auntysimbiat:
chei... bad small gal.. THE FATHER TOOK GREAT ACTION THAT WILL NOT ONLY HELP HIS DAUGHTER BUT ALSO HELP THE NATION..



Somebody tell me if the girl would still wana try this?

somebody tell me if any young girl would wana try this after seeing this?

somebody tell me if any young girl doing this would still like to continue ?


THANKS, GREAT FATHER

... oga seun and uncle lalasticlala please play your part when you wake up . thanks

My Gawd,
do you know the import of those picture & video ?
hmmm
always tot no one throws away the baby with the bath water.
I am only holding myself back from saying the man should be made to EXperience same bcoz I am not sure he's her father.

IF THOU O LORD WILL MARK OUR GUILT, WHO WILL SURVIVE

this man is so frivolous an flipant the way of doing things, which can of discipline is that, hw i might sure she is her biological daughter

5minsmadness:


Thank you o'jare!
I don't want to comment my mind make dem no ban me.
Some are even saying the video will destroy her future career... Which career? At the way she is going, no be ashawo career she don already start?

Wayward generation.


The man no flog am well sef.
Make I no comment Abeg.

wow! I'm so disappointed!

isnovic:




The morally advanced society you cited are still studying more conservative cultures as a cure for the malaise in their style of parenting.
Last year, a survey in the US put children from Indian, Asian and Nigerian families to be better behaved than most children in the States.

Have we not seen or read these statistics of those advanced country and ours tirelessly?. the result are evident.

What pervs are you talking about, even if they gore at the online picture from now till eternity comes does it bore a hole in her skin. Hell No!!!

People have risen from much worse here in Nigerian.

So please spare me the archive threats of the internet, this is the least of her problems.

The man is not a citizen of an advanced country, but that of a "less advanced society" so he hasn't erred here. It is the norm and it is expected.

In fact, those days she would have been given a thorough beating by other women, remember it takes the whole village to raise an African child.

Now these benefits is lost in prisons we called flats, Duplexes and Private Homes/Estates and virtual world of internet and smartphones.

As no one claims a bastard child, except nowadays where shame is replaced with baby mamas syndrome.

The problem is that we are torn with identity crisis, we can not be whiter than the white and we have long sold our cultures to remain truly African. Hence we are not all white in our culture now and can never be and neither are we still 100% African in values, norms, and culture. we are lost somewhere in the middle.

Did you grow up in an African home where your sisters were sexually active at this age or had the temerity to bring their bed mate to their parents home, I am certain you did not, you dare not dare to dream about this.

As family name and reputation is everything back then not these days where followings on social media and the craze for views/blogs traffic is a measure of your role model capability or your trustworthiness of being a better character and judgement.

I guess we do not have a discourse if you support the father throwing the pictures of his unclothed daughter to the world to view.

You said in real African societies, older women would discipline the child. Beautifu!! Keyword is 'women'. Listen, I have zero issues with the spanking; my parents whooped me severally, but for other males to view the girl and make a video for the world, come on!

Africans respect the privacy of women. Believe it or not, that father was foolish to not only make a video of the unclothed kid, but also for making it public. He'd regret it later.

And, according to you, that video on the internet is the least of the girl's problems?!?!?

Sorry, either you have never fathered a child, or you don't understand the limits of parental discipline, or, in fact, we are not on the same page!

All the statistics you're reeling out about the failure of Western style parenting is, at best, diversionary, and an attempt to run away from the fact that the man was wrong to ask his daughter to "take off her undies, remove her hands from covering her privates" so he could have her videoed. Poor manners from a father!

Like I said earlier: the girl was foolish; her father, even more!

Knowledge9000:
Today's women and sex are like 5 and 6.

...it's not the sex per se but HER BRINGING A MAN INTO HIS HOUSE. What stopped her from having the sex else where? I remember those days, we do this somewhere in the school premises or even church. Of all the paces to have sex and you chose your father's house?

