked which venue she wanted and she choose one big restaurant in GRA...30 mins later I arrived and called her she came almost immediately dressing casual wasnt what I was expecting....just a bum short and aresnal jersey with her name on the back and her hair tied up with this twisting rollers women use now,, dnt even knw the name...immediately, I placed my orders and she did too...It didnt tk up to 7 mins I finished my food cuz the food was so delicious (jevinik standard)...we started gisting a woman came from a black ford explorer jeep wt an escort and walk inside the place....I noticed immediately all workers started forming busy and all that...
The lady started walking towards our table and I looked striaght into her face and I saw striking resemblance but the older version of the beautiful grl I came to see...we greeted and all that...she told me she was her mum and that her mums owns the restaurant too..and the big house behind was thiers...so I felt more comfortable and ordered the whole workers their a bottle of whatever they wanted to drink and I paid....after much gisting and gisting it was time to leave and I left.....since then this grl has refused picking my calls and even if she picks she doesnt talk very much and giving me attitude over the phone.....so I was worried and asked what cud hv gone wrong, she said I was too stingy for her liking, I was shocked to my toes...that I came to see her and cud even give her money for transport.....
This got me thinking, she earns more than I do, shes from a rich home and well educated, she drives a better car than I do...shes 27 but look way younger than that......so my fellow nairalanders what do u think I should do in this situation?

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sinaj:
Ur story is not complete

wetin no complete.....no tell me say as u fine reach ur that type of girl?

baranzy:
wetin no complete.....no tell me say as u fine reach ur that type of girl?

which type of girl ni


U must have done something to her u didn't include in ur story

sinaj:
which type of girl ni


U must have done something to her u didn't include in ur story

notin at all....all I narrated was just as it happened thats why am still confused.....maybe she expected me to dash her money after I bought drinks for peopke their.....but the respect I hv for her I neva tot she wud accept me giving her cash....cuz this babe earns like 60% more than I do.....I wanted to prove to her even if I dont hv much I cud still be generous thats why I asked all the workers to take something...

But come to think of it,, giving her transport in her mumu's place right in front of their compund..

Lol.....women?..very insatiable assholes!!!!

Vincent41:
Lol.....women?..very insatiable assholes!!!!

my broda me tire o.....girl wey I dey respect wella come fall hand like dis....

sinaj:
Ur story is not complete

Just a girl trying to defend another girl even though she knows nothing about her. OP's story is not surprising in the least. It's per for the course with women. Their actions are not logical.

baranzy:
notin at all....all I narrated was just as it happened thats why am still confused.....maybe she expected me to dash her money after I bought drinks for peopke their.....but the respect I hv for her I neva tot she wud accept me giving her cash....cuz this babe earns like 60% more than I do.....I wanted to prove to her even if I dont hv much I cud still be generous thats why I asked all the workers to take something...

I'll tell you what happened. You peeked her interest at your first meeting at her work place which is why she agreed to the date. But on the date even though it seemed you got along well, you didn't tingle her fancy. You said it yourself she's got more economic clout than you do, that's strike one. But the most important thing is the way you related with her did not create any attraction. Did you flirt with her? Did you toy with her? Were you making physical contact during the date? Did you create any sexual tension or spark or did you just keep it pg and friendly. These are the mistakes guys make thinking they are being patient. Nope, it's works against you. You have to be more forward and take control of the situation. Always be escalating. Even if she turns you down, a woman would respect more a guy who had the balls to try than one whos scared to try.

Suspectzero:


I'll tell you what happened. You peeked her interest at your first meeting at her work place which is why she agreed to the date. But on the date even though it seemed you got along well, you didn't tingle her fancy. You said it yourself she's got more economic clout than you do, that's strike one. But the most important thing is the way you related with her did not create any attraction. Did you flirt with her? Did you toy with her? Were you making physical contact during the date? Did you create any sexual tension or spark or did you just keep it pg and friendly. These are the mistakes guys make thinking they are being patient. Nope, it's works against you. You have to be more forward and take control of the situation. Always be escalating. Even if she turns you down, a woman would respect more a guy who had the balls to try than one whos scared to try.

it was our first date outside official stuffs...besides she has a serious bf who is a medical doctor in the united states....she normally goes to visit him time to time...all I wanted was just a close friendship stuff though am very much attracted to her...just wanted to build trust and friendship between us via work level...

baranzy:
it was our first date outside official stuffs...besides she has a serious bf who is a medical doctor in the united states....she normally goes to visit him time to time...all I wanted was just a close friendship stuff though am very much attracted to her...just wanted to build trust and friendship between us via work level...

