I concur with her.. to u guys saying there are no such ladies, I disagree with u.. like an adage says, for every successful man their is a woman behind him.. in a nutshell such ladies still exist

gretblue:

May be

very funny

fellis:
Nairaland men and ladies mata sef, what if ladies don't comment? Na by force?

I don't see why ladies should comment on this thread tho. Many Nigerian men are hypocrites, you don't realize that when you and your partners start contributing equally in a relationship then you no longer have any power over her and you can no longer claim superiority. You want a woman that will build you, invest for you and assist you financially but you will never agree that you and that woman are equal.

Yimu.

The day men finally stop spending on women is the day you lose all power over them. Accept that fact first before rejoicing over what the Ugandan lady said.

So technically you're saying that all females are gold diggers! (The day men finally stop spending on women is the day you lose all power over them = all females are gold diggers), well I feel for your sorry self. I've been with chicks that can take care of themselves ( although they will ask for a little this and that few times ) I know most of them are gold diggers but not all.

Rarmarty:
I concur with her.. to u guys saying there are no such ladies, I disagree with u.. like an adage says, for every successful man their is a woman behind him.. in a nutshell such ladies still exist

Like the women those were responsible for the success of those men, all these old clichés are funny, if a research is done most of all those women came after the man's success or when the fruit is about to ripe. Only very few got a struggling man's back, unfortunately nowadays the media have programmed most women that its OK or wonderful to be a gold digger or to channel much energy and effort on the looks than their brains and as a result we have so many bimbos in the universe, its an epidemic.

My people pls are these kind of ladies still existing? I have been looking for one since I was born and I have not seen. All the ones I have chatted with are asking for either money or recharge cards as if I am the governor of CBN or a recharge card seller. Please if you know one let me know because I am interested

OlowoB:
Infant, any guy who is below 24 years has no business been involved in a relationship. It is a mere waste of time, resources and energy. If care is not taken, one's future may also be wasted. Majority of the gals below 24years at the moment are just agents of poverty, they will drain you young men. Be wise.

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My guy, you will not find them commenting in this kind of a thing... It is because naturally ,they turn billionaires to millionaires and then to thousandnaires., hundrednaires ..And finally beggarnaires

phlora:
Thank you very much... they think the 'investments' are fools, they treat them anyhow and then go for the 'bills'

Please why should I think that a lady that spends her money on me is a fool?My girl see, if I should meet such a damsel, I will love and treat her right because she is a rare gem.

NevetsIbot:

So far, Ive seen nothing that I like about her. She's all bad. her attitude became worse when she entered school. she believes she's my friend but Ion see any friend in her. I'm just tolerating her character.

No... I'm not a mysogynist. Ive got nothing against a reasonable lady. First time my bestie met with her.. He hated her straight away. She was straight down rude,disrespectful and all. Well.. that's her own hurdle to cross

Nothing has made my skin crawl lately.....but this post did (shudders)
Are you "God," ....hence knowing for sure in your "Omniscience" that she is ALL bad?
Jeez. That you could find absolutely nothing good about your friend shows you up as a super-critical, cold, unfeeling, unbending, resentful and therefore not perfect yourself. Thought about that?
Your posts reveal intelligence...but then there is this way that they are totally devoid of humour....that is some

You may not be a misanthrope, I will take your word for it,....but your dislike of this person who thinks she is your friend and obviously comes to you as a result is actually quite as chilling as if you were one, a misanthrope that is
She actually needs no enemies, does she? Not with you as a "friend". Your post has nagged at me all day., was a disturbing early morning mention..I actually deliberately allowed Saturday to pass before replying. I also thought about ignoring the mention.....but my conscience wouldnt let me

If I had magic powers...I would make her read your post..ensuring she takes her bad self far, far away from you
Not even saying she looks nice, or that she has a nice smile....nothing.
Poor, trusting girl
May Heavens give you a cause to smile, and accept, and love more
Cheers

(Here is hoping you would make me proud of you)

merahki:

lol. Actually, on the contrary, I'm not a misantrophe. You'll never find any other extroverted human like me. I love being around people and I cherish company. But I select my friends. I don't fight or keep malice. I'm way above that, neither do I judge others. The thing with this girl is just the greed she has. Dunno, she irks all my male friends. Told you she's rude, all spoilt and all.

No, I'm not God and I didnt create her. I'm not judging her. It's her life. And yeah, I can be cold sometimes and moody, blame the melancholic side of me but those feeling don't take me minutes to cast away. A person like that girl (to any guy who intends to do anything meaningful in his life) is worth staying away from.

and ... I'm humorous, loving and caring. Did I mention that I'm sooo emotional for a guy? so I'm human also and we all have our defects and that's hers. If you dont pull your anchor up, your ship won't sail fast. If you don't cast some useless baggage away, it will slow you down. If you don't pull the weeds out, It'll stunt your plants. I hope you understand me.

Thanks for understanding.

NevetsIbot:
lol. Actually, on the contrary, I'm not a misantrophe. You'll never find any other extroverted human like me. I love being around people and I cherish company. But I select my friends. I don't fight or keep malice. I'm way above that, neither do I judge others. The thing with this girl is just the greed she has. Dunno, she irks all my male friends. Told you she's rude, all spoilt and all.