You reminisce "those days" and still sound as though if you had the opportunity (now) you would still use the "church". NEVER underestimate the "church". 'Mercy' is the 'oxygen' that is still keeping most people on planet earth, don't take it for granted.
...let he that has ears...

This is too extreme na, I know the girl did bad but stripping her off her dignity and allowing a perv record the whole scene is a bit too extreme. I bet you he will regret his foolishness in no time. illiteracy at its peak.

It's a big big disrespect for a small girl to bring a man to her father's house for sex. That means she is not even scared of the father. The man that also agreed to go Bleep the girl in her father's house is an animal.
The father should have dealt with the man before pouncing on the girl. If you can disgrace your father, then you should be ready for the consequences.

Those saying it is wrong don't know how annoying it is. The girl will learn her lesson the hard way.

lwise:
Her father is mentally sick,he did more damage than control.

You're a foōl
When your daughter brings a guy to your bedroom and you catch dem Fúcking, just pamper her.

All I see is the father's er.ection

CeenoEvu:


Chei, Aunty Simbiat (my secret crush on nairaland), you fall my hand o.

Great parents need to learn to how to remain disciplined while disciplining their children. Temperance is the word here. Discipline your child in such a manner that when you're happy with him/her tomorrow or years down the line, you will not find it hard to replay your disciplinary actions in your head. In our anger and corrective measures, we still need to teach our children about self control/restraint.

The lack of self control that made the girl indulge in this shameful act is the same lack of self control manifesting in the man's reaction to this daughters act.

The girl is crazy, no doubt but the father went way above board with the stripping and recording. Looks like the man is pained by something else beyond what we know.

The girl isn't crazy, she's experimenting and discovering her sexuality.

The father and all those filming and posting online a naked underaged teenager are the crazy ones.
They seem to be into extreme s & m child pornography.
I learnt one of those flogging her was getting an erection in the presence of everybody there o.

What form of sex education have her parents ever given her? I'm sure none. What have they ever discussed with her regarding comporting herself as a young lady?

Another question is what sort of man has sex with a young girl in her father's house?
Its either another foolish boy in her class or a morally decadent man.

eyinjuege:


The girl isn't crazy, she's experimenting and discovering her sexuality.

The father and all those filming and posting online a naked underaged teenager are the crazy ones.
They seem to be into extreme s & m child pornography.
I learnt one of those flogging her was getting an erection in the presence of everybody there o.

What form of sex education have her parents ever given her? I'm sure none. What have they ever discussed with her regarding comporting herself as a young lady?

Another question is what sort of man has sex with a young girl in her father's house?
Its either another foolish boy in her class or a morally decadent man.

I agree with you - the girl is "normal crazy". The father though.... you don't want to know what I think of the man. I see him as a pervert. If I was a social worker on a case like this, I will be asking the girl if the father had tried to sleep with her before. The man behaved more like a scorned lover taking revenge than a parent that was correcting his child.

waternogetememy:

The man was measured and his temper under control, whilst he discipline and disgrace the useless girl.

you did realise that he is disciplining her in the presence of other man who might later sexually abuse her because they have already seen it all? Did you think that one day she will grow up and want to get married and this video will always be online to remind her how much she not worthy of anything because of her past mistakes? Its like some of you people think from your anus. There was a way of disciplining her and it was most certainly meant to be in front of other sexually frustrated men who would gladly take videos of a naked person and post it online for a good laugh and self-service off when they are bored.

waternogetememy:


Mr man! I am not a thread pusher, it is not wat i do 4 a living, u can sign on with as much moniker as u like, the father has handled the matter, wen her mum gets back, she will collect curse and more slapping/flogging.


Commit suicide if u dont like it, u cannot love and care 4 their daughter more than the parents.


U are simple reasoning with ur dick and after wat u can get as a man, her parents are after her future.


