I've been married for over 5 years now. But this issue keeps coming up between hubby and I. I try as much as possible to give it to him whenever he asks for it, but my hubby believes sex should be an everyday thing except during my period. I've told him to give me a day's break but he won't bulge. Wen sex is so frequent I feel it becomes boring, but he doesn't understand. Please how does it work for you, maybe I can learn.

Beta give it him o to avoid stories that touch

Every NIGHT

Wish I could give you answer right now, but sooner sha. I think you guys should see a counselor ok.

Ahmed0336:
Beta give it him o to avoid stories that touch

Lol SEX the oldest drug in the world.

Ahmed0336:
Beta give it him o to avoid stories that touch

you have just hit the nail at the head.... better open that kitty-cat so he'll enjoy

You ain't a Sex object. Being a wife doesn't make you lose your self worth/esteem. The best i can give is for you to just understand your man and know what works for him. Mind you, this issue can make or mar your relationship with him if not handled properly with wisdom, respect coupled with a high level of maturity and understanding. He may just need your prayers more than the S3x. Yes! Think about this properly...
Know your role in his life and act accordingly
Goodluck

I totally agree with Olasco93

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cheenway:
I've been married for over 5 years now. But this issue keeps coming up between hubby and I. I try as much as possible to give it to him whenever he asks for it, but my hubby believes sex should be an everyday thing except during my period. I've told him to give me a day's break but he won't bulge. Wen sex is so frequent I feel it becomes boring, but he doesn't understand. Please how does it work for you, maybe I can learn.

you mean you have been having sEx every day ( expect on red flag days) for the past 5 years Hmmm why do I find this hard to believe?

if this is true and not exaggerated then your hubby is taking pills. Even prostitUtes get tired and no dey do everyday except they use drugs.

he needs to see a doc for help.


YES couples should be intimate as often as they can or want, it strengthens the bond between spouses but not everyday na, na die be that oo. them no be machine na.

Immaculated:
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As often as they can. It's not just about the sex per se, its about deepening the connection between them both.

Your husband has a high sex drive, which is why he wants to do it everyday. It also shows he's attracted to you, which is a good thing. It might also be his way of showing he loves you, as men aren't so good with verbalizing those words. It wouldn't be a good idea to turn him down because he might then turn to porn, masturbation and of course, other women for sex. Speak with him again and tell him you love him and want to continue making him happy daily, but that you would also like him to be doing one thing for you everyday that you need, that would also make you happy: a house chore, helping you with the kids, cooking you breakfast or dinner, giving you a massage when the kids are asleep, or whatever else you need from him that day. This way you're both doing one thing for each other everyday, even if his own is the same everyday.

pocohantas:
Everyday? ? ?
Take him to RCCG for deliverance
#SexIsNotFood!!!

RCCG my foot!

Yieldings:
Your husband has a high sex drive, which is why he wants to do it everyday. It also shows he's attracted to you, which is a good thing. It might also be his way of showing he loves you, as men aren't so good with verbalizing those words. It wouldn't be a good idea to turn him down because he might then turn to porn, masturbation and of course, other women for sex. Speak with him again and tell him you love him and want to continue making him happy daily, but that you would also like him to be doing one thing for you everyday that you need, that would also make you happy: a house chore, helping you with the kids, cooking you breakfast or dinner, giving you a massage when the kids are asleep, or whatever else you need from him that day. This way you're both doing one thing for each other everyday, even if his own is the same everyday.

Best advise so far.

The op should heed the above counsel.

Madam are u exaggerating about the everyday sex( except red days) or seriously saying the truth? If it's the truth, I doff my cap for u! U must be doing it out of duty than pleasure then! Come, be sincere: Do u even enjoy it? Don't you get sore? Isn't it boring?
Forgive my prying, I'm trying to wear your shoes.
Tell Oga that everyday sex kills the excitement and pleasure intended for intimacy. At a point, your feelings for correct lovemaking would just die off! It would be just to please him ofcourse! I'm out o

Everyday is too much naa

RCCG convention hasnt ended sha

And please put a smile on someone's face today

Vote Iamkingzlee for Mr Nairaland abeg

Hmmm, everyday ke Ur hubby ve strength oh, while some re always complaining of tiredness everyday sex is boring, no matter how gd/sweet d person...., but u can just suck him and use ur hand to make him cum without him penetrating just to calm his body. He really need 2 ve self control, 2 much of everything is bad

Yieldings:
Your husband has a high sex drive, which is why he wants to do it everyday. It also shows he's attracted to you, which is a good thing. It might also be his way of showing he loves you, as men aren't so good with verbalizing those words. It wouldn't be a good idea to turn him down because he might then turn to porn, masturbation and of course, other women for sex. Speak with him again and tell him you love him and want to continue making him happy daily, but that you would also like him to be doing one thing for you everyday that you need, that would also make you happy: a house chore, helping you with the kids, cooking you breakfast or dinner, giving you a massage when the kids are asleep, or whatever else you need from him that day. This way you're both doing one thing for each other everyday, even if his own is the same everyday.