No, I'm not God and I didnt create her. I'm not judging her. It's her life. And yeah, I can be cold sometimes and moody, blame the melancholic side of me but those feeling don't take me minutes to cast away. A person like that girl (to any guy who intends to do anything meaningful in his life) is worth staying away from.

and ... I'm humorous, loving and caring. Did I mention that I'm sooo emotional for a guy? so I'm human also and we all have our defects and that's hers. If you dont pull your anchor up, your ship won't sail fast. If you don't cast some useless baggage away, it will slow you down. If you don't pull the weeds out, It'll stunt your plants. I hope you understand me.

Thanks for understanding.

Tell me something nice about her
I was gonna ask for three
Just one
Thanks

You still are polite.
Thank you
Modified....this last post of yours is nice..and warm....and makes me feel better about you...

merahki:



Tell me something nice about her
I was gonna ask for three
Just one
Thanks

You still are polite.
Thank you
Modified....this last post of yours is nice..and warm....and makes me feel better about you...

for real. Honestly... If I'm to mention something nice about her... I can't. I havent seen anything nice about her. Buh physically, I could say she's OK... Pear shaped... Buh... That's not what we're looking for here. except you want me to give you three lies as her nice attributes.

Lol. Goodmorning. I didn't even see the supposed insults you thought you hurled at me.. Lol. Happy sunday

karryn:
very funny

Not at all.

thanks for such insight. what a beauty to behold.

gretblue:

Not at all.

I don hear u o

gretblue:

Not at all.

u sent me PM I suppose?

why are ladies not commenting or is there no ladies on nairaland again

Hahahahaha the comments lol

But she's absolutely right.

If a girl sticks around u just cos of wat she's gaining u r on a long thing.

If d man fails to recognise dat this may spell his financial doom......he's on a longer thing.

Ladies Be content with wat u have. Resist fake life.
look beyond wat u can see n see the big picture.
Work hard and b your sef.

Stingy guys be grinning like fish head
Giving gifts aint bad. It shld b reciprocal

Water no dey swallow whom e no see em leg.....most men dont even knw wat dey want. Dey dont even knw how to knw a potential lady *dats after many sexcapades dat left dem confused*

Be wise.

ITbomb:
I dont really understand why she said that but

Mehn, check out dat asss

sincerely you need deliverance.

OlowoB:
Infant, any guy who is below 24 years has no business been involved in a relationship. It is a mere waste of time, resources and energy. If care is not taken, one's future may also be wasted. Majority of the gals below 24years at the moment are just agents of poverty, they will drain you young men. Be wise.

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thumb up for you

NevetsIbot:
see? I havent seen any girl o. That's how one came to visit me today... First thing she said was ''I'm hungry'' i just eyed her, gave her nothing tho. She wanted to take my stuff too... impossibility... And i ain't dating her broke ass

Must you date a lady before you give her help?

The op is right but Truth be told.. Guys meet good women from days of secondary school throughout university days but Lo and behold they also play games with good women, hoping from one puvssy to the other...
Now they are tired of bn players,after breaking so many hearts , they now want good women..

Babymamas wey full everywhere due to lying tongues of their bfs.. What will u guys say about it? And later u all will go to church or mosque praying for a good wife, when uv already made another girl, second hand to d public.. U then want a good wife with no history of having kids for another man.. Who will marry yur left overs? Who will then marry yur babymamas? Ghosts, abi?

Guys better wake up.. U cant treat other good women like sh..it on yur way up and expect a wonderful wife later on in life... Theres always karma watching and waiting..

U want a good woman? Then be a good man yourself! And stop deceiving girls, thinking yur smart..

ArcToyin:

Must you date a lady before you give her help?

and should I give a money sucking friEnd anything from my money..... A useless friend at that

NevetsIbot:
and should I give a money sucking friEnd anything from my money..... A useless friend at that

It doesn't matter. If you have the capacity to help, kindly do. & if your heart is not supporting it, pocket your help. My own point is to help without expecting anything in return.

ArcToyin:

It doesn't matter. If you have the capacity to help, kindly do. & if your heart is not supporting it, pocket your help. My own point is to help without expecting anything in return.

last time I checked.... What you say isnt my business.

NevetsIbot:
last time I checked.... What you say isnt my business.

I doubt it. check again

ArcToyin:

I doubt it. check again

hey Mr. All wise. Can you stop quoting me? Thanks in adv

I hate girls dat mensturates. How can blood coming fron your BIG T0TO wet ur pants and skirt,yet u claim to be sophisticated. *Smells*

muller101:
U won't see ladies on this thread. If they read. Man bought range rover sport for girlfriend they will flood the thread like birds going on migration

Lwkmd.
Crystal clear observation and I concur.

NevetsIbot:
hey Mr. All wise. Can you stop quoting me? Thanks in adv

what is the essence of 'quote' then?

NevetsIbot:
for real. Honestly... If I'm to mention something nice about her... I can't. I havent seen anything nice about her. Buh physically, I could say she's OK... Pear shaped... Buh... That's not what we're looking for here. except you want me to give you three lies as her nice attributes.

Lol. Goodmorning. I didn't even see the supposed insults you thought you hurled at me.. Lol. Happy sunday

I missed this....I actually thought I responded
Well....many happy Sundays ahead to you

merahki:



I missed this....I actually thought I responded
Well....many happy Sundays ahead to you

and many good days ahead to you ma'am. How are ya?

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Lols, he's an example of " I'll rather kill myself than commit suicide" [/quote

Lol