If person like me mistakenly jam ur type with my daughter, u done meet God, i will not even touch her. I will use u to demonstrate just how wicked, i can be. She go fear.

okay now that the video is online for good, where will she get a decent job that she will be able to maintain without the video ever re-surfacing unexpectedly? If she does change, where will she get a husband who will still love and respect her after coming across such a video? In fact which men in his right mind would want to marry from a family full of mentally deranged people that allow other men to video his daughter naked while he humiliates her? Is that the future they are after?

quivah:

wow! I'm so disappointed!

Too bad!

oatzeal:
THE FATHER WAS WRONG WITH THE KIND OF TREATMENT .. BUT THE GIRL TOO DIDNT DO WELL

THE VIDEO >>> http://www.nairanaijanews.com/2016/07/secondary-school-girl-caught-in-act.html

the father commited a perversed assault on her mentally and physically,dont be surprised if all the men who recorded find a way to sleep with her.. she isnt supposed to be having sex at that age,but who failed in that aspect?she or her parents? allowing other perverts watch wont stop her from having sex it will only harden her mind more..he just made her used to having men see her naked..in other words she wont have fear of men both old and young again..we have seen girls do worse,u think they werent flogged worse when they were small..girl wey go spoil go spoil and na the parents get blame.

Na was o, wet in we no go hear and see for naija.

AlanSugar:


I honestly don't understand this blabbing. Pls tell me, from the video you just watched, can you identify this girl a meter away from you in real life? The only way anyone can know this girl for real is if the person has previously been to this family and seen the settings in the house, the floors, and knows the girl in person as regards her structure, otherwise forget your identity theory and understand the message by the Father. I think it was specifically meant to sound a warning to other girls her age and tendencies. I have nothing further!

do you have a brain at all ? So you think everyone in here school/area has not seen the video? If anyone wants to find out all her details, its very easy

5minsmadness:


There's no Maybe about it. We punish them so they don't make the same mistakes. If a parent is afraid to punish his own child cos he believes the child will "hate" him then he is a coward and not fit to be a parent.

in other words trumatizing and scaring her for life is a fit punishment ?

AlanSugar:


I disagree with you 101%! Unless you are a regular visitor of this family, you live in the neighborhood, or this girl's bf, you can't tell her a meter apart in real life after watching this video so how is her reputation damaged for life? I think rather, the father is trying to sound a note of warning to her peers and agegroup who may be exhibiting her tendencies. I have nothing further!

na your type dey use hot electric iron to "discipline" their child

Lovexme:
[size=15pt]Youtube has taken down the video[/size].

makes absolutly no difference. The damage has already been done

Gmajor:
in other words trumatizing and scaring her for life is a fit punishment ?

I'm not in support of the video. The man could have punished her without putting it online. I am however disgusted at how we handle kids these days like thier brains are made of Akamu and they will go all to pieces cos we flogged them. That girl has slept with emeka, the gateman and the driver. I assure u, the fear of punishment was not instilled in her at an early age. If she had any fear for her father before now, she wouldn't have dared to bring a man home under his roof to have sex with her.

If truly she was going to turn out that way with or without the beating, then the least the father should do is to make it more difficult for her to turn into an ashawo as best as he can. And if that involves beating and shaming her then so be it!

Why are u people even supporting a teenage girl having sex in her father's house? So he should cuddle her in love after catching her, pat her on the back and reward her with sweets so she will know he still "loves" her and so she can run for president ?? Rubbish!

Nigeria is the way it is today because we the elite allowed agberos, killers and thieves become politicians and rule us while we sang kumbaya in our churches. Most people who were flogged by thier parents turned out very OK, and are responsible members of society. Not this rubbish generation where children are not afraid of their parents all in the name of "love" and "talk to her". Parents no longer have any authority! After all, what will u do if she misbehaves? No be talk u go talk? Worst worst some parents in the name of civilization will even give her condom sef and teach her how to have the sex well. All so they can be called "civilized ". Then when the child gets a teenage pregnancy or grows up shallow with no morals, they will blame the devil.