Lol stop lying to yourself. If you are attracted to her then you can't be "close friends". You just wanna be friends with benefits. Trust me if she fancied you, you'd be ploughing her already, boyfriend in America or not. I'm sure some other guy probably has whihe medical boyfriend is waiting abroad.

Suspectzero:


Lol stop lying to yourself. If you are attracted to her then you can't be "close friends". You just wanna be friends with benefits. Trust me if she fancied you, you'd be ploughing her already, boyfriend in America or not. I'm sure some other guy probably has whihe medical boyfriend is waiting abroad.

no bro....am very cool wt her even without the romantic affair...the job I get from her company is more meaningful to my life than having a romantic affair with her....besides we made it clear while gisting bout our relationship status.....

She has told you what's wrong. The ball is in your court either call her back and ask for a second chance to prove ur not stingy or tell her to go to hell simple. I would of course tell her to choke on her balls.

baranzy:
notin at all....all I narrated was just as it happened thats why am still confused.....maybe she expected me to dash her money after I bought drinks for peopke their.....but the respect I hv for her I neva tot she wud accept me giving her cash....cuz this babe earns like 60% more than I do.....I wanted to prove to her even if I dont hv much I cud still be generous thats why I asked all the workers to take something...

Bia,
You have seen the warning signs, so why do you want to persist?
OK, we agree with you that she has longer throat.
But why are you still calling her? Don't you see you are the one that is looking for trouble? You can't claim to be in love with her yet as you guys have just met and had one date together.
Its better you stay as her friend, since you have noticed what you can't stand in her attitude or 'greed'.
Let her be, call her once in a month to say hi. You will meet your own girlfriend that suits your taste in the future.

baranzy:
I met this beautiful babe weeks ago when I went to table a business proposal to the MD of the company who is a friend to by boss.....she works as the secretary general in the firm,, as in shes highly influencial and respected in the company...so while waiting for the boss to round up a meeting with some foregin client, I decided to strike up a conversation with her...I was so amazed by her level of intelligence the way she speaks queens english so well....she has general knowledge in almost everything we talked about, religion, sports, cars, politics etc...so I decide to fix a date wt her and she accepted immediately....days later it was a saturday afternoon lunch date....I called her, and asked which venue she wanted and she choose one big restaurant in GRA...30 mins later I arrived and called her she came almost immediately dressing casual wasnt what I was expecting....just a bum short and aresnal jersey with her name on the back and her hair tied up with this twisting rollers women use now,, dnt even knw the name...immediately, I placed my orders and she did too...It didnt tk up to 7 mins I finished my food cuz the food was so delicious (jevinik standard)...we started gisting a woman came from a black ford explorer jeep wt an escort and walk inside the place....I noticed immediately all workers started forming busy and all that...
The lady started walking towards our table and I looked striaght into her face and I saw striking resemblance but the older version of the beautiful grl I came to see...we greeted and all that...she told me she was her mum and that her mums owns the restaurant too..and the big house behind was thiers...so I felt more comfortable and ordered the whole workers their a bottle of whatever they wanted to drink and I paid....after much gisting and gisting it was time to leave and I left.....since then this grl has refused picking my calls and even if she picks she doesnt talk very much and giving me attitude over the phone.....so I was worried and asked what cud hv gone wrong, she said I was too stingy for her liking, I was shocked to my toes...that I came to see her and cud even give her money for transport.....
This got me thinking, she earns more than I do, shes from a rich home and well educated, she drives a better car than I do...shes 27 but look way younger than that......so my fellow nairalanders what do u think I should do in this situation?

u didn't nack her front and back, my guy u fall my hand