ebila:

Is this a poem or an actual story?Either ay,heartbreak is wot one shud pray to experience cos if u do experience it,love will mean more wen u find it subsequently! Heartbreak doesn't kill,it makes stronger!

Deep Soul:

Omo Ibo, Pls.

You guys deserve all the bashing you get. I personall y think it's not even enough bashing.

Abeg leave Uju alone

OMO IBO:

How can being too careful stop you from getting hurt if the relationship goes sour?
i thought the whole point of being in a relationship or any relationship is 'something gives'
hahahahahahahaha
I LAUGH IN WAZOBIA
Uju, this post is riddled with hypocrisy and it counters some of the comments you've made in other threads.
i'd like to believe this is a mistake.
all women go on about how they love men but they cant stop themselves from bashing them and the slightest opportunity

Deep Soul:

So some people actually think it's a poem??

Those were my exact thots and feelings as at when I posted it.

I sort of write as a hobby and I'm pretty good at it. Mayb thats why it came out that way. But no, it isnt a poem. Not even close

Yes I agree. Love will definitely mean more

Ujujoan:

Well, if you dont expect too much, you can hardly get dissapointed can you? Something'll give, but you no longer think he's above doing the usual thing like  . . .  cheating. So when he does it, it dosent come as a shock to you!

And please how's my post hypocritical? I know I say a lot of things on NL, but sometimes I say things just for the fun of it. If you want to know the kind of person I am, that'd be impossible to tell on NL.

But like I said, I dont expect much from guys and I mean that!

I do love men . .  I see them as necessary evils!! Bashing guys is not my part-time job, its my hobby!!  

Deep Soul:

Now, Uju. That, I disagree with.

You arent God. And you dont know what the future holds really.

So take that back. Power of the tongue. . .?

OMO IBO:

DeepSoul, i no dey harangue Uju.

Infact, i think she is about the only sane chick on Nairaland.

follypimpi:

@Poster/Uju

What i wanna know is if a relationship is not working right do u expect 1 to stay in it just cos u dont wanna hurt the other party or move on regardless of the love u hve for the girl,cos @ the end of the day we are all selfish.

OMO IBO:

Do u mind telling us the real reason your  last relationship ended?
I believe there's more to what u told us.kai, You dont want us to start digging out posts. . . .do you?i guess this is relative.
what is you perceive as 'minor' is 'major' to someone else. so i'll let this slide.
at least we agree on something

posakosa:


Absolutely valid point. For me sha, moving on is not the issue. Its more of the manner in which the person breaks up with you. Is it with dignity and respect ?

follypimpi:

@Poster/Uju

What i wanna know is if a relationship is not working right do u expect 1 to stay in it just cos u dont wanna hurt the other party or move on regardless of the love u hve for the girl,cos @ the end of the day we are all selfish.

Ujujoan:

I walked out of my last relationship because I didn't think it was worth the whole wahala. I never really loved the guy anyway!

What I was telling Deep soul about didn't happen in my last r/ship but you honestly don't expect me to start spilling my guts here do you?

Chick

I dont know what you are talking about but I dont expect a guy to date me when he's not 100% he really wants to be with me. Like I said, its the way you go about it that matters.
You dont love someone and then turn around and say its not working for no reason at all. That's not love to me!!

I walked out of my last relationship because I didn't think it was worth the whole wahala. I never really loved the guy anyway!

follypimpi:


Dignity or Respect,the breakee won't see none of that while he/she's still hurting,nothing make sense to u @ that point and one seems completely blind to the other parties reason for breaking up.

OMO IBO:

hmmmmmm
I thought it was something else
Anyways, so, you had no feelings for the guy yet to went into the relationship??
I bet you've used a few choice words against guys who went into relationships just to have sex.Make we go outside?Ok, swap it for babe, woman, etc  etc
anything . . .

OMO IBO:

Uju, i don catch you.

Abeg, reconcile those comments.

follypimpi:


So if i get u right u have problems with both MEN/WOMEN saying I love u when they dont mean it,so hence they move on from the relationship cos Love never existed in the 1st place .

Ujujoan:


At least he knew why I was going into the relationship and I didnt try to sugar-coat it with love!!

follypimpi:


U make me laff   The Fact remains for a relationship to work it tkes 2 both parties is got to blv in each other,This is real life not Orlando bloom in troy.

follypimpi:


If we MEN use the line babe it's not u,it's ME we get cursed,IF we blame it on the girl we still get cruxified.I can assure u there's absolutely no gud way of breaking up,face it.


If we are upfront that we are in it for sex na wahala,If we lie about Love nah die.I don tire ooo

OMO IBO:

Ujujoan, there are just too many loopholes in your ideology of a (loving) relationship.
Disecting and reconciling them will only leave an even bigger big gash.

OMO IBO:

Wey DeepSoul,
DeepSoul, wetin this your guy do you?

Make you come start to bash all of us for the sin of one person.

Ujujoan:


I disagree with you, there's a good way of breaking up!! But it takes maturity for someone to do it. I've broken up with people before, some took it badly while some understood, but my consience is clear cos I know I did the right thing.

So you still tell a girl you love her just to have sex wiv her? How old are you sef?  

Ujujoan:

LOL

But seriously, are you saying guys dont deserve the prejudice they get from women??

follypimpi:

Now we are arriving somewhere,u can't forsee how the other party is gna tke it be it understanding or not,regardless of how matured u go about it.The whole idea of your conscience being clear is highly over rated.
Who on earth does that,Sex is too cheap to propose Love b4 they open up like a BOOK,am only being sarcastic.

follypimpi:


1936 Babe the world has changed as well as the people in it both men and women,thats a 1 off,there was no recession then .