Nonsense!

willibounce1:
It's a big big disrespect for a small girl to bring a man to her father's house for sex. That means she is not even scared of the father. The man that also agreed to go Bleep the girl in her father's house is an animal.
The father should have dealt with the man before pouncing on the girl. If you can disgrace your father, then you should be ready for the consequences.

Those saying it is wrong don't know how annoying it is. The girl will learn her lesson the hard way.

Thank you! Where's that "give that man a medal" gif when u need it?!

babyfaceafrica:
you are the only one with brain here...wetin do the idwiot that played away match?

Lols

Gmajor:
na your type dey use hot electric iron to "discipline" their child

And you really expect me to respond to this? OK since you insist, here's my response; you are very stewpiiid!

AlanSugar:


And you really expect me to respond to this? OK since you insist, here's my response; you are very stewpiiid!

mtchew.
I dont blame you. Its the kids you'll have in future that i pity

abeg the father no try,if that girl is alive up till now...she get hrt.very senseless man did he teach the girl good morals and she wil do that?He needs to be arrestd becos he has destroyd that girl permanently,both physically,emotionally and mentally...am sure that girl has commitd suicide...my own anger nw is,where is the boyfriend?He was he allowd to go free?Did He also disgrace the boy?If no,may god giv that useless man such disgrace in the public

ITbomb:
If beating were to make someone better, Nigeria would have been a better place by now, but from what we are seeing, such embarrassment only pushes the child away from the parent

She's an embarrassment to herself

Nice one

5minsmadness:


I'm not in support of the video. The man could have punished her without putting it online.

And if that involves beating and shaming her then so be it.
[/b]Why are u people even supporting a teenage girl having sex in her father's house? [b] Rubbish


Nonsense!

The real question should be why YOU support a father asking other MEN to strip his teenage daughter with breasts and hair in her private area NAKED and flogging her.
That girl has just been exposed as fresh prey to those men and others, some of whom are sexual predators who even sleep with teenagers anyway and are still among those chastising her.
I learnt one of those flogging her was having an attention while doing so.
Do you really think that's discipline?
Those same men will still come and solicit her behind her father's back, and don't worry, the sex wont happen in his house ever again but in theirs or in short time hotels.

banmee:


Are you phucking kidding me? And 18 people liked this post. It is a reflection of the mental decay in a jacked up country. Because Nigeria is filled with animals, you have no choice but to act and think like an animal. So i understand your position. It's sad though.

my thoughts exactly , and to imagine that up to 300 idiots liked that shit shows how bleeped we are mentally . This thing pain me die I swear. I feel like giving the deranged father a beating of his life. This country is a zoo I swear.

Good day all,

I was wondering whether anyone is still following up on this very sad story, since I stumbled upon the below link shedding new light on the incident and what was supposed to have transpired (Though yet unconfirmed)

http://gossipking.co/2016/08/04/remember-the-girl-who-was-caught-having-sex-flogged-naked-by-her-dad-heres-what-really-happened-that-wasnt-her-father/

The interesting new development is that there are names of people, places and timelines mentioned. Is anyone on Nairaland able to verify this?

Please people, we should not only be here to talk about which of the Nigerian celebrities have the latest cars and fashion apparels. We should endeavour to tackle serious issues as this too. However uncomfortable it might be. We have to start from somewhere, we cannot allow such arbitrary and structural abuses to continue. We can do something!

Silence to an extent might constitute consent in some cases.

Can anyone confirm the names of the individuals and places mentioned please.

Smh im wishing this country has laws cos the amoumt of charges wey i for level agaimst this bastard man for court nor be beans......assault....encouraging child ponnoography*.....at least e for cane d pikin one on one but w come de publicize am like say ehen e de young e nor de folo other ppl daughter....smh wey police dey make them catch d man make e rot for kirikiri or ikot akpan abia......