Just wondering why majority of them always rush back home to marry when there are handful of Nigerian ladies where they reside. Does it mean that none of them are wife material or what.

Bros lalasticlala. Can you answer this question?

They dont take shits!

[b]Boys will date, wine&dine even impregnate these ladies but still run back here for good old "home-loving" when marriage issues arises.

Apart from insane "family pressures" from home, it seems most, are, at heart still just akpu & ewedu boys when the chips are down .
Bone the Brooklyn swags & the Cockney accent; our socio-cultural source-points did do a few numbers on us in setting some future marital expectations &agendas for us also .

So, the situation gets further worsened when the said ladies too don't seem to realize that some changes do occur, but only trans-'generationally' and not instantaneously. So as for ur expecting Naija guys to fit the bill of your newfound, "enlightened" or "postmodern man concept, U go jonze tire !

Not many are comfortable with the extreme liberalism, feminism and women's rights practised and available to our sistahs naturalised abroad but they'll date & screw u just d same , only to dump u later or marry home-based Chichi, Enoh or Bola behind ur back!

Hence, You either get ready to search till you find that ur one-in-a-million guy OR you adjust your expectations and start learning to cook more than Chinese Noodles because if u do marry an Ewedu boy or his Akpu counterpart, my dear, you will cook.
And Cynthia, stop praying for your Mother-in-law to die . (the old woman probably attends MFM Church &she's got a few "Back2Sender" prayer-bullets for you too, in case u decide to be an assassin)!
I may be wrong sha but the fault goes both ways.

Girls: Don't nurse "unnecessary" expectations just because dat guy dey folow u do UK Masters.
Boys: Stop screwwing and "partying-hard" with those ladies if you know you'll use it to judge them later! [/b]

Every Guy have a story to tell y it doesn't work out that way.

They travel abroad, start growing wings and are no longer submissive.

If the guy does anyhow they call police

When they divorce him ,they get all his stuff

They become overexposed and carefree
They lose the African woman identity Fela spoke about

Not all though, some are just cool and virtuous.
And some of those that marry from Nigeria,they prefer leaving their wives in Nigeria so they don't have stories that touches to share!!!
Not all though,there are always exceptions to every case.

It is very simple.....choice is limited!!!!

Cos naija ladies too get wahala, and sabi fat like elephant.

Nigerian ladies are better-off in the aspect of love-making.

I have nothing to say






land for sale contact within for the price

Cos naija men like ladies they can boss around but they can't do it with the ones over there

Because Nigerian ladies over there can't win you green card

On a serious note, most are into runs & are morally bankrupt. Infact this not only applies to Nigerian girls but black American women in general (that their Nigerian counterparts in turn took after) .
Black women are perceived as rude, violent & uncultured.
The black American men over there will take a white woman over a black American woman anyday anytime.

Though in the case raised by the OP, I think the issue is more of the quest to get green card not really marriage itself

Those foreign girls get choco for head.




Talking from experience

They marry the ones that do legit hustle i.e the ones with decent jobs not the ones that turned in between their legs to their workshop

in my opinion, maybe the ladies over there are exhibitig the white man's way of life and the guys prefer to deal with cultured ladies.

Hmm

In America: I think it has something to do with a believe that they are often spoilt by the Gender equality thing (won't be loyal)

In Europe esp. Italy, Poland, Spain and Germany, There is a believe that our ladies do all sorts of illicit Jobs including Asset Marketing / Commercial sex work (Ash)

Those in Asia Any Single lady wen get mind to go Chinko fit do anything o

Different strokes for different folk, but I strongly kick against it, we all know the story , most of the girls are wild and they also have families in Nigeria looking up to them. so when they get eventually get married to a Nigerian the responsibility rest on the shoulders of the man and no man wants a liability , so it's better to come search for a better wife at home , moreover most of those girls are real hustlers, no one wants that for a wife.

wat a nice question.

Hmmm good question.

And I'm also interested in knowing why even as I know some factors responsible for it.

hmmm , not quite true . many nigerians abroad marry each other

the ones who go back to nigeria to marry end up complaining cuz d village girl dey went to marry turned out to be a rascal for house.

others who marry abroad prefer to marry oyinbo women who will help dem get green card .

Most Nnigerian ladies over there are proud.

Naija girls to dey tear eye. Even the Local ones here dey disturb not to talk of the ones wen sabi everything for International levels. Na pride dey kill our girls

The ladies residing over there are mostly spoilt brats..

I think because many Nigerian girls over there don't tolerate bullshit.

....because,most nigerians men abroad are lazy illegal immigrants,who are looking for who to leech on and/or get green card/stay permit thru such ppl.....most times,nigerian women dont posses such qualites.other times,nigerian women who posses such qualities know nigerian men's ulterior motives.so they shun the them( nigerian men) so as not to fall victims.


FACT:in nigeria,women are the major gold-diggers.in abroad,nigerian men are better gold,silver and diamond diggers.

They think most of d girls are spoilt....and so dey comeover here looking for fresh ones not knowing d ones over here are worse

Majority of Nigerian girls or ladies over there are runs babe, they fvck to live, and they don't hid it and these guys know very well what they are doing, so if they finally one to marry, the will come back here even though the ones here do fvck, it be seen as a local fvck still have some respect internationally but international fvcker don't have any more respect. They are it is finished as Jesus said.
Ka Chineke mesieee okwu
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