I think its high time guys made it abundantly clear to ladies whom we are dating that we are not under compulsion neither are we obligated to spend on them.
Why should we work like an elephant only to spend our hard earned money on them like we are their magas.
It should be clear to all and sundry that we ain't no fools neither are we ATM Machines.
Why must a guy be the one to pay your school fees, buy you hand outs , feed you, clothe you , provide accommodation for you and may be your parents too, when it is not even certain you will get married to him.
Most annoying is the fact that you don’t appreciate these things we do, though we do them out of love at our own inconvenience , only for you to call us names around your folks and equally bad hungry pest-like friends.
You want to doubt me? On a good day check an average lady's phone, you would see guys whose numbers are saved with unprintable names such as first bank, eco bank, co-operative bank, fcmb, aka gum, maga 1, maga 2, stupid boy, maga must pay, my helper, god sent, big mouth, hungry - guy, love - ph, dearie - lagos , sweety - bayelsa, sugar - warri .
I mean all these names are found on just a particular phone. Meanwhile each of the guys think he has a fiance.
Come on, guys lets wise up. Let an end come to the era of wishful & senseless spending on a lady who is not worth it.
My plea is that you keep your hard earned money till you eventually get married to her then you can spend as much as you want on her.
My 2 cents.

Note: This is a counter thread to the one thar made front page yesterday " SHOULD A LADY SPEND ON A GUY SHE IS DATING" .

Am i mad? Or under a spell?

If you have the money you spend, if you don't have the money, is not by force

counter thread as usual..... why not! as far as i am concerned this is not a question.
if u are stingy during courtship u will b super stingy in marriage.......gbam!!!

Ladies ve taking dating 2 be business coz if u can't take care of their needs they ll say they ve no business been with you.shebi one of the ikeji sister don talk am love without money nah 419.

Der is no way u won't spend for ur girlfriend except u re d stingy type.But if u will do it do it with sense, don't do more than your ability so that when d babe leaves you,you won't end up lamenting over your excess spendings towards her.

Okay, we have heard you! Don't spend on your girl. Keep your money to yourself.


Funny thing is, guys that complain about this are broke guys that spend more on their girlfriends.

Yes a guy should be able to spend on their woman, not a problem. But not on compulsion or through coercing but by their freewill.

Zceesneh:
Am i mad? Or under a spell?

#yimu

If you have money and you can spare for your woman then spend it o, but if you have money you're managing for yourself no go spend am for woman o,! make e no result to man bafs babe with acid for breaking his heart, guy commits sucide because bae dumped him
na broke guys sorry guys when they manage wen spend their last cash on babe they sabi do that kind ish last last when things no go well

MzDesire:

#yimu

#yimu

Zceesneh:
#yimu

And guys like you end up spending more on your woman

MzDesire:

And guys like you end up spending more on your woman

shoro niyen?

Zceesneh:
shoro niyen?

yes

MzDesire:

yes

well, if am the one showing more interest in her, i won't spend a dim on her, my ex forced me to be very stingy, i find out that she was spending my money on another guy, so i broke up with her and swear to God i won't spend a dim on any girl

I care little fr ladies order to miss m wen m gone buh nt cos f luv cos I dnt believe in luv diz days... I hate ladies who demands
..

PinkBarbie:
Okay, we have heard you! Don't spend on your girl. Keep your money to yourself.


Funny thing is, guys that complain about this are broke guys that spend more on their girlfriends.

Just reading comments.

Zceesneh:
Am i mad? Or under a spell?

And when i said girls shouldn't spend on you guys, ur likes were like...this is how you will knw a wife material, and girls shld spend on their men.

Smh.

Benita27:
And when i said girls shouldn't spend on you guys, ur likes were like...this is how you will knw a wife material, and girls shld spend on their men.

Smh.

young woman shut up, don't quote me again

Zceesneh:
young woman shut up, don't quote me again

Gbam

Zceesneh:
well, if am the one showing more interest in her, i won't spend a dim on her, my ex forced me to be very stingy, i find out that she was spending my money on another guy, so i broke up with her and swear to God i won't spend a dim on any girl

But you will love one mugu to spend on you.

[quote author=Benita27 post=47978478][/quote] thanks bye

Benita27:
But you will love one mugu to spend on you.

stop Bleep'ing with me

Zceesneh:
stop Bleep'ing with me

bleeping with you. What can you do?.

Well I don't just spend on girls am dating, I spend on girls I find reasonable, though they tend to spend on me too, but at a point when you are with a reasonable person all these who's to spend won't even come to mind, don't worry it just means you are not moving with reasonable girls who understand your plight.

I find it quite comfortable spending on my woman as long as she doesn't go overboard with it

Benita27:
bleeping with you. What can you do?.

u want my attention? Come and get it? Lols i will be fucking with u from now on

Yes.

1. To assist her meet her needs.

2. If you are bouyant and have a selfless heart.

No.

1. When held under ransom to spend.

Make a pick.

Zceesneh:
u want my attention? Come and get it? Lols i will be fucking with u from now on

Ur attention, do i really need that?....hell no!.