Wisdom!
WISDOM!
common sense is not common!
Have u always been this intelligent?

Cheenway for goodness sake follow this advice. With the same sweet voice u can also turn him down gently. A man having sex with u is NOT ALL ABOUT THE SEX as some women will have u believe. Pls read yielding's bolded post again and again biko, let it enter your sysyem before the vultures and bitter women's league arrive!

Yieldings:
Your husband has a high sex drive, which is why he wants to do it everyday. It also shows he's attracted to you, which is a good thing. It might also be his way of showing he loves you, as men aren't so good with verbalizing those words. It wouldn't be a good idea to turn him down because he might then turn to porn, masturbation and of course, other women for sex. Speak with him again and tell him you love him and want to continue making him happy daily, but that you would also like him to be doing one thing for you everyday that you need, that would also make you happy: a house chore, helping you with the kids, cooking you breakfast or dinner, giving you a massage when the kids are asleep, or whatever else you need from him that day. This way you're both doing one thing for each other everyday, even if his own is the same everyday.

May God bless you for your tots.
For those asking of I've been doing it everyday or dat I'm exaggerating. I've had to refuse him several times which always results to quarrels. But I'm tired of making him angry about dis dats y I'm asking for your thoughts.

Sex na food? Your hubby has a high libido, hope he doesn't watch pon. 3 to 4 times a week seems fine to me but every single day is too much na haba

cheenway:
I've been married for over 5 years now. But this issue keeps coming up between hubby and I. I try as much as possible to give it to him whenever he asks for it, but my hubby believes sex should be an everyday thing except during my period. I've told him to give me a day's break but he won't bulge. Wen sex is so frequent I feel it becomes boring, but he doesn't understand. Please how does it work for you, maybe I can learn.

It becomes boring when you dont experiment or try new things. Spice it up somehow, sure you can google ways.

Sex everyday is reasonable BUT he should be considerate of you and your feelings And you can also understand his needs and accomodate if ever you can. And sex is more than intercourse, you can do mouth stuff and good old lovemaking sans P to V . Lol

Its a fine tune of balance. Try not to reject his advances too frequently else...... Not good.

cheenway:


May God bless you for your tots.
For those asking of I've been doing it everyday or dat I'm exaggerating. I've had to refuse him several times which always results to quarrels. But I'm tired of making him angry about dis dats y I'm asking for your thoughts.

Unless you're not enjoying it anymore or too tired from the stress of work and child-raising, then I don't see the big deal in having sex everyday.
Your husband obviously has a higher sex drive.

How many times do you both get down in a day should be the more suitable question to ask you, if you're willing to answer that of course...
Also, how have you been coping for the past 5years?

njiasi30:
Hmmm, everyday ke Ur hubby ve strength oh, while some re always complaining of tiredness everyday sex is boring, no matter how gd/sweet d person...., but u can just suck him and use ur hand to make him cum without him penetrating just to calm his body. He really need 2 ve self control, 2 much of everything is bad

Hey dear,
Please can you vote for viz here
https://www.nairaland.com/3271417/mr-nairaland-2016-grand-finale/39
We'll appreciate your effort, thanks in advance

@Yieldings: Thumbs up

everyday ?

Thanks.

uboma:



Best advise so far.

The op should heed the above counsel.

5minsmadness:

Wisdom!
WISDOM!
common sense is not common!
Have u always been this intelligent?

Cheenway for goodness sake follow this advice. With the same sweet voice u can also turn him down gently. A man having sex with u is NOT ALL ABOUT THE SEX as some women will have u believe. Pls read yielding's bolded post again and again biko, let it enter your sysyem before the vultures and bitter women's league arrive!

cheenway:


May God bless you for your tots.
For those asking of I've been doing it everyday or dat I'm exaggerating. I've had to refuse him several times which always results to quarrels. But I'm tired of making him angry about dis dats y I'm asking for your thoughts.

Yieldings:
Your husband has a high sex drive, which is why he wants to do it everyday. It also shows he's attracted to you, which is a good thing. It might also be his way of showing he loves you, as men aren't so good with verbalizing those words. It wouldn't be a good idea to turn him down because he might then turn to porn, masturbation and of course, other women for sex. Speak with him again and tell him you love him and want to continue making him happy daily, but that you would also like him to be doing one thing for you everyday that you need, that would also make you happy: a house chore, helping you with the kids, cooking you breakfast or dinner, giving you a massage when the kids are asleep, or whatever else you need from him that day. This way you're both doing one thing for each other everyday, even if his own is the same everyday.

op come and eat this